Over and done with the, "I cant's". Why can't you? Do you really try?
What do you mean you can't? Is that really ever a situation in your life? If it is...move on to the postive side of Real Estate! Hurry!!! and catch up!
Reasons to change your behavior:
#1. Have a positive attitude. Get up every day with a purpose, after all everyone is here for a reason...live and learn.
#2. If you are depressed, and get involved with depressed people, you will become the same...distance yourself from those types of people. Positive attitudes breed success.
#3. You can, through self discipline, surround yourself with others...like the successful agents in your office. Live and learn their attitudes. That will amaze you!
#4. Read, live and learn through the best of the best agents on AR, there is so much information here. Read the positiveness and the great information on AR...then use it!
#5. Change your life style...get up every day with a purpose...if you don't have a purpose, create one. Create one you say? Yes, find a good reason, or find a purpose to get up and have a smile on your face and change your life. Find a reason to make yourself happy, find your niche.
#6. Help someone else...it will make you feel better. Yes, I said, make an effort to help a friend in need...Giving of yourself creates a positive feeling and will make you smile...if creates good endorphins.
#7. Do something nice for someone else...someone who is ill, someone who needs a friend, someone less fortunate than you...and yes they are right in front of you on a daily basis.
#8. Make someone dinner who cannot provide for themselves. Have a friend over for dinner or take a dinner to a friend.
#9. Find a home for someone homeless.
#10. Smile in the morning...after all, you woke up to a brand new day. Thank someone for that...after all...it's a new day and you can make someone else happy...if you are.
#11. Help your family or relatives...support them through thick and thin. Wouldn't you like reciprocation?
#12. Say, "I can", not, " I can't "...why? because you can!
#13. Have a new attitude!
#14. Give your time to help a friend, on no uncertain terms...wouldn't you like them to help you as well?
#15. Say something nice to someone, why, because it will make both of you smile. Smiling takes far less facial muscles then a frown.
#16. Volunteer...anywhere, it's a great feeling to do, rather than to receive.
#17. Join a group where you can make a difference. Perhaps helping children without a parent, perhaps helping an elderly person go to the grocery store, perhaps just driving a friend to a doctor's appointment.
#18. Help the elderly, maybe just being a friend for a day.
#19. If you're religious, say a prayer for someone else, don't ask for favors for yourself...ask for help for others.
#20. Help those who cannot help themselves, then thank heavens....you can.
Don't think you can't, think you can! Then prove to yourself that you have a purpose in life...
So many times we forget, we are here to help one another...and that we are here for a reason.
We can make statements, we can succeed, we are here for one another!
Don't you think?
(Copyright © 2008 Karen L. Monsour All Rights Reserved.)