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So many letters, cute address labels, and phone calls - how do I choose which charities to give to?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Robin Rogers, Silverbridge Realty, San Antonio, Texas 398351

During the holiday season, the barrage of unsolicited address labels, letters, and calls to my home phone (unanswered) intensifies to a fever pitch. How do I choose which charities will get my donations and support? I am not much of a volunteer, and I prefer to give money or goods rather than time.

I save up clean clothing, linens, books, and household goods for donation. When I get the postcard that the Medina Children's Home truck will be in my neighborhood, I put the stuff out on my porch to be picked up. Two or three times a year, I pack up the bags and take it to the Goodwill donation center instead. As I update my home, I donate things like doorknobs, metal fencing, shutters, and light fixtures to Habitat for Humanity.Boys in Dominican Republic

Over the years, I have lent money or provided services to people who have not paid me back. I had a pretty good idea that might happen, so I mentally record it as a charitable donation.

But there are certain issues that really hit me in the gut: neglect and abuse of animals, both pets and farm animals; starvation and the continuing spread of diseases such as malaria; and the equal rights of women and ethnic minorities.

That's a lot of stuff to care about, and I don't have enough money or hours in the day to make a big difference. So I have to pick and choose which ones to support.

I check out charitable organizations on Charity Watch before contributing or to make sure they're still rated with an A. I also join non-profit organizations that work on the issues I care about, although they are not charities as such, so that my membership dues help the cause.

I still get caught by the occasional telemarketing call or a pleading letter and end up writing checks to other organizations not on my list, but I try to stay on track with the issues that are most important to me. I think it is easier to do good if you have a plan for helping the causes that mean the most to you personally.

What do you think? How do you decide?

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Robin Rogers, REALTOR, Broker-owner, TRC, MRP, CRS

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Comments (11)

Brandon Whitt
Knoxville, TN

My advice would be to pick a couple that mean something to you and that you feel good about and stick with those. We can't be something to everyone, so I choose to invest my time and money in something that makes me feel good to do.

Nov 28, 2008 03:07 AM
Vickie Nagy
Coldwell Banker Residential Real Estate - Palm Springs, CA
Vickie Jean the Palm Springs Condo Queen

I make charitable donations based on emotional decisions...hot topics for me. I support an animal rescue that specializes in older and hard to place animals and charities supporting battered wives and children.

Nov 28, 2008 03:23 AM
Ilyce Glink
Think Glink Media - Chicago, IL
Best-selling author, award-winning TV/radio host.

Hi Robin- Congrats on all your good work! I think it's easier to narrow down charities based on which ones actually put the most money toward the cause (which you're already looking at) and based on issues that are important to you. Decide which causes you feel really personally committed to and it should be easier to narrow down.

Nov 28, 2008 04:12 AM
Trey Thurmond
BCR Realtors - College Station, TX
College Station , Texas Homes

We try to give some for the mind like to educational causes including a local Jr. College scholorship fund, another from the heart like Habitat for Humanity. And we volunteer time to causes.

Nov 28, 2008 01:34 PM
Robin Rogers
Robin Rogers, Silverbridge Realty, San Antonio, Texas - San Antonio, TX
CRS, TRC, MRP - Real Estate Investment Adviser

Thanks for your comments, Brandon, Vickie, and Ilyce! I guess I'm on the right track with how I decide. I would love to be able to support ALL charities!

I really admire people who volunteer, Trey. One of these days....

Nov 29, 2008 01:06 AM
Shirley Parks
Sands Realty 210-414-0966 - San Antonio, TX
Broker, 210-414-0966, San Antonio TX Real Estate

Hi Robin, We give to our church in the form of tithing and our church helps out in a huge way with disasters such as hurricanes, the tsunami.  The church also helps single mothers and has other community outreach progrms.  My husband and I have given to a school for disabled children in Abilene, Medina Children's Home, etc.  My favorite charities help with homelessness and with mental health.

Nov 30, 2008 03:06 AM
Robin Rogers
Robin Rogers, Silverbridge Realty, San Antonio, Texas - San Antonio, TX
CRS, TRC, MRP - Real Estate Investment Adviser

Hi, Shirley! I'm glad your church is so active in helping people in need!

Nov 30, 2008 03:27 AM
Russel Ray, San Diego Business & Marketing Consultant & Photographer
Russel Ray - San Diego State University, CA

I've been working with charities and non-profits since I was in Key Club in high school. Then I practically made it a career with Alpha Phi Omega National Service Fraternity from 1975 to 1993, getting my start at Texas A&M University in College Station. Over the years, I have found my favorites:

  1. ASPCA
  2. Human Rights Campaign
  3. ACLU
  4. Red Cross
  5. Local animal shelter
  6. Special Olympics
  7. Gay Men's Chorus of San Diego
  8. San Diego Symphony
  9. Muscular Dystrophy Association
  10. American Cancer Society
  11. Breast Cancer Research
  12. HIV/AIDS Research

Conveniently, the list has 12 organizations on it right now, so each month I can donate to one of them, or alternately, at the end of the year I can take 10% of my gross proceeds, split in 12 ways, and donate to all of them. That lowers my taxes for the year, too.

Nov 30, 2008 07:45 PM
Robin Rogers
Robin Rogers, Silverbridge Realty, San Antonio, Texas - San Antonio, TX
CRS, TRC, MRP - Real Estate Investment Adviser

Hey, Russel! I like your list concept. That would make it easier to say no to the telemarketing people, since I sometimes answer the phone without thinking, while they would be fresh in my mind each month.

Dec 01, 2008 02:08 AM
Carl Winters
Canyon Lake, TX
A vert good place in San Antonio, Texas is Boysville. If you ever have the opportuniy to research Boysville you can be assured your donation would be put to good use. Something you can do is adopt a home on the grounds of Boysville, they will give you the number of children, boys,girls, ages and a wish list, and you can purchase specifics for each child to have a gift for Christmas. http://boysvilletexas.org
Dec 01, 2008 11:18 AM