The holidays are a time of reflection for me. It is a time to think of where I've been, and where I want to go in the future. Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays. It's a time to give thanks for everything I have, no matter how much or how little. It's a time to celebrate and share your life with the people most important to you. I call this my Season of Gratitude.
I celebrate all the wonderful things in my life: friends, family, and health. I am very grateful for everything I have in my life. It's not about how many "toys' I have or how much money has been made, but the peace & serenity that has taken me most of my life to find.
Given the current economic climate, it has been difficult for me sometimes to look at the positive side of life. But I have to remember to that there are others who are suffering much more than I am.
My friend Sean, and his partner Jason, plan the entire Thanksgiving menu, while Jeff (my partner) and I supply our home for the festivities. There's turkey, ham, oyster dressing, and my world famous Roasted butternut squash soup. We invite all of our friends, and people who may not have anywhere to go during the holidays.
Last year, we had 16 people at our home, and but this year I anticipate a smaller crowd as people are staying closer to home. Its all about food and good times with the ones I love.
Creating balance with work and my life during the holidays can be a challenge, but not impossible. Time management skills are imperative, and sometimes saying "No" to people is a must. We can't be everything to everyone.
Here are some of my ways I will maintain my Holiday Balance (or sanity):
- Giving Back to the Community- Being grateful means giving back to the communities we live in. I give food to the local food banks (Well in the Desert) to feed the homeless and the the less fortunate of our community. As a kid growing up growing up, it was the Salvation Army that helped my family when we hit one of "life's little bump in the roads" I have never forgotten this.
- Set Boundries With My Clients- I set clear boundries with my clients on when I will be available for business, and when I am not. Realtors are professionals, and should treat their business as such. Try calling your Dentist or your Lawyer and say "I going to be in your office in 15 minutes to see you" and they don't have an appointment. See how far you get with that one.
- Take Time for Yourself- With the onslaught of holiday parties & events, one must make time for yourself. Take the time to refocus & re-energize your life. Whether it's a day at the spa, riding a bike, or reading a good book, take the time to be good to yourself.
So during this holiday season, remember what's important in your life. Grab your wife, husband, your kids, your life partner, and give them great big hug and tell them how much you love them. Find the balance in your life during the holidays, and just remember how blessed you are. The economy will turn around and our businesses will flourish once again. Happy Thanksgiving to everyone!!!
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