Whether we are Realtors, Stagers, Loan Officers, Inspectors, Title Company Escrow Officers or others working in the housing industry I sometimes think that the work is mainly a vehicle just to interact with people in life. You could be shining shoes and it would be the same thing.
Namely we are in many instances Putting People Back Together One Piece At A Time.
What I mean by that is that under the surface many people have broken lives of one sort or another. We may be this way ourselves. Pain, grief, divorce, stress, significant problems of health, finance or relationship. We all are human. But as we interact with our clients they become real. They are not ONLY there to find that house. True, we are not marriage counselors or financial advisors, but we are this - LISTENERS.
Every one has a story to tell, whether they be young and energetic or in the twilight of their years. There are always stories of pain if you hang around long enough. Life has its natural share of bumps and bruises.
By being a good listener, an interesting thing takes place. Healing. The broken pieces seem to come together better. What was the fractured becomes sewn back together. I have heard stories from buyers on the second trip looking at houses of three family members who drowned in a lake. And this from smiling faces in my vehicle. The pain was there. Talking about it completely helped.
If you are a Stager or Inspector and have these tangential conversations off business with clients, be patient with them and LISTEN. Respond with a few questions to probe a bit deeper and go back into a significant listener mode. Healing, trust me, takes place. Pieces go back together, one at a time.
It isn't that hard to be caring in the world. Some of it just takes slowing down, opening your eyes, keeping quiet and listening carefully with both ears. Look into another's eyes. Read in your mind what you see. Putting people back together is about love.
They will know with you that they have found a safe place to land.
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