I have to admit that I've always been a bit bothered or peeved with myself when I get this "giving back bug" just during the holidays and then go on about my business and life the rest of the year without doing much other than being a part of Kiwanis and Lions.  It's like a diet that I feel I have to go on a couple times of the year - and then the rest of the time I enjoy whatever I want.  So .. had to figure out a way of this holiday habit. 

Brian Buffini, along with my coach Shawn, keep reminding me that is is a matter of setting up systems that get followed as well as allowing others to hold me accountable.  Hum ..  how can I apply that to this?  This past week I think I may have come up with a solution.  I've invited 3 of my business owner peers (not other Realtors), and two of my clients, who I felt might be of like mind to join me in doing something together, as a group, at least monthly for those people or causes within our community that collectively we can agree on need our time and energy.  The week after Thanksgiving, we've decided to work together in helping out at a Salvation Arny sorting food for their food baskets  - in December, on the 23rd we will deliver Food baskets for a local charity serving primarily housebound seniors and them meet up afterward for some holiday cheer as a Group.  Our goal by the end of December is to have a plan of action for the next three months.  We've also all resolved to not only hold each other accountable for our presence but at the same time are committed to come together for special "emergencies" as they may arise.  We also have committed to growing our group beyond the 5 of us at least by 2 or 3 each month.

We've all agreed - it is not about us - it is not about marketing ourselves in any way - it is only about giving of ourselves as a group to those most in need, holding each other accountable year round - its not about giving money;  its about giving our time, energy, & spirit.

And then a final goal:  Make it fun - not another task.