Well, I need to buckle down and  open my mind and my heart.  Welcome new experiences.  Meet new people.  Not expect perfection from myself nor anyone else:
Perfection does not exist in an imperfect world.

I am responsible for my own happiness and contentment
and I will do things that make me joyful, I will admire the beautiful wonders of this world and listen to my favorite music, pet a kitten or a puppy,
soak in a bubble bath . . .
pleasure can be found in the most simple of gestures

I will glorify my Lord and give Him thanks and praise for all that He has given to me.  I will honor Him and seek His will in all that I do.