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Beyond the HALF-Century Mark--Oh MY!

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Real Estate Agent with Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 228209
WHAT a SURPRISE! SURPRISE!Beyond the HALF-Century Mark--Oh MY!

My birthday is at the end of August and, this year it came and went while we vacationed at Pawley's Island for the week.  We had dinner and a little 'party' with my brother and sister-in-law and I thought it was over!

The day after we returned home from our vacation, I had a listing presentation that I was doing with one of my partners, Scott. We had planned to have a 'birthday dinner' with he and his wife that evening.  However, just before heading out to dinner, I received a call about my mother and had to rush to Georgia to be by her side.  I phoned my partner, Scott, and his wife, Jacquie and told them that we weren't going to be able to make it for dinner.  They told me then that since I was going to be in Georgia for a few days, they needed to let me know that friends from Charlotte and others from out of town were gathering for a surprise birthday party. Bummer, but I had to go to Georgia to be with my Mom and wasn't going to get to see our out-of-town friends before they headed back to Michigan.  

Fast-forward to September 6--I'm home from Georgia after having been down twice with my Mom as she made a miraculous recovery, and Ray & I headed over to Scott & Jacquie's to have dinner with the two of them and my brother and sister-in-law. This time we made it!  

For weeks, Jacquie & Scott had been talking about their new landscaping in their backyard around their pool and I couldn't wait to see what they had done.  So, as they knew I would, I headed for the backyard and was completely startled to find many of my favorite people back there shouting 'SURPRISE!'

My hubby and several friends and family members had organized this for several months--they had planned it to be that day and the 'surprise' when my mother became ill was planned to make me think that evening was the REAL surprise.  (Some elaborate plan, huh?!) Ray had coordinated the caterer, the margarita machine (which never ran dry, believe it or not--compliments of  I-NeedA-Margarita.com!), the horrible sign and all of the decor for the party!

Jacquie and Scott hosted the party at their home and worked countless hours to prepare for this half-century event!  Oh, yes, it was the BIG 5-0 for me! They were the best host & hostess and worked so hard to prepare their home and yard for this.  My girlfriend, Kim, had all RSVP's addressed to her so that no one would be phoning or mailing to our home.  She and my sister-in-law, Elizabeth, made certain that all of the details were handled--including last-minute shopping!  

And my friends and family made it QUITE the event that I'll NEVER forget!  Catering by The Gourmet Lunchbox was prepared to perfection--the food remained fresh and hot for the entire evening.  

  Here are some of the photos from the party:  
Nancy StylingNancy, our firm's secretary, who had as good a time as anyone!
PARTY PLANNERSThe Party Planners!
Party!Margaritas, unbelievable Mexican food, and good friends...
Sneaky Guy!Ray, the man with the plan!  Sneaky guy!
Scott & IEveryone worried that Scott would tell me about the surprise...
Can I trust you Scott?!  You're a bit sneaky, aren't you?!
SignNo description necessary!
cakeInvitation and cake--Ray didn't miss a thing!
Thanks baby doll!
SURPRISE!  
Thanks baby doll!  You not only made me feel like a Queen on September 6, you do this every day of your life for me.

So, I've begun the second half of my century--all I can say is that it just keeps getting better every day!

Debe in Charlotte

Comments(19)

Jason Crouch
Austin Texas Homes, LLC - Austin, TX
Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653)

Debe - What a terrific surprise and party.  You are clearly loved by friends and family alike.  Thanks for sharing your special day!  Happy belated birthday!

Nov 10, 2008 02:23 AM
Sharon Paxson
Sharon Paxson, Realtor® EQTY Forbes Global Properties - Newport Beach, CA
Newport Beach Real Estate

Debe - Happy Birthday and hope you had a great time. What a great party and I love the cake. I celebrated mine in September . . . where does the time go?

Nov 10, 2008 02:29 AM
Greg Nino
RE/MAX Compass - Houston, TX
Houston, Texas

Shame on you for not giving us notice! I could have went and ordered a big huge cake and mailed it to you via DHL!

;)

Happy 50th!

Nov 10, 2008 02:33 AM
Ryan Shaughnessy
PREA Signature Realty - www.preasignaturerealty.com - Saint Louis, MO
Broker/Attorney - Your Lafayette Square Real Estate Partner

Great story - congratulations on the big 50 and a wonderful surprise story.

Nov 10, 2008 02:49 AM
Pat Whitehouse
RE/MAX 1st Olympic Lynchburg Va - Lynchburg, VA
Broker/Owner

Hi Debe-I'm so glad you shared all these pics with everybody here. I love that cake with your picture on it. That is so cool. We had a RE/MAX picnic a couple of months ago and they had a cake like that only we had the RE/MAX balloon on it. cake It was delicious. We had a lot of fun. It sounds like you had a lot of fun on your special day. Your husband Ray is really a special guy to put together such a surprise for his beautiful lady. The big 50 is definitely a milestone birthday. One of my partners had his 50th last year and it was quite a party. Like walking into the past. I'm almost afraid to find out what they will do for mine come March. All I can say. No black balloons allowed. After all 50 is the new 30 and I'm definitely not ready for a rocking chair and somehow I don't think you are either.  When my next year's B.D. rolls around and I have my party. I'll have to share whatever pics we have, unless of course some of them aren't for public viewing and then we'll have to leave those ones out. lol. Well I'll let you go. I will be keeping you and Ray in my prayers. Let us know when you can how he is doing. Have a terrific day. :-)

Nov 10, 2008 02:53 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Thanks Jason!  I am so blessed with a wonderful family and wonderful, loving friends!  I had a GREAT birthday and am already working on attacking that second half-century with vigor!

Hi Sharon!  HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU TOO!  Are you a Virgo also?

Hi Greg!  You know, I wouldn't expect less from you!  I'll be waiting on the big 51 for my DHL-delivered cake!!  My favorite?  Chocolate, of course!

Hi Ryan!  Thanks so much!  It was a blast!

Hey Pat!  I love your cake too!  I'll look forward to your story in March!  I LOVE parties and surprises even more!!  And, no, they didn't use any black balloons--THANKFULLY!  The 'sagging' sign was enough, don't you think?!

Debe in Charlotte 

Nov 10, 2008 03:40 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Thanks Eloise!  Everything's coming up roses right now!  Thankfully she is better and Ray JUST came home from the hospital!  WooHoo! 

Debe in Charlotte 

Nov 10, 2008 07:09 AM
Margaret Woda
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc. - Crofton, MD
Maryland Real Estate & Military Relocation

How neat that they didn't give up.  Now THAT is loyalty and friendship!  And I'm glad to hear your mom is okay.  Happy belated 50!

Nov 10, 2008 07:56 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Margaret!  Thanks!  And, who would have thought that with a caterer and freinds having to rearrange their schedules, they would have perservered?!  I am truly blessed with wonderful family and friends!

Debe in Charlotte 

Nov 10, 2008 08:00 AM
Elizabeth Nieves
The Elizabeth Nieves Realty Group - Durham, NC
Bilingual Raleigh - Durham North Carolina Real Estate Team

Oh Debe...thank you for sharing this special time with us. You are soooooooooo beautiful! Happy birthday, my precious friend! GBU!

Nov 10, 2008 03:49 PM
Lisa Schlitz
Home Run Real Estate, Inc. - Wellington, FL
Realtor - Wellington, Florida Homes 561-214-3216

Happy Belated Birthday! Thanks for sharing with us. I have you beat by a few months-wait, should I be bragging about that?!? Looks like everyone had a great time!

Nov 10, 2008 10:04 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Sis!  Thank you so much!  It's not exactly the ONE to shout out to the world that I've hit but, the thoughts and effort that went into it just HAD to be shared!  GBU2!

Hi Lisa!  Thanks!  I'm slowly learning that maybe it IS something to 'brag' about!!  Happy belated 50 to you too!!

Debe in Charlotte 

Nov 10, 2008 11:45 PM
No Longer Active in Staging. No Longer Staging
Hickory, NC

Hi Debe,

Thank you for sharing  this wonderful birthday surprise!! You are so very blessed. Happy belated birthday ! God bless,

Nov 11, 2008 05:05 AM
Lourdes Hoglo REALTOR® Three Village & North Shore Suffolk Co. Long Island
Prudential Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Setauket, NY

Debe, what a nice party!  It looks like you had a great time. Happy belated birthday! Love the cake!

Nov 11, 2008 05:16 AM
Scott Cowan
RE/MAX Professionals - Olympia, WA

Debe- Yes happy birthday a few days late. It looks like it was a fantastic party! It is wonderful you have friends and family that think so much of you to prepare such a fantastic surprise!

Best wishes,

Scott

Nov 11, 2008 05:52 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Cheryl!  Thank you!  YES, I am VERY blessed and had a wonderful surprise party!  GBU2!

Hi Lourdes!  Thanks and don't you just LOVE that cake?  The photo doesn't show it well but, there is a 'SOLD' real estate sign on each side!!  They did a fabulous job and the cake was delectable!

Hi Scott!  Thanks and my post was REALLY late but, I was waiting on the photos from someone else!  I am very blessed with wonderful family and friends and thankful for them each and every day!

Debe in Charlotte 

Nov 11, 2008 06:13 AM
Elizabeth Cooper-Golden
Huntsville Alabama Real Estate, (@ Homes Realty Group) - Huntsville, AL
Huntsville AL MLS

Debe, This made me cry. You are truly blessed and such a wonderful person.  The love you share with your husband is special.  I'm so thankful to have my new husband.  Looking forward to spending life with him.  I hope we share a life as wonderful as you and Ray have. 

I too missed my birthday because my Mother went into the hospital...we have TOO much in common, lol.

Happy Belated birthday Debe. Thanks for sharing this.  What wonderful friends and family you have!

Nov 11, 2008 02:10 PM
Teresa Harris
Lake Real Estate, LLC - Denver, NC
Denver . Lake Norman . Charlotte

WOW... what a party! Happy belated birthday Debe. I know you were blown away. Kudos to Ray! Family, friends, Mexican food with a margatrita machine, and a pool what more could you ask for.... your a lucky lady!

BTW, I need a Ray update. I will look through your blog to see if you have updated us....

Nov 11, 2008 03:14 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Elizabeth!  Thanks sweetie--now I'm blushing!  Best of luck in your new marriage and I'm sure that you'll have a wonderful life--it IS what you make it!  How blessed am I having such wonderful friends and family?  It's great to be me!! <wink, wink>

That is too funny (not really funny but, coincidental!) that you had the same birthday as I did! 

Hey Teresa!  I've missed you around here lately!  Thanks for the wishes--and didn't he do a FABULOUS job! 

Ray is hanging in there--happy to be home this week and is finally eating like a horse!  Thanks for asking and thanks for all of your prayers.

Debe in Charlotte 

Nov 12, 2008 04:24 AM