Rising from a cosy bed piled high with wool blankets, a thick quilt and flannelette sheets, I notice the light in the room is different.
As I peek through the slatted blind covering the window nearest the bed, my heart softens to see a white and beautiful world where everything has a muffled tone and peace abounds.
Slowly, slowly a feelBurlington Santa Claus Parade~Dec 7/2008ing starts to envelop me once more.




It's a familiar feeling and a very welcome, comforting one. The Christmas spirit has found me once more.

I suppose it began the day before when, bundled up in a furry hood and cashmere scarf, I walked to the end of my street to watch the annual Burlington Santa Clause Parade go by.
It had been an unusually cold and brisk day and my fingers had froze in my leather gloves each time I took them out of my pocket to take another picture of a passing float.

Burlington Santa Claus Parade~Dec 7/2008Children sat bundled in small chairs with barely a small red nose visible beneath the scratchy scarves that were wrapped around their chubby faces. Parents waved from the sidelines at all the parade participants as they found themselves unable to resist the convivial spirit of the parade and the welcoming in of the Christmas season once more.

Thinking of the blog I wanted to write for my Active Rain real estate website, my attendance at the parade was more utilitarian than something I had really looked forward to doing; however standing near those people who were already well imbibed with Christmas spirit, I found my homesick heart lifting and the odd time I noticed my own arm raising as it waved at the happy souls who manned the floats.

Feeling my heart beginning to swell, I found myself reciting, in my mind, the old familiar Grinch Who Stole Christmas' thoughts about how, perhaps, Christmas does indeed mean more than all the glitter and materialism that bombards us this time of the year.
I imagined he must have felt the same feeling overcome himself that I was now beginning to feel.
It probed at my soft inner core for points of entry, points that hadn't been bolted and locked to keep the outside world safely out.

The parade had ended with Santa himself waving his Burlington Santa Claus Parade~Dec 7/2008usual jolly, red-sleeved wave at one and all, and I found myself softly smile in the realization that Christmas goes on, no matter what.

As I walked swiftly home in the stark winter air, I found myself humming the song the Whos had sung on that Christmas morning in Whoville when they had awoken to nothing after having had all of their Christmas preparations taken away by a grizzled old Grinch.

The song was an uplifting one declaring to all that Christmas Day will always go on, just as long as we all have one another.  Yes, I quietly thought to myself, it's true.

The Christmas spirit will descend and Christmas will come, just as it has always done, no matter what our life circumstances or the difficult times we are going through.
All we have to do is acknowledge and accept.

Acknowledge and accept that no matter how bad life may appear, or how much stress we are undergoing, things will always turn around and a brighter day will find itself in our midst, gently surrounding us in light and warmth.
Just as long as we have 'we', things will be fine.

We have friends, family and even strangers who seek to know us better. Underneath all of the faces that we find ourselves coming across during this peaceful season, we are all the same.

We each seek love, acceptance and gentleness.
We seek it for ourselves and we long to give it to others, if they will only open up and accept it from us.

This is what the Christmas spirit is all about, it's what it has always been about, and, as long as we have 'we', will always be about.

Wishing you and your loved ones and those who surround you a peaceful holiday season filled with genuine smiles, warm hugs, open hearts and acceptance for one and all.

~Jo

 

 
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48 Comments on Holiday Acceptance Is Found in Waving Hands and Frost-bitten Smiles.

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I love this time of year, I try to help as many as I can young and old, big and small. Good Blog, Thanks for postin

2:36pm • #1
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You said.....  things will always turn around and a brighter day will find itself in our midst, gently surrounding us in light and warmth.

Thanks for the inspiring gift of acceptance Jo!  WE have....WE. :)

2:57pm • #2
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What a lovely post!      Thank you for sharing these seasonal thoughts.

3:34pm • #3
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Jo, you always have love, acceptance and gentleness here in the Rain from those like me that know you. Christmas parades are great places to light that fire under the spirit and getting you going.

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Jo: Beautiful words from a beautiful soul. Your words are ALWAYS so descriptive.... I can easily see you walking home from the parade, humming the Grinch Stole Christmas tune. You know, I watch that show every Christmas season! I LOVE when the Whos get up to nothing and STILL find happiness from within and with each other.  Ah.... acceptance, indeed.

Merry Christmas, my friend.

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Jo, Hey its Laura, Congratulations on your move! I really enjoy reading your posts, like Kat mentioned ...your words are very descriptive, they allow great visuals for the mind.  That is so great Burlington has a Christmasparade, what an awesome way to start the holidays.  

8:48pm • #6
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Jo, I loved seeing these pictures, it would be difficult NOT to get in the spirit of the Season!  Our family and friends are really what this season is about and you put it beautifully...I do believe there is a rainbow behind every cloud and sooner or later it comes out.  Blessings to you!

8:58pm • #7
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Hi Jo,
It's great to have you back with your beautifully written posts.  The spirit of Christmas starts in our hearts and from there it spreads to those around us. 

6:32am • #8
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The best part of parades like this is watching the smiles on the children's faces!

1:20pm • #9
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Jo - This is simply beautiful. You always paint such vivid pictures, but you, a Grinch? Never! I'm reading Life's Missing Instruction Manual... fabulous... thanks for the tip.

5:25pm • #10
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Hi Cody,

It's surely a magical time of year and I'm thankful for folks like you who are there to help those in need....

thanks for your appreciative comment and for visiting this post!

Jo

5:27pm • #11
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Hi Sally,

It's great to see you! Thanks for stopping by and for your words of kindness....and for sponsoring such a beautiful event that brings about posts relating to holiday acceptance. YOU are my inspiration for this post....

(((-:

Jo

5:29pm • #12
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hi Gary,

Thank you greatly for your constant support and friendship....you're an inspiration to us all. Parades abound with those who are immersed in holiday good cheer....

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Jo

5:31pm • #14
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Hi Kat!

You and I are two peas in a Christmas pod.... I love the Grinch movie so much that I bought it many years ago when my sons were still small. I remember watching it every year with my parents when I was growing up too....

Is "It's A Wonderful Life" one of your favourites too like it is mine? I have a feeling it is....

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Merry Christmas to you too, dear friend,

Jo

5:34pm • #15
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Hey Laura!!

It's absolutely a wonderful surprise to see your name in my comment section and read your supportive and uplifting words...THANK YOU.  (((-:

BTW, I hope your Mom told you that I think you are an absolutely amazing artist with so much talent it astounds me....I'm hoping your Mom will post more of your beautiful art.

Congrats on your first show!!

hugs,

Jo

5:37pm • #16
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Hi Carole!

The silver lining in every cloud....how lucky we are that it's always there somewhere. My brother told me a beautiful ZEN story yesterday at lunch....remind me to tell you about it next time we have one of heart to heart chats.

thank you for always being a bright and accepting soul of gentleness and peace, here and everywhere you go....

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Jo

5:40pm • #17
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Jo: YES! It's a Wonderful Life is a MUST for me at Christmas.  I EVEN have the collectables (home, bank, theatre, Bedford Falls sign, etc) that sit under my tree and light up.   Two Peas in a Christmas pod, indeed!

6:09pm • #18
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What a wonderful example of imparting your perspective to those around you. I was enthralled as you were telling your story. Thank you for sharing. I pray that this Christmas will be the most beautiful of your life. ~GBU~

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Jo - Beautifully written as always!!

Your line "I found my homesick heart lifting and the odd time I noticed my own arm raising as it waved at the happy souls who manned the floats." caught my eye.

What a wonderfull time of the year to start new beginnings ... Best of luck in your new home and new surroundings. I trust your heart will loose it's "homesickness" and it will change to fond memories as you become more comfortable in your new home and surroundings.

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Hi Cynthia,

Thank you for your constant friendship and support....

I believe you are right, it does start within our hearts and radiate out from there....like a loving message from somewhere far-off that finds a portal through the inner beings of humans. Truly a miracle.

I hope you're enjoying this special time of the year with your little one.....

((-:

Jo

8:25am • #21
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hello Barbara-Jo !

How right you are....and it's amazing how they're totally oblivious to the cold as though some warm protective cloak were surrounding them while they enjoy the sights and sounds.

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Jo

8:27am • #22
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Hello Tom P,

I'm so happy that you picked up Life's Missing Instruction Manual and are gleaning the bits of wisdom that are sprinkled throughout...although you already live your life much in the way the book advises. ((-:

Thank you so much for your appreciative and kind words...I value you and our friendship more than you'll ever realize.

((-:

Jo

8:29am • #23
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Hi Kat,

WoW, I guess I recognize a kindred soul when I meet one....  ((-:  , although I recognized a kindred soul in you long ago when I first discovered you and your blog...

I would love to see some pictures of your 'It's A Wonderful Life' collection...perhaps you'll do a post on them?

~Jo

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Jo~ what an uplifting story! One doesn't have to be a child to enjoy a parade...especially with one of our faves Santa! Your attitude and perserverance of positivity is always uplifting to me. Thank you.

Hugs, Deb

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What a beautifully written post Jo-Anne.  The Christmas season is such a magical time of year.  It turns us all into little kids again.  You know, I've never been to the Burlington Santa Claus Parade yet in the years I've lived there.  I should really try to go next year.  P.S.  Hope you are settled into your new home.   

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Thanks Deb!

I appreciate your kind and appreciative words and support very much and all you do here in AR and in the outside world for all of those you come into contact with.

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Jo

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Hi Jo - love the pictures in this post.  Thanks for entering the contest - back to comment further after the judging is over.

Ann

7:59pm • #29
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hi Charlene!

Thank you so kindly. It's wonderful of you to stop by and I'm really looking forward to getting together with you in person sometime soon. Bit by bit we're getting settled in and the boxes are being unpacked...furniture is being placed, and re-placed, new items are being purchased like shelves for large closets and perhaps a little throw rug or two, and I'm making the adjustment. I really love Burlington and Oakville and every day is an adventure for me.

I have family coming down on Friday and staying til Sunday and then more family coming next Tuesday and staying over Christmas, so the rush is now on to get this place organized...and decorated!!

Would you have time to get together sometime in early January?

The parade was very enjoyable and I'm looking forward to seeing it again next year (next year I hope to make it to the Oakville one too).

Best wishes to you and your family this holiday season,

Jo

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Hello Elizabeth,

I almost missed your beautiful comment! For a few days I wasn't receiving notification that I had new comments ( a glitch in the AR system) so didn't realize until just now that you had commented....sorry to be replying to you so late.

Thank you so kindly for your appreciative and insightful sentiments and for taking the time out to stop by and read this post.....I greatly appreciate you and our friendship.

Wishing you and your beautiful family a truly blessed Christmas,

Jo

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hi Kathy,

Thank you for visiting this post and for leaving such beautiful and supportive words....as I said to Elizabeth above, I hadn't realized your comment was here until just a few minutes ago when I scrolled up to see if I had forgotten anyone....

I hope you and Barrie and your lovely family  have the most beautiful of Christmas's ever and create many cherished memories together...

love to you all,

Jo
ps. I'm looking forward to getting together with you sometime in the new year.

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Hi Ann,

Thank you so much for stopping by ...and for the work and effort you are giving freely of as you read all of these 'holiday acceptance' posts.

Wishing you a wonderful Christmas season,

Jo

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Jo-Anne - Glad to hear that you are getting settled in and that you love Burlington.  I would really like to get together in January.  Just give me a call or email me in the New Year and we'll set up a day to get together.  I'm looking forward to meeting you!  I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and a happy and healthy New Year!

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Thanks Charlene!

I'll give you a call in early January so we can arrange to get together...I'm really looking forward to meeting you and too.  ((-:

Warmest holiday wishes to you and yours,

Jo

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Awesome writing Jo - I felt like I was there! Looks like your move has inspired your spirit indeed! Thank for sharing your hometown Christmas Parade. A very Merry Christmas and Blessed New Year to you & yours!

Sincerely,

Grace

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Hi Jo,

Beautifully written Jo! Merry Christmas to you and your family!! I hope 2009 will be a wonderful year for you and all that your dreams come true.

Merry Christmas Jo

Trace

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What a beautiful post!  There is nothing like a small town parade and a chill in the air to make one feel the Christmas spirit.  Have a wonderful holiday.  Thank you for all that you share and give to us in The Rain:)

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hi Grace,

Thank you!! I'm enjoying living in this area very much. Burlington is a very old town right on the shores of Lake Ontario with an intriguing history which I'll be blogging about in the new year.

I hope you and Jeff and your girls have a magnificent holiday season...

sending you all Christmas hugs from me  (((-:

~Jo

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Hi Jo,

The spirit of the season does indeed envelop one, sometimes at odd times and unexpected places.  Saturday, as I waited to meet someone in the parking lot of a local hotel, I was surprised to see the doors open, and Santa Claus along with Mrs. Claus emerged!  A short time later they were followed by children carrying novelties and balloons.  It was a bright spot in an otherwise normal winter day...

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 hi Jo, I'm just stopping by to send you all my best wishes for the holidays and a wonderful 2009!

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Trace,

Thank you kindly for your holiday wishes. I hope you had a wonderful Christmas and the coming year brings all you're hoping for and more.

hugs,

Jo

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Thank you Diane!

I hope you had a wonderful Christmas and are enjoying this festive season. May the coming year bring a great abundance of good things your way....

((-:

Jo

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hi Brian,

Thanks so much for sharing your beautiful Christmas moment.....it sounds truly magical and I smiled when I read it (I felt like I was there alongside you observing).

I hope you had a wonderful Christmas and the coming year is everything you're hoping it will be magnified by a thousand.

((-:

Jo

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Thank you Marti,

I hope you had a warm and joyful Christmas filled with creative and wonderful moments.....may the coming year bring a great abundance of things your wishing for your way.

hugs across the miles,

Jo

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