"Love Makes the World Go Around," Hollies, 1974

    Announcing the marriage of
    James Louis Frimmer & Russel Ray

    both members of the

    ActiveRain Community of Real Estate Professionals


    Date: Thursday, October 30, 2008

    Time: 2:30 p.m.

    Place: County Administration Center, 1600 Pacific Highway, Room 273, San Diego, California

    Why: Because we love each other. After 14½ years together, the last four as Domestic Partners registered with the State of California, just being together or being registered as Domestic Partners DOES NOT provide the legitimacy, recognition, government benefits, and support that full marriage does. With full marriage in California, there will be no entity in

    • California,
    • Connecticut,
    • Massachusetts,
    • Belgium,
    • Canada,
    • Israel,
    • France,
    • Netherlands,
    • Norway,
    • South Africa, or
    • Spain,

    that provides services to the public (hospitals, etc.) that can deny us the right to be with each other and care for each other in time of need to the full extent of the law.

    We also believe that, in this time of financial crisis for individuals and governments of all sizes, governments should be helping loving and committed couples support and care for each other as they grow old together in order to keep them from relying individually on the public welfare system. That support and care can most easily and fully be conveyed through the institution of marriage.

    Our loving and committed relationship should be equally as valued by society, if not more so, than Britney Spears' 48-hour drunken marriage or the 50% of marriages that end in divorce.

    Our getting married has no effect on the marriage of any other individual, nor on the institution of marriage; if anything, it strengthens the institution of marriage.

    Best wishes to everyone for health, happiness, peace, prosperity, and


    "Love Makes the World Go Around," Hollies, 1974 

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    39 Comments on I'm getting married to another ActiveRain member

    OCT
    27
    2008
    327,859 Points Outside Blog

    Hi Jim;

    Congratulations and all the best of luck.....................................

    6:59pm • #1
    112,133 Points 2 Featured Posts Localism Sponsor

    Congratulatins to you both - May you enjoy many years of happiness!

    7:00pm • #2

    Jim & Russel,

    CONGRATULATIONS!!! PLEASE BE HAPPY!

    Warmest Regards,

     

    7:03pm • #3
    161,600 Points 1 Featured Post Outside Blog

    Jim and Russel, Congratulations! I wish you the very best always!

    7:06pm • #5
    140,267 Points 1 Featured Post Outside Blog

    Well that is just wonderful news. Congratulations!

     

     

    7:10pm • #6

    Jim and Russel,


    Congratulations!  I wish the two of you many more years of happiness together!

    7:20pm • #7
    208,467 Points 7 Featured Posts Outside Blog

    Thats really cool! I am very happy for you and cant wait until the day this is legal in every state in America.

    7:37pm • #8
    108,954 Points 8 Featured Posts

    Congratulations guys! And I was certain Jason and I were going to be the first AR wedding. Well, we did meet here, so maybe the first with that distinction. I am thrilled for you both and wish you a lifetime of happiness together!!

    7:37pm • #9
    Hit Router

    Congratulations. my partner and I got married in Massachusetts back in 2004 after it became legal there. This coming January we will be celebrating 20 years together. Kevin and I wish you and Russel many happy returns of the day and many happy years to come.

    7:47pm • #10
    209,205 Points 16 Featured Posts Outside Blog

    Jim and Russel,

    Congratulations! What a beautiful announcement .....it's filled with love and happiness.  Here's to the both of you and a zillion happy, healthy, prosperous years together.

    Jo

    7:48pm • #11
    210,718 Points 1 Featured Post Localism Sponsor Outside Blog

    Hi Guys, I've enjoyed knowing you here on the Rain and wish you both all the best life has to offer !

    7:52pm • #12

    Hey guys Congrats from the East Coast. Wish both health wealth and happiness.........

    8:05pm • #13

    Jim and Russell:

    good for you - Congratulations.

     

    8:11pm • #14

    Congrats guys!

    8:28pm • #15
    133,651 Points 1 Featured Post

    Congratulations to you both! Enjoy many more years of happiness with each other!

    10:26pm • #18
    10 Featured Posts

    Awesome! Congrats again, as I posted on Russel's blog!  Hope it's a wonderful day for you and you have many many many more years of love!

    10:37pm • #19
    OCT
    28
    2008
    523,108 Points 25 Featured Posts Outside Blog

    Congratulations Jim... I'll be looking forward towards seeing the wedding album on one of your posts...

    4:15am • #20

    Jim - I just wrote on Russell's blog too. Congratulations. I wish my partner of 12 years could be there to celebrate with you two. Hugs from Paradise!

    7:12am • #21
    178,025 Points 2 Featured Posts Outside Blog

    How wonderful... You have answered another question about you I had. Why you and Russel shared the similar formats on your blog.  The bottom links and the "I'll read your blog warning... Have to admit, Jim I thought you copied Russell and was wondering why he did not complain. Now it might be that you share more in life than a blog format, congratulations and many happy years to both of you!!!

    7:47am • #22
    394,682 Points 9 Featured Posts Localism Sponsor Outside Blog

    Jim:  Congratulations!  Make sure you take some pics to share with us.  My hubby and I tied the knot at the local courthouse.  Will never forget that day.

    10:38am • #23
    3 Featured Posts

    Jim & Russel, congratulations and I wish you many more years of happiness together.

    'lmo

    11:14am • #24
    234,324 Points 5 Featured Posts Outside Blog

    Best wishes to you and Russel.....I am very excited for you both!

    1:15pm • #25
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    Dear Jim & Russel,

    Best wishes for a long and healthy life together!

    Congratulations!

    Sincerely,

    Caren

    5:06pm • #26
    254,810 Points 14 Featured Posts Outside Blog

    How sweet Jim.  Yea Love!  Much happiness to you & Russell.  KM

    10:51pm • #27
    OCT
    29
    2008
    2 Featured Posts

    Congratulations, Jim. Wishing you the best of health, good spirits, success and lots of fun together!

    2:24am • #28

    Best wishes to you both - and many blessings for the years ahead!

    4:25pm • #29

    I certainly hope that the cake topper will be blond. 

    5:22pm • #30
    332,546 Points 16 Featured Posts Localism Sponsor Outside Blog

    Jim and Russel, Congratulations to you both - May you enjoy many years of happiness! I was hoping Russel would have chosen a Beatle's song though...We are all very happy for you!

    5:31pm • #31

    All the best to your both!

    10:25pm • #32
    OCT
    30
    2008

    Wow! 14 and 1/2 years!  I wish you both all the best in the world. May the next fifty be as good.  Congratulations!

    12:10am • #33
    OCT
    31
    2008

    Hi Jim and Russel, Congratulations! I wish you the very best....Doug

    4:02am • #34
    NOV
    01
    2008
    125,042 Points 3 Featured Posts Localism Sponsor

    Hey, Congratulations!  I thought this might be in the cards once I realized that you both had the same kitty.  Clearly you already have a family with Russel, even if your baby is a fur-faced one.  I have enjoyed both of your blogs for some time.  My husband and I are cat people and one of ours looks a lot like your little cat - I always do a double-take when I see her, thinking it's our Dolly. Because of how it would impact a few of our friends, and because it's plain old discrimination, we will vote no on 8.

    12:51am • #35
    134,415 Points 2 Featured Posts Outside Blog Hit Router

    No on 8...you betcha.  Say, congratulations on finding a partner that you want to spend your life with.  My honey and I celebrate 40 years next year and it's amazing that we have grown and LOVE each other today more than ever.  Are there hard times, of course, that's why and how we appreciate each other so much.  It's you and me against the world, right?  Hoping you find everlasting happiness.  And going to have to start reading some of your blogs, the titles are catchy and your writing kwirky (in a good way of course).  Love it. Take care,

    1:18am • #36
    3 Featured Posts

    Congradulations you two.

     I wish I lived in california so I could vote NO on Prop too!

    2:55am • #37
    NOV
    09
    2008

    Jim and Russel, I sure hope Prop 8 can be overturned! One of my best friends and her partner have been together for 18 years, but she couldn't get health insurance through her wife's employer. You and all gay married couples deserve equal rights.

    All the best,

    Robin

    11:15am • #38
    DEC
    07

    The politics of Prop 8 do not compute in my brain!  It's all about 2 people sharing a life together!

    I have been happily married for 33 years, I wish you that many and more.  Congrats

    1:59am • #39

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