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No, I will not go to jail for your favorite charity.

By
Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Advantage

I thought this stuff about going to jail and making your friends bail you out was over!  It seemed to be the rage a few years back but I personally haven't heard anything about it for awhile.

Today, however, during my lunch this voice called me saying someone had turned in my name and I'd be picked up to be carried off to somewhere for this particular charity.   I heard words like for MSD or something and finally I said I'm not going to do it and wasn't interested.  I was still a bit confused and didn't put it all together.  I just knew it was a telemarketer wanting something.

Back at the lunch table my friend said, "They wanted you to go to jail and ask your friends to bail you out."

In dismay I replied, "Are they still doing that jail bit?  I hate that stuff.  It is NOT funny.  How can anyone think it's funny and make light of going to jail?"

I vowed several years ago that I would not go to jail and the friend has to be so close I can't stand it before I'll give money to get them out of jail if asked.  Further, I will not give money to that charity again.  We have to take a stand at some point.  And my stand is JAIL IS NOT FUNNY! 

 

Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Barbara - I have never heard of this either, I don't like gimmics, if I deem a charity worthwhile, they don't need to entice me with gimmics.

Nov 18, 2008 10:49 PM
Joshua & Kathy Schmidt
ERA Henley Real Estate - Cabot, AR

Barbara,

     Well I am not going to echo your sentiments here.  I like the "jail bit" and I would do it in a heartbeat.  I have donated to it more than a few times and I believe MDA is a great charity.  The way they get the donations through this program is comical.  Besides, hearing that your broker is behind bars and he needs you to pay to get him out is pretty funny.  Anything that contributes to a good cause is okay in my book.

Nov 18, 2008 11:42 PM
Tami Vroma
West Michigan Real Estate Specialist-Five Star Real Estate - Grand Haven, MI
Realtor, Grand Rapids MI Real Estate

I'll go to jail, if they have wireless and I can bring my computer and work on my blogging . .   . . .  .sorry just trying to keep a sense of humor.  I would rather be sent to jail on Facebook!!!

Nov 18, 2008 11:48 PM
Barbara S. Duncan
RE/MAX Advantage - Searcy, AR
GRI, e-PRO, Executive Broker, Searcy AR

Steven, we are alike!  The worst was when they thought it was funny to take you away in hand-cuffs or.  I still don't see how people can think it is a funny thing when so much crime is rampant and kids are so vulnerable and drugs are so wide-spread.  Are we teaching our children that jail is just fun???

Erica, so you didn't find it a lot of fun, did you? 

Mike, you'll probably get called eventually to either go get jailed or to bail someone out.

Josh and Kathy, it is always okay to agree to disagree.  Thanks for your comments!

Tami, you'd be given to phone to beg for donations.  I didn't know they had jail on Facebook.   Perhaps now you can use a computer to Twitter for donations!!

Nov 19, 2008 02:51 AM
Steven L. Smith
King of the House Home Inspection, Inc. - Bellingham, WA
Bellingham WA Home Inspector

Mrs Barbara,

Your post is so appropriate. Mr James Quarello submitted my name to be jailed for charity. Neither Mr Charles Buell, nor my employer, will spring for a dime to let me out. They started out holding me for $100.00. They are now down, after a week of my being incarcerated, to saying they will spring me for $1.00. Could you please help. I am not enjoying the cuisine at all.

Your friend Nutsy,

Nov 19, 2008 03:16 AM
Charles Buell
Charles Buell Inspections Inc. - Seattle, WA
Seattle Home Inspector

Barbara, I actually gave the jail $100.00 to keep him there and even donated some hazel nuts to fatten him up for the Quarello Squirrel-b-q

Nov 19, 2008 03:21 AM
Hazel Graham
Main Street Realty - Brandon, MS
Short Sale Specialist

Barbara, I know what you mean about going to jail to raise money for a charity. A co-worker did this to me a few years ago. The police came to my work station put me in hand cuff and carried me off to jail. I sat there for hours before I was bailed out. The joke was really on my co-worker because she was the one that had to "beg" for the money to get me out. No! I didn't think it was funny

Nov 19, 2008 03:41 AM
Barbara S. Duncan
RE/MAX Advantage - Searcy, AR
GRI, e-PRO, Executive Broker, Searcy AR

UMMMM.....I smell a rat here......

Nutsy says he's in jail needing a dollar for bail and his employer won't bail him.

Charles is paying the jail to keep him with the idea of EATING him!!!

Mr. Quarello is in charge of a barbeque...

HOLD ON NUTSY!  I'M COMING TO GET YOU.  YOU CAN LIVE IN MY BACK YARD AND BE MY ASSISTANT!  WE'LL SELL HOUSES AND YOU WON'T HAVE TO DO ANY MORE DIRTY INSPECTIONS!

Nov 19, 2008 03:45 AM
Barbara S. Duncan
RE/MAX Advantage - Searcy, AR
GRI, e-PRO, Executive Broker, Searcy AR

Hazel, thanks for telling about your experience.  I have always thought this was appalling.  I don't know if they still have police pick you up.  If so, that's worse because they need to be doing real work not playing. 

Nov 19, 2008 03:48 AM
Ron Tarvin
Residential, Investment properties, rehab projects, property management, luxury homes, new construction! - Katy, TX
Broker, Katy, Houston, Cypress 77450,77494,77095

Barbara, I've never cared for this particular method of fund raising either...

sell me some cookies or some gourmet popcorn or get me to sponsor you for a walk-a-thon or ....

well, you get the idea but not going to jail or raising bail money.  I'm with you on that one.

Nov 19, 2008 04:08 AM
Tony and Libby Kelly
Keller Williams Realty Portland Premiere - Lake Oswego, OR
CRS, ABR, ePro, SRES, CLHMS, CDPE

I have never heard of such a thing!  It seems like it was funny in theory and maybe some thrill seekers or insensitive friends will have fun with it but in most cases, not fun and pretty stupid.  Then again, I'm sure it generates a lot of money because it's not like you can say no.

Nov 19, 2008 04:10 AM
Barbara S. Duncan
RE/MAX Advantage - Searcy, AR
GRI, e-PRO, Executive Broker, Searcy AR

Ron Tarvin's Katy Team, lots of stupid ideas come up and I guess it is up to a few sensible people to say no to the ideas.  I'm in the sensitive group.  Thanks for comments.

Tony and Libby, I want to give to MY favorite charities not their favorites.  Plus I just don't think "jail" is funny.  Thanks for comments.

Nov 19, 2008 04:40 AM
Steven L. Smith
King of the House Home Inspection, Inc. - Bellingham, WA
Bellingham WA Home Inspector

Barbara,

I will bail him out before James and Charles get him. I am teaching Nutsy a lesson. He got paid, spent all his money on drinks and loose women. I figure he can cool his heels for a few days in jail. On second thought, does he have heels to cool? Hmmm

Nov 19, 2008 03:23 PM
Barbara S. Duncan
RE/MAX Advantage - Searcy, AR
GRI, e-PRO, Executive Broker, Searcy AR

Steven, are you telling me that Nutsy has been out drinking and misbehaving!  Say it isn't so!  I'm so disappointed in that squirrel.  And I'm disappointed in you for telling me, his surrogate mother , about his misdeeds!!  You could have just let me go on believing he's perfect.  Sniff....sniff...sniff...

Nov 20, 2008 10:57 AM
Debi Ernst
St. Charles County, Missouri - Prudential Alliance Realtors - O'Fallon, MO
GRI, e-PRO, Broker/Sales Associate

Barbara - I've never heard of such a thing!  (Where have I been?)  I wouldn't like it, either.  :)

Nov 21, 2008 01:04 AM
Barbara S. Duncan
RE/MAX Advantage - Searcy, AR
GRI, e-PRO, Executive Broker, Searcy AR

Debi, you must have been in hiding!  You've missed being called by someone you like or sold to or have obligations to and asked for money so they can get out of jail!  You lucky person!!

Nov 21, 2008 01:10 AM
James Quarello
JRV Home Inspection Services, LLC - Wallingford, CT
Connecticut Home Inspector

Barbara, I have been called before for these go to jail charities. Annoying is right! I will give to the charities I choose. I will not be coerced into giving by stupid stunts like going to jail.

As for Mr. Nutsy you don't know the half of his misbehavior. Jails too good for that malcontent.

Nov 21, 2008 08:19 AM
Barbara S. Duncan
RE/MAX Advantage - Searcy, AR
GRI, e-PRO, Executive Broker, Searcy AR

James, I'm so glad you agree with me.  Except for being an enemy of my little friend Nutsy, you must be a really nice guy!  I subscribed to your blog to keep an eye on you! 

Nov 21, 2008 10:52 AM
Cameron Wilson
Labrum Real Estate - Murrieta, CA
The Short Guy - Murrieta,Temecula,Menifee Californ

I hate this way of raising money myself. Give me some cookies or a nut filled candy bar or anything else that's not healthy to eat. Health food makes me sick.

Nov 21, 2008 11:44 AM
Barbara S. Duncan
RE/MAX Advantage - Searcy, AR
GRI, e-PRO, Executive Broker, Searcy AR

Cameron, thanks for agreeing.  I do buy from the little kids who come by selling their school stuff...or from the parents who are doing the kid's job.  LOL

Nov 22, 2008 03:47 AM