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PLEASE PRAY FOR TAYLOR AND HER FAMILY: A FELLOW AGENT HAS LOST A LOVED ONE

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Mortgage and Lending with Seacoast Mortgage Corporation, RI (20021119LB & 20031576LL), MA (MC2107) & CT MLO 10920

Yesterday, Monday, I received a call from an agent I have known for years.  As soon as he said "Hi", I knew something was wrong.  He informed me the local teenager who had been missing since Friday night had now been found dead 100 yards from the last place she was seen.  She had left a party alone.

The teenager is the daughter of another agent, whom I have been friendly with, also, for years.  She was 17 years old.  Immediately we question "why" and what can we do to support the loved ones left behind?  Mere words can not provide comfort to my friend or her family.  One can only offer ongoing friendship and support.  A young life has been taken away from this earth to a better place; a safer place.

May what happened to this young teenager provide a "wake-up" call to all the teenagers in this world of how precious life is and how fast it can be taken away.  As a mother of two teens, one the same age as this teen, I can understand how a tragic event like this can happen.  As much as this industry may be tough right now, NOTHING (no job, no task, no illness) compares to the challenge of raising a teenager.  The teens of this generation feel empowered and invincible and sometimes it takes a "wake-up call" for them to realize reality. 

Taylor, you have not died in vain.  You shall forever serve as a reminder to teens that life is precious and every moment counts and one should be careful every step of the way.

I found this poem for my friend, Kathi, Taylor's mom, who is suffering over this tragedy:

 

The Cord

We are connected,
My child and I, by
An invisible cord
Not seen by the eye.

It's not like the cord
That connects us 'til birth
This cord can't been seen
By any on Earth.

This cord does it's work
Right from the start.
It binds us together
Attached to my heart.

I know that it's there
Though no one can see
The invisible cord
From my child to me.

The strength of this cord
Is hard to describe.
It can't be destroyed
It can't be denied.

It's stronger than any cord
Man could create
It withstands the test
Can hold any weight.

And though you are gone,
Though you're not here with me,
The cord is still there
But no one can see.

It pulls at my heart
I am bruised...I am sore,
But this cord is my lifeline
As never before.

I am thankful that God
Connects us this way
A mother and child
Death can't take it away!

Author Unknown

 

May all of you reading this, please say a prayer today for Taylor, but especially for Taylor's family.

 

Thank you.

 

 

Ann Sabbagh

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Dinah Lee Griffey
Windermere Peninsula Properties - Allyn, WA
Managing Broker Windermere Peninsula Properties

Thank You for sharing. My nearly 16 year old was upset tonight when I told her she will not be gettigng her licencse in a month and driving an hour away. Maybe I'm not ready, but I want her to have more practice. I will have her read your blog and comment. I think that she will appreiate your words,Thank You-Dinah

Oct 21, 2008 02:55 PM
Dinah Lee Griffey
Windermere Peninsula Properties - Allyn, WA
Managing Broker Windermere Peninsula Properties

This is Alyssa Griffey, my mother is the one who's account I am writing this on. She was so moved that she showed me. Your right about the wake up call, I'm two months from 16, and I understand completely. I believe that it is hard to put in words how (and this doesn't cover it) sorrow full this situation is. I can't find words enough, and the only that I can muster, come out in a squeak! I will pray for her, every day, and I will show this to my friends. All I can say is thank you for showing me.

Oct 21, 2008 03:03 PM
real estate real estate
Providence, RI

Ann, you are nice to write a post like this. I hope the agent could recover soon. I have two daughters and can actually feel what she/he feels.

Oct 22, 2008 02:12 AM
Sandy Bliven
Re/Max South County - Westerly, RI
e-PRO, Westerly RI Real Estate

Ann, my heart and prayers go out to this mother who lost her child so tradgically.  I was brought to tears by your blog, how kind of you to remind us each day that life is such a precious commodity. We must live and enjoy each day, each second as if it were our last.  No one knows the hour or time we will be called home.  "IF only's" will never console a broken heart.  My prayers are with this family.  What a beautiful poem and legacy.......... God Bless your kind spirit and heart, you are truly a blessed person!

Oct 22, 2008 10:32 AM