This might sound a bit odd but I wanted to take some time to discuss the importance of NOT taking photos. In fact, I think this is an crucial topic that often gets lost among the 'which lens' and 'how do I improve' conversations.

So what are the main reasons behind this (somewhat) strange assertion coming from (of all people) a professional photographer?

• When shooting, the camera is both literally and figuratively between you and the subject. The quickest way to step outside of the action is to take a picture. You are no longer part of the event itself but instead you are recording that event. You are likely missing some or all of the experience. This is particularly relevant when you think about family events. Does this mean you shouldn't take photos? Heck no! But I do suggest you take your important snaps, then put the camera away for a while and simply enjoy the participation.

Below is a shot of my youngest with a good family friend (left). Next to it is a photo I didn't take of my two sons playing at the same party - why not? Because I was playing with them!

• 'Mental Photographs' are an important part of your path to better photography. A huge part of improving your photographic skills is, well...looking. Looking at other peoples photography, looking at your own photography, and perhaps most importantly looking at the world around you. I believe there is a real benefit to simply letting images filter down into your subconscious.  Doing so means your creative 'pool' has a large amount of information in it, leading to better photos! When you take a photo it tends to 'cement' itself into a sort of objective reality that in some ways can reduce it's impact on future work. This might sound a little strange but give it a try. Next time you see something you want to photograph (but don't have time or a camera) - take note of what makes the 'shot' work. Do this enough and these elements will find their way into your process for future photos!

Below is a dusk shot of a residence that garnered high praise from the design team that commissioned it (right). On the left are the photos I didn't take all those times at dusk when I instead focused on simply observing differing light and color qualities and how they influence photographs. I couldn't have made the image on the right without the (non) images on the left.

• Memories can be a much better 'lens'...than an actual lens!  We all know the human memory is an imperfect mechanism at best. But that's also part of its charm! Our memories allow us to sift out the bad stuff, re-experience the good stuff...and honestly we probably embelish the latter - but it all becomes part of our personal story and that is a very good thing. Sometimes an objective measure like a photo can actually detract from that process. I think in some cases people also hold on more tightly to memories that go unrecorded because, whereas they may otherwise assign them less importance because they know they have a 'photo backup'. If this sounds like a strange concept...well, it probably is but I'm convinced. ;)  

Below is one of my favorite early shots of my oldest. As much as I like it, it doesn't hold a candle to my memories of time with him - my favorite of which I have no photos of and I'm glad of it. :)

 Cheers, -B