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Burning Your Fire Brighter

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

Dog and FireIn working with many people lately I find too many down in the dumps. Not that I don't have my challenging days like anyone else but I try to keep getting up off the mat and live to fight again another day. Here are some tips and tricks if you will to keep your spirit up and keep you

           Burning Your Fire Brighter.

Listen to lively, inspirational, upbeat music. Turn it up loud till you feel it in your bones.

Beat your brains out with exercise till you feel the runner's high.

Incorporate much light into your life. Sunshine, bright light indoors, bright colors in rooms.

Do something you really enjoy doing. Do it over and over again. Soak it in. Think about it.

People - surround yourself and make contact with the people you need in your life that allow soft landings for you, make you feel special, those that you enjoy touching on a regular basis or being with that make life worth living. You know who they are. Don't make this harder than it is.

Laugh constantly. Find the others that make YOU laugh. You make them laugh. Practice this till this becomes a natural way of living for you.

Dance - don't knock it till you try it. This has become a lost art form for many younger people and we need to all find this at some point in our life. It is such a fun way to connect with others and lift spirits.

Play. If there's one thing I will harp on throughout what I write, and that is to NEVER lose the ability to play in your life. All work and no play, well you know what we call Jack. Play with pets. Play with children. Play a sport by yourself, with a team, or against competition. Play a musical instrument. For God sake, please play. Play a video game and get creamed by an eight year old. Just the sheer act of playing will uplift your spirit.

Try any or all of these ideas or give me your best shot ones with your comments. But your spirit CAN be lifted with a little focus today. I am here to give you a booster shot to get you going again in the right direction.

NO FROWNS ALLOWED is my motto. I best be seeing your smiling, laughing, and happy self around these parts real soon. Anything else, and I am going to have to come over there and tickle you.

Jamie Dumaine-Russell
RE/MAX Alliance - Branford, CT

Gary - You always lift my spirit with every post you write!  I love to laugh, play and constantly have music blaring from the radio...and often find myself singing and dancing around the house.  Thanks for making me smile today! :-)

Nov 01, 2008 12:02 PM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Gary, you are so right.  I even see people that should be happy drug down by the company they keep.  SMILE and the world smiles with you.  Cry and you water down your beer!

Nov 01, 2008 12:37 PM
Ann Hayden 636-399-7544
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties-St. Louis Missouri - Des Peres, MO
SelectAnn.com

Gary,

You have a great way of looking at life.  I am trying to put on my smile and keep it there...I promise.  Been a rough couple of weeks. 

Thank you for the inspiration,

Ann

Nov 01, 2008 12:40 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Gary, You have such wonderful ideas!  I miss the sunshine the most but boy, do I turn up the music :)   And you're right, it's back to exercising regularly!  Thanks, I needed a bit of motivation.

Nov 01, 2008 01:02 PM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team

Hang around positive people and avoid all negative thoughts - when they start to creep in do something positive and fun.

Nov 01, 2008 01:48 PM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

Laughter is the best medicine, it has always kept me in line.

Nov 01, 2008 02:24 PM
Don Wixom
RE/MAX Executives Nampa, ID - Nampa, ID
"Looking out for your next move..."tm

Great stuff Gary!  It is amazing how external forces CAN make a difference on the INTERNAL spirit!  It takes focus and desire!  Great post!  I'm going to open the blinds so that sunrise shines i!

Nov 01, 2008 02:26 PM
Laurie Logan
Keller Williams Realty, Inc., Broker Associate - Madison, WI
South Central WI Real Estate

Hey Gary,
Terrific post - Enthusiasm is Contagious.  By staying up ourselves, we bring others up as well.

Nov 01, 2008 02:59 PM
Laura Watts
Positive Properties, LLC - Laurinburg, NC

Gary-Your optimism never surprises me. You are full of inspiration to everyone. Thanks for another great blog.

Nov 01, 2008 03:33 PM
Mary Warren
Las Vegas, NV

Thanks Gary for some great tips and reminders - we all need to just be more positive!

Nov 01, 2008 04:12 PM
The Somers Team
The Somers Team at KW Philadelphia - Philadelphia, PA
Delivering Real Estate Happiness

Gary - you rock !!!  Your posts are so positive and inspriational.  I definitely need to exercise more as it always pumps me up and gets my head clear.  I love what you say about music, dance and play !  So true - thanks for the reminder and the inspiration !

Nov 02, 2008 12:11 PM
Cindy Marchant
Keller Williams Indy NE 317-290-7775 www.marchantteam.com - Carmel, IN
"Cindy in Indy" , Realtor, Fishers Real Estate

Hi Gary, been away awhile but came looking for you today and was not disappointed.  I would add to your list...Do something for someone else. 

Nov 02, 2008 01:01 PM
Carol Culkin
Diamond Partners Inc - Overland Park, KS
Overland Park Residential Real Estate

Gary - Okay! No frowns. So, I had a lively and happy weekend. Party at my house Friday night and a day trip to NY City Saturday. Then, a lazy Sunday! I'm worried about he economy like the next person (and my livelihood) but no amount of fretting is going to change the world!  

Nov 02, 2008 02:15 PM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

I thought it was a pig roast -I'd better put on my glasses ! lol.........and go read it again! :-)

Nov 02, 2008 03:58 PM
Michael Sahlman
www.HomesForVIPs.com - Keller Williams Realty - Miami Beach, FL
e-PRO - Miami Beach Florida Luxury Homes

Great post Gary. Many of the things you suggest are excellent. It is easy to forget to do some of these simple things when you are down.

Nov 02, 2008 09:50 PM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Hi Gary: I believe humor can get you through just about anything. There is nothing so sacred or somber that you can't find a way to make people laugh.

elizabeth weintraub sacramento real estate agent in land park

Nov 03, 2008 05:46 AM
Patricia Beck
RE/MAX Properties, Inc., ABR, GRI, SRES - Colorado Springs, CO
Colorado Springs Realty

Exercise is necessary, it is such a good outlet for stress.

Nov 04, 2008 12:19 AM
Team Honeycutt
Allen Tate - Concord, NC

You always provide such inspiration in your post. Thank you. I am a part-time dance instructor and can honestly say that there is much truth to the dancing part of your post as well as "feeling the music in your bones!" Happy days to all.

Leslie

Nov 04, 2008 05:59 AM
Team Honeycutt
Allen Tate - Concord, NC

Great reminders!  Friends, family and laughter get you through the rough times.

Nov 04, 2008 09:12 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Awesome post my friend. I couldn't agree more. I love it. I made a copy of it to keep where I can see it when I feel a frown coming on.  I will be in charge and there will be happy faces instead of frowns. <SMILE>

 

Nov 01, 2009 09:16 AM