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Some Words Say So Much- a lesson from an 8 year old

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Real Estate Agent with Century 21 Alliance Realty Group

Words can make such a difference in our world.

On Sunday, my 8 year old granddaughter had a soccer game with Highland United Soccer Club. Usually she plays a defensive postion for her travel team. She also plays in a recreational league where she plays in an offensive position as a wing. She is always dissappointed to be put in on defense- She wants to SCORE. On Sunday her team was up 5-0 so she got her chance- the coach put her in as a halfback, playing offense and defense. To our amazement Molly took off with speed we had never seen, usually not one of the faster kids on the field, she went after the ball got it an dribbled down the sidelines, brought it to the center and fired a dynamite shot on goal to score the teams sixth goal of the day. After that she was fired up. She was after the ball, dribbling around the other players, and making beautiful passes and had an assist.

After the game and all the high fives were said and done Molly and I were walking to the car. I told Molly I had never seen her run so fast. She said, "Oh Everett ( her older cousin) came to my practice and told me I was faster than that, so I showed him how fast I was and he said I was very fast."

Those simple words- "you are fast" changed her whole attitude and confidence level.

We are bombarded each day with words- The local and national campaigns seem to be so negative. Molly made me think- imagine how our country might react if we have some positive words coming at us- Wow think of the possibilities!

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Barbara Carter NYS Licensed Associate Broker

Century 21 Alliance Realty Group
Route 9 Wappingers Falls NY
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Comments(9)

Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

Hi Barbara, Congrats to Molly.  When you hear positive words they can move mountains. 

I have missed you so much.  Either I have been busy or not feeling well when you have posted and I have missed the past few.  I just did a quick read of recent posts and see that there have been some exciting new things happening in your world.  Do you have time during the week next week for coffee or lunch or are you tied up with the preschool?  Let me know. 

Oct 22, 2008 01:02 AM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Barbara,

Great story! These are the years when self confidence needs to be instilled in children, and Molly seems to have received a dose!!! Thanks,   Fran

Oct 22, 2008 03:12 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Hi Barbara, I came to you from Paddy's post and loved your message.  I CAN imagine actually how wonderful it would be if we focused on the positive but some people miss the rainbows--they see only black or white.  What a shame, there's so many perspectives they're missing.  Molly sounds like one smart child!

Oct 22, 2008 01:43 PM
Harley Ramsey
Keller Williams - Chatsworth, CA
Chatsworth, CA Real Estate

Aww, speaking of fast...they grow up much too fast!  My little soccer girl is now a senior in high school and I am enjoying each game as if it were the last.....  Enjoy!  Cheers, Harley

Oct 22, 2008 02:09 PM
Barbara Carter
Century 21 Alliance Realty Group - Highland, NY
Serving Your Real Estate Needs in the Hudson Valle

Paddy- I have missed you too- Hey we got some great free press this week in the local paper! Yippee. I am working pretty much all the time- but would love to get together.

Fran- It was amazing to see! Go Phillies! ( I can't believe I just wote that )

Carole- I am glad you came over from Paddy's blog- Her and I think very much alike! The power of positive thinking!

Harley- When I think that these little soccer stars are my granddaughters it is surreal- It seems their Mom was just that age- Absolutlely enjoy every second of it!

 

Oct 23, 2008 01:25 PM
Harold "Hal" Place
A1 Connection Realty, Inc. - Sun City Center, FL

Morning Barbara,

Always refreshing to read a success story. Your granddaughter has a wonderful attitude. ashe comes by it honestly.

Congratulations to Molly. Thanks for sharing the story.

Oct 23, 2008 09:48 PM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Barbara - first off, congrats to Molly, both on her goal and on her great play. Midfield, halfback, takes a lot of skill, speed and understanding to play. It's where I always put my very best players when I was coaching.

It also goes to show the power of peer words and thoughts and the enormous affect that they can have, for good or not.

Oct 23, 2008 10:09 PM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team

Attiude is everything!

Oct 23, 2008 10:21 PM
Barbara Carter
Century 21 Alliance Realty Group - Highland, NY
Serving Your Real Estate Needs in the Hudson Valle

Thank you everyone for commenting! Molly read "her" blog and the comments she was very excited!

Hal- I love to write the success stories- we need to have morfe good news in the world! Thanks!

Mike- The eight year olds are fun to watch- they still have that "ball magnet" thing going on and need to be reminded to get in their postions but they love to play! Thanks

Norma- Absolutely!

Oct 25, 2008 09:39 AM