Can you tell me why, that the young people of our society, no longer look to their Elders for advise, like they did in the old days.  I am part Indian, and back in olden times, the Elders, were know as the wise ones,
and they were respected for their wisdom, collected over their life time and from their elders and their experiences in life. 

My Father always taught us, to seek advise from the experienced.  Sure, we have
still made our mistakes, mainly because, we thought we were right, but too proud to ask
questions, from those that have been there and done that. I believe that those of experience are the best teachers.

One business, I have been in for over 25 years, is Real Estate, and have been successful, but like many, businesses, you learn the hard way.  After many years,   new Agents, wanted to join my Companies, to learn the business. 

Some 
were very successful, but others wouldn't learn.  Some things I learned the hard way but I the learned most,
by asking questions, from the old heads, that had been in business for many years, reading a lot of articles, and schooling..  So after being in that business, for many years, I just can't understand why
young people, who want to be in business, wouldn't want to be Mentored to.  I don't think many wouldn't
consult a Doctor, if they had some health problems.  Businesses hire consultants, so tell me why some
individuals, are reluctant to seek advise, about any venture or any other concerns.  I think that to be successful in sales, you must be likeable, like people, a good listener, quality inventory, know  what
your completion has to offer, work hard for your customer, and find as close as possible what the customers
want, even if you have to sell one of your competitors properties.  A piece of the Pie, is better than no
Pie at all. Qualify customers, as to what they can really afford, so you don't try to oversell, listen to their
stories, but don't let theirs remind you of one to tell them.  To them, their stories are 10 times, more important, to them. Try to find the closest match to their needs and possible.  If not available today, keep
looking, keep the customers informed and above all thank them for their business. On the first contact,
before getting down to business, do your best, to get to be friends, with a little good humor and  Chit Chat.
People love to do business with their friends. Some of our oldest and best friends, started out as
customers.
 

 
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5 Comments on Can you tell me why?

NOV
19
2008
108,458 Points

Jack, who is the knot head that wouldn't seek your advice?  I personally will flog them for wasting the opportunity.  I am always open to learn anything you care to share.  How are things going in my favorite town?  Cheryl

9:12pm • #1

Hey Jack,

I think it goes back to how kids are raised.  When I was being raised I never called an adult by their first name unless it had mr., mrs., aunt, or uncle in front of it.  My kids are being raised the same way.  I complain all the time that kids do not have respects for adults, it all boils back down to the parents.

Brooke

9:13pm • #2

You both right, I think that we justed spoiled them to much and to late  now to turn him back...

9:22pm • #3

Hi Jack,

I think that part of the problem is that in our efforts of stressing the need to include technology, in which I am heavily vested, they have forgotten that the old standards are never to be forgotten.  If you forget these "golden rules" you will have zero clients upon whom to utilize the high tech sorting and marketing techniques.  Don't throw out the techniques that are tried and true, simply add techniques to your repertoire. 

9:55pm • #4
NOV
20
2008

Derenda, you may have hit the nail on the head with stressing the need to include tech...

thanks

 

Jack

9:39am • #5

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