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Sharing the "Stories of My Life" With my Kids

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Austin Texas Homes, LLC 453249

Our kids' bedtime routine has long been my domain, as it were.  My wife homeschools our three kids, so she doesn't get many breaks.  When it's time for bed, I am in charge of getting the two older kids ready, including the tooth brushing, stories, prayers, and tucking them in.  Sometimes, it involves keeping them in their rooms, or getting a snack or drink for my daughter, who seems to require less sleep than the rest of us.

We had gone through a period when they didn't want me to read to them, but then they suddenly showed renewed interest in having "story time" again.  Recently, I decided to forgo reading a book to them - instead, I told them a story from my own childhood.

THEY ABSOLUTELY LOVED IT!

Now, when it's getting close to their bedtime, my seven-year-old daughter starts jumping around frenetically, while saying, "I want stories from your life!  Stories from your life!"

Who knew that my life was so entertaining?  I am considering writing a book about my life now, if for no other reason than the fact that my kids love these stories so much.

Last night, we talked about the fact that I used to listen to records all the time when I was their age

Yes, records. 

Vinyl records. 

I feel ancient thinking about it now.  At any rate, I explained to them about how the smaller records were 45's and the bigger ones were 33 1/3's because of the rotational speed per minute of each one.  I am not old enough to have listened to 78rpm records.  I put that last sentence in because I know that someone will mention the fact that I am young compared to them, and that they remember the days before television or shoes, or something.  :)

If you're interested, I even wrote a post once on AR about my record collection from when I was 7 or 8 years old:

Transported by Song - A Look Back on My Collection of Records from 1977-1978

Truth be told, I still have at least 200-300 records here in the house, and a functional turntable, although it doesn't get a lot of use these days.

One night a couple of weeks ago, I taught my kids the "Fishheads" song from the late 1970's, which I used to hear while roller skating with my friends.  Does that make me a bad father, or a fun dad?  Either way, we had a good time.  I can actually hear my son singing it RIGHT NOW downstairs!

I have shared a lot of funny and interesting stories with them lately, along with a few that are a little scary or gross (like the reasons for some of the scars that I now have).   

I guess it keeps me on my toes each day, since I am forced to be creative about what we talk about and share at night.  Today, they have both requested that we listen to some records, so I think that's on the agenda for later.

Now, it's time to start on that book.

 

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Kevin J. May
Florida Supreme Realty - Hobe Sound, FL
Serving the Treasure & Paradise Coasts of Florida

I've memorized the words and can't get "Fishheads" off my mind.  Oh well, going out to dinner now, guess what I'm having.  Thanks Jason!

Nov 07, 2008 09:01 AM
Jennifer Fivelsdal
JFIVE Home Realty LLC | 845-758-6842|162 Deer Run Rd Red Hook NY 12571 - Rhinebeck, NY
Mid Hudson Valley real estate connection

My kids use to love hearing about my life.  This is a great way to becoming even closer.  Enjoy these days children grow up fast.

Nov 07, 2008 09:08 AM
Heidi Marshall
Innovative Real Estate Group, LLC - Erie, CO

Awe, this was very nice to read. My husband and I take turns reading to our daughter, I used to love hearing my Dad read "Green Eggs and Ham" over and over. It was the first book I read on my own. Too bad my daughter doesn't have the same taste but when it comes to "The Kiss That Missed", she pretty much reads it to me. I love making memories, this was a great blog, nice job!

Heidi :)

Nov 07, 2008 09:11 AM
John Cannata
214-728-0449 http://TexasLoanGuy.com - Frisco, TX
Texas Home Mortgage - Purchase or Refinance

Very cool.  That is something they will remember FOREVER!  Congratulations on taking the time at least once a day to spend with just the kids.  Many parents get far too busy to really get involved.  I'm not placing it on the parents, but some just have to work double jobs or pull extra shifts.  Plus, you are sharing stories about yourself so the kids know you even better.  Although your routine is not my routine, I think it would be a lot of fun to share MY stories instead of always sharing stories in a book.  They do tend to like my stories, especially when something funny happened to me.  They seem to laugh harder when I get injured or embarrassed some how.  :-)

Nov 07, 2008 09:25 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

You are such a good daddy and husband for taking care of bed/story/bath/brush teeth time.  More dads need to do this.  I'll buy your book when it's published by the way. 

What was your very first record/album Jason?  My first 45 was Carly Simon, my first LP was Donny Osmond.  I think it was 1973.

Nov 07, 2008 10:39 AM
Jamie Dumaine-Russell
RE/MAX Alliance - Branford, CT

Jason - You really took me down memory lane with this post.  While my dad was not around a lot the time but the time we did get to spend with him was extra special when we would play those 45 records and yes even his collection of 78's of Frank Sinatra, Bing Crosby, Glen Miller, and Tommy Dorsey just to name a few and listen to the stories of his childhood.  Those memories I will cherish forever just as your children always will too.

Nov 07, 2008 12:26 PM
Steve Shatsky
Dallas, TX

To this day I still remember the stories my dad would tell me about his life growing up.  Our parent's lives, before they were parents, provide wonderful insights into them as people, not as parents!  Way to go Jason!

Nov 07, 2008 01:33 PM
Ginger S
Wilkinson & Associates, Wilmington NC - Wilmington, NC
Wilmington NC Real Estate & Relocation~

Jason, This is a terrifc way for your kids to learn history lessons and get to know you as a human being. I used to love these stories growing up, although I did not hear enough of them.

Albums, I can't believe I left them all behind and my top of the line turntable when we moved. My girlfriend had said to me you are not bringing your albums are you? After most everything was packed and I could not lift another finger~ Well I just dumped them ! Bad decison~

Nov 07, 2008 03:58 PM
Anonymous
Anonymous

I think that means you are officially older than dirt!  Except I remember palying 78's, so how old does that make me??

Nov 07, 2008 04:05 PM
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Alisha Harrison
John L. Scott, Belfair - Belfair, WA
Allyn, Belfair and Hood Canal real estate expert!

My daughter is just shy of 6 months old (do they keep growing up this fast??) and I already tell her stories and sing her songs that I remember from my childhood... I plan to continue, your blog is inspiring! ~A:)

Nov 07, 2008 04:30 PM
Neal Bloom
Brokered by eXp Realty LLC - Weston, FL
Realtor CRS-Weston FL Real Estate

We sold a lot of that stuff to an antique dealer...we simply didn't have room for it so they bought most of it and we donated the rest...we even had a victrola that we gave them too.....from the 50's.

Nov 07, 2008 11:42 PM
Denise Williams
Benchmark Realty - Brentwood, TN

Keep up the good work. My son was 15 months old when my Grandfather passed away and I hear him tell stories about my Grandfather and they are my memories that I shared with him his whole life and he now repeats them as if they were his own. I Love it as my Grandfather may live on forever!

Nov 08, 2008 12:13 AM
Elizabeth Nieves
The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group - Durham, NC
Bilingual Raleigh - Durham North Carolina Real Estate Team

I LOVE IT! My girls have a similar reaction to my stories...and they are much older. I guess we are doing something right. The most important thing of all is the connection and the communication...which builds character. You and Pam are the BEST! GBU!

Nov 08, 2008 01:55 AM
Cecily Parks
iMove Group, Knipe Realty NW, Inc. - Salem, OR

My Father read to us every night or told us a fabulous tale from his childhood. I'm not sure all the stories were true or just tinged with truth but I still remember them all and will cherish those memoris forever.

Nov 08, 2008 02:11 AM
Ann Hayden 636-399-7544
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties-St. Louis Missouri - Des Peres, MO
SelectAnn.com

Jason,

My hat off to you and your wife for homeschooling.  What a great thing to do for them! 

Keep up the good bedtime stories,

Ann

Nov 08, 2008 03:11 AM
Mandi Perkins
Pioneer Title Agency - Pinetop Lakeside, AZ

Records LOL....I don't think my kids even know what they are! My boys love stories about when I was little or even about when they were babies. Thanks for the smile you put on my face this morning!

Nov 08, 2008 06:19 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

45 record insertWell Jason, you know that I certainly KNOW what 45's and 33's are!!  I can't say that I remember the 78's though but, I DO remember the records and I DO still have a turntable!  It needs a new 'needle' though but, I have tons of great albums still--Grand Funk Railroad!, Led Zepplin, Billy Joel, Van Halen, Elton John...  The list goes on (can you believe Grand Funk--that was my LAST 8-track too!) and I have no idea what the quality of the records is anymore but, I'm anxious to hear how yours sound.  Thanks for the trip down memory lane--I know your children LOVE to hear these stories. 

Debe in Charlotte

Nov 08, 2008 06:52 AM
Rebecca Levinson, Real Estate Marketing and Online Advertising Consultant
Real Skillz-Clear Marketing for Your Real Estate Vision - Lake Geneva, WI

Jason,

I think that's great that you share those stories with your kids.  I do the same with mine and they just seem to dig them.  They beam from ear to ear, many times they will poke fun....it's all good and all sharing and it makes mommy very human. 

I am finding that even some of my younger stories of humiliation or jubilation to be of help in talking and guiding my pre-teen daughter.

Nov 08, 2008 09:25 AM
Mary PAUL, ABR, CRS,GRI, e-PRO,
RE/MAX Advantage Realtors, Searcy, AR - Searcy, AR

Jason,

My grandchildren always like to hear our old stories, except when we tell them how poor we were, they start crying.

Nov 09, 2008 12:01 AM
Kim Sellers
Lake Arrowhead, CA Coldwell Banker - Lake Arrowhead, CA
Lake Arrowhead Realtor - BRE#01412099 - Lake Arrow

Kids love to hear about our lives, it is funny how they really DO pay attention.

Nov 09, 2008 01:43 AM