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Blog Action Day – Poverty Affects People in Your Own Back Yard

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Blog Action Day – Poverty Affects People in Your Own Back Yard

Blog Action Day 2008 - Poverty Affects People in Your Own Back Yard

 

Poverty is not only in countries like Thailand, Indonesia, Africa, Iraq, Afghanistan...

It's happening right here in our own back yard

America - The Land of the Free, the land with endless opportunities, living the American Dream.....

 

 

Growing up in Germany in the 70's with six brothers and one sister, mom was working in a brewery and dad was a heavy equipment operator putting asphalt on the road. We had a roof over our head, food on the table and hand-me-down clothes to wear. Money was always tight with dad working only in spring, summer and fall. I never knew our financial dilemma when I was growing up, my parents never talked about money in front of me and my siblings. Poverty was in our family, I just did not notice.

Today, I took a walk around Lakeland's Munn Park. I noticed a guy sitting on the bench reading a book with a backpack next to him. I asked him if I could sit next to him and off we were talking about life. I asked him where he came from and where he lived. He started talking about living on the streets, being homeless, staying at The Lighthouse Ministry in Lakeland when he can; being an alcoholic and that he lost his only son in a motorcycle accident a few years back only made things worse. Losing his son, he told me, was a real heartbreaker that he has not been able to get over. I commented that losing a child is worse than losing a spouse, but he would have to take that first step to turn his life around. He seemed to me that he has trouble when getting a step ahead something happens, like loss of work, he would fall down again, making it even harder to get up again. 

"It is not easy for men to rise whose qualities are thwarted by poverty." By Juvenal (55 AD - 127 AD) 

Poverty is happening in your own backyard; even here in this beautiful town Lakeland Florida, all you have to do is look around you. Poverty could be in your own neighborhood, with foreclosures on the rise, folks losing their jobs. More and more people are living one paycheck away from disaster. 

Today is Blog Action Day and the theme is "Poverty".  Please join me and thousands of others to make a difference in somebody's life by lending a helping hand. By lending a helping hand you may put food on their table, clothes on their back or even have a warm place to sleep.

 

 Written by Petra Norris - CDV TransAtlantic - Lakeland Florida

Comments(12)

Bryant Tutas
Tutas Towne Realty, Inc and Garden Views Realty, LLC - Winter Garden, FL
Selling Florida one home at a time

Petra, Poverty is indeed in our own back yards. THat was very kind of you to sit down and chat with this man. Sometime all folks need that day is a kind word and a caring heart. You never know when you willmake a difference in a persons life. Well done Petra!! 

Oct 15, 2008 09:36 AM
Kathy Clulow
Uxbridge, ON
Trusted For Experience - Respected For Results

Petra - Poverty can be as close as your neighbour, most of us are to proud to ask for help until it is to late. We tend to close our eyes to the suffering of others as we feel there is little we can do. If each of us did just one thing life would be so much better for us all. Good for you. 

Oct 15, 2008 10:05 AM
Petra Norris
Lakeland Real Estate Group, Inc. - Lakeland, FL
Realtor, Lakeland FL Homes for Sale

BB - Thank you for your kind words, it really means a lot to me. This guy was really nice, I did give him money and also told him not only to spend it on cigarettes and alcohol. I'm quite positive he took it to heart, I shook his hand and thanked him for the conversation. BTW his name was Tim and he liked my accent.

Oct 15, 2008 10:10 AM
Petra Norris
Lakeland Real Estate Group, Inc. - Lakeland, FL
Realtor, Lakeland FL Homes for Sale

Kathy - You definitely are right about doing just one thing in life. Believe me my day turned out pretty good after I spoke with Tim in the park.

Oct 15, 2008 10:15 AM
Midori Miller
Talk 2 Midori, LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Online Marketing For Real Estate Professionals

Petra

This is a great message..we just have to pitch in.goodness is contagious..even as corny as it sounds! :) 

Oct 15, 2008 10:57 AM
Yvette Smith
LONG & FOSTER - Williamsburg, VA
Realtor In Williamsburg VA, Homes for Sale

HI PETRA!

I'm so glad you did this post!!  I am going to reblog!!  It was so needed to be said!!  Thanks so much, Petra!

Oct 15, 2008 12:02 PM
Petra Norris
Lakeland Real Estate Group, Inc. - Lakeland, FL
Realtor, Lakeland FL Homes for Sale

Midori - It doesn't matter if it sound corny as long as people react and lend a helping hand

Yvette - I'm really honored that you reblog this post. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Oct 15, 2008 01:50 PM
James Wexler
wexzilla.com - Scottsdale, AZ

there are a lot of people suffering poverty these days. Though, it is  a lot less visible. no soup lines in most neighborhoods, but people are struggling

Oct 16, 2008 02:24 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Petra- what part of Germany were you from East or West?  My son graduated from High School in Germany.  Anyway, you just proved what I told Midori...poverty is a lifestyle, a mindset.  People can be broke and not think with a poor mentality.  Choices...when we have the choice of where to go for help, or can go sit in a warm library during the winter, or go to a soup line.  These are choices that many don't have. 

I don't know about your parents but I remember my Grandmother saying that people that overcame adversary had character.  I look at the Active Rainier's that have been candid, and without exception we all have character :)

Oct 16, 2008 07:16 AM
Petra Norris
Lakeland Real Estate Group, Inc. - Lakeland, FL
Realtor, Lakeland FL Homes for Sale

James - I think there are more people suffering that we don't even know, it could be your next door neighbor and you don't even know it.

 

Kathy - Well since Germany is reunited that would make me being born and raised in the "West". From what High School did your son graduated? My husband's last duty station in Germany was Mannheim, I met my husband in Grafenwoehr, if you were an Army wife and stationed in Germany you know about Grafenwoehr, which was heavily built up in recent years by all the base closures since the 1990s. 

Choices... live is full of choices, it's up to each individual what choices they are willing to make. We all have character, although most here have good character and there are also some that have bad character.

Oct 16, 2008 07:57 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Petra- My son graduated from Munich High School and lived in Bavaria.  At that time Germany was still split.  BTW I like your take on choices :)  And it's very true that some people's character is not the best .....

Oct 16, 2008 12:11 PM
Marlene Pellegrini
Norwich, CT

Yes Petra there is poverty here in this great country we call the USA.  I am having a food drive to do a little bit about it.  Here is the post's link:

Giving Thanks......By Giving to the Less Fortunate!

Please join me in have a food drive in your area.

Oct 29, 2008 06:18 AM