Forming Relationships with my Neighbors.

Real Estate Agent with Rector Hayden, Lexington, Ky

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Sunday afternoon I began introducing myself to my neighbors? I have spent almost six hours so far and have talked to a total of 23 people. My goal was to meet 300 of my Gainesway neighbors. Kathy and I are hoping that ten percent of them will then come to our home for a Holiday Party.


There are two things that have surprised me.

First: There are so few people at home. In some cases I know they are home but not answering their doorbell. I can understand why people don’t risk answering their doorbell. However I have to admit it is hard not to take a little personally. I am a great guy and a good neighbor. People just don’t know what they are missing.

The second thing that is very pleasantly surprising is how everyone is so friendly and wants to talk. Several of them have invited me into their homes. Thanks so much for your kindness. I have knocked on doors now for almost 6 hours and have had only pleasant, friendly introductions.


In case someone is interested this is basically what I do.

I immediately introduce myself and begin to explain the purpose of my visit as soon as possible. I do not have a script memorized or even an outline. My purpose is to share my heart and be as absolutely honest as possible. So I share how we have recently moved into the neighborhood from Seattle. I share a little of my story about how community has always been so important to us.

I also explain I am a real estate consultant and how I love helping people. I explain how my success is dependent upon building lasting relationships so that people trust me. I give people my business card and explain how they can read my blog by going to the web site and clicking on the red link. I share that reading my blog may be a good way to begin to find out if I am a person they would like to get to know.


I close by telling my neighbors that we are having a Holiday Open House and I will be returning with an invitation in a couple of weeks. This was my daughter Joanna’s suggestion. She is a great people person and works in marketing. She suggested I meet people first and bring them the invitation later. I was a little bit fearful when I started this endeavor. Now I can hardly wait for the evening to start knocking on doors. Unfortunately it is going to get much colder starting Saturday. I guess I will break out the long underwear, scarf and woolen socks.

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Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Paul:  I think there is a pretty good amount of natural hesitation these days... about opening the door to one's home when some unknown person is knocking.  I would not take it personally.

Suggestion:  When you put on the long underwear and woolen socks... make sure you remember to put the rest of your clothes on.  LOL.  I can hear it now.  "Hey Mom... there's some guy at the door, and all he has on is long underwear.  Yikes."

Nov 13, 2008 10:25 PM #1
Jenn Neumann Deer
RE/MAX Southern Shores - Surfside Beach, SC
Surfside Beach Real Estate

Unfortunately there are a lot of people who are fearful of opening their doors to strangers.  Maybe if it gets colder more people will be staying home and you will have more luck!

Nov 13, 2008 10:33 PM #2
Caren Wallace
Premier Property Group LLC - Tualatin, OR
Portland Caren Real Estate

Oh the good ole days when we could knock on doors and actually find someone home, and they answered the door. I always enjoyed door knocking and your plan is a very solid one, Good Luck!!

Nov 13, 2008 10:43 PM #3
Julie Staradumsky
Keller Williams Realty - Atlantic Shore - Northfield, NJ

Good morning Paul, I believe there is more hesitation on answering your door.  We do not live in the 50 or 60 anymore were you could leave your door unlocked and run and do errands.  People are more fearful and not as friendly like years past.

Nov 13, 2008 11:04 PM #4
Paul Chavez
Earth Origins Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Albuquerque Realtor, NM EcoBroker, and General Contractor

Although many people might feel hestitant to open up their door to a stranger, I think it is wonderful that you are introducing yourself.  Really, we need more community in this world, don't you think?

Nov 13, 2008 11:11 PM #5
Paul Campbell Realtor Lexington
Rector Hayden, Lexington, Ky - Lexington, KY
Kentucky Homes for Sale

Karen, Jen, Caren, Julie and Paul

Thanks for the encouraging words.  I just came back from an hour and a half knocking and found 10 people home.  That is much better ratio than my previous three encounter.  Paul

Nov 14, 2008 09:39 AM #6
Michael Wayne Jackson
Coldwell Banker - Novato, CA
Realtor - Senior Real Estate Specialist

Good luck with the holiday party Paul. I'm interested to hear about your results after the party.

Nov 14, 2008 12:12 PM #7
Paul Campbell Realtor Lexington
Rector Hayden, Lexington, Ky - Lexington, KY
Kentucky Homes for Sale

Thanks Mike,


I am excited to see how many people will show for the party too.  I will write about it later.  Paul

Nov 15, 2008 12:23 AM #8

Hi Daddy - Well, if 10% come it will be wildly successful.  I would say aim for a goal of more like 5%.  But all that to say I am glad it is going so well for you and that you are getting to know your neighbors. 

Even though some people aren't likely to come to their doors, those that are are also more likely to be "people" people and good connectors.  It sounds like you've been able to connect with the people you have spoken with, too.  That is just as important as hitting the 300/10% target - probably more so.

Hope you don't get too cold when journeying out.

See you soon!


Nov 17, 2008 05:48 AM #9
Paul Campbell Realtor Lexington
Rector Hayden, Lexington, Ky - Lexington, KY
Kentucky Homes for Sale

Thanks for the encouraging words Joanna.   I so much look forward to your Birthday Thanksgiving.  Love, Dad

Nov 17, 2008 07:13 AM #10
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