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This thing on my desk keeps me sane...

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Education & Training with Tech and Social Media Consultant

Mike MuellerI've wanted to share with the community just what keeps me sane during my normal business day.

I had to bring my camera to the office just to capture what that essence is. 

For me it's generally all about balance. 

Let’s start with a picture of my desk as I see it sitting in my chair and work to the left.

I keep my desk relatively free from clutter as you can see.

 

 

The 30 spokes of a wheel all join at the center. The usefulness of the wheel lies in the emptiness of its hub. -Lao Tzu

On the far left I have my laptop.  It’s a simple machine - powerful, yet unassuming.  It runs virus free, with very few add ons to slow it down.  Much like ourselves, bundling a computer with unnecessary distractions only serves to detract rather than to add to its usefulness.  It doesn't keep me sane.

Mike Mueller

My computer connects to the office network system via a Cat 5 cable.  Although we have a wireless network running outside the network, the Ethernet cable allows me to access the innermost portions of our network.  The internet doesn't keep me sane.

Just as the value of a house lies in its location,

The value of a mind lies in its depth,

The value of giving lies in the presence of a generous spirit,

The value of words lies in their reliability 

-Lao Tzu

  Mike Mueller

My cell phone, like my laptop is nothing fancy.  It serves its purpose when I am out of the office.  Inside the office, with little reception, it recharges itself in its cradle.  I like to think it’s meditating itself for the coming day.  My cell phone doesn't keep me sane.

 

 

 

  Mike Mueller

My Hoi Toi.  He’s not a Buddha.  He is a Hoi Toi. He represent the Journey. 

I’ll let those who know decipher his message.  He doesn't keep me sane either.

  Mike Mueller

My Calculator – seems a little out of place.   It is cold and uncaring yet it only speaks one language - The Truth.  My calculator cannot lie, it cannot sugar coat, and it cannot disguise its words or tone.  It speaks only in the cold harsh reality of numbers.  This doesn't keep me sane.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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The Zen of Balancing rocks,

complimented by some of the photos displayed in my office. 

The balancing rocks are there to reflect the balance in life I hope to maintain.

 

 

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They are nice but they don't keep me sane

 

 

Gaining enlightenment is like

The moon reflected on the water.

The moon doesn't get wet;

The water isn't broken.

 Although its light is broad and great,

The moon is reflected even

In a puddle an inch wide.

 The whole moon and the whole sky

Are reflected in one dewdrop on the grass.- Dogen Zenji

  
 Mike Mueller

My Daughter.  A truly beautiful person. 

This is her latest picture. I feel fortunate to be a part of her life.

She inspires me, but she certainly doesn't keep me sane.

Living plants are flexible,

In death, they become dry and brittle.

 Therefore, stubborn people are disciples of death, but

Flexible people are disciples of life.

-Lao Tzu

 Mike Mueller

My Business Cards and card of others.  I look at them as a lie.  A necessary lie but a lie none the less.  They are hollow representations of me or those that are named on them.  Names, Titles, Phone Numbers, Websites; it’s all just text.  They don’t tell the holder who I really am, it doesn't tell me who they are.  It’s up to the holder of the card to take the time to know the giver of the card. There's no sanity in business cards.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

See that funny little springy thing? You probably didn't even see it. 

Yet it is the single most important item on my desk to my sanity and here is why...

 Mike Mueller

My Father designed this simple looking spring nut.  He was working as an engineer for a company in the '60s that built distribution systems.  The spring nut helped make versatile conveyor systems around the world.  The nut could be placed into a channel with the spring holding it in place until secured by a bolt.

It became a staple in many everyday applications.  If you have ever gone to a quickie Mart and pulled a six pack off the shelf and had the next one slide down to take its place – that shelf was probably held in place by my Fathers spring nut. 

My Father has long since past away.  Last year, while work was being done on our office elevators, I was talking to one of the contractors.  He happened to be holding a box of these spring nuts.  I asked him about those funny things.  For the next five minutes he told me about how these simple items worked, how they saved time, and how he could never imagine working without them.  I never told him about my Father, it wouldn't have mattered.

The spring nut may have been designed by my Father but he never reaped any of the rewards financially.  He designed it as an employee of the company.  It was company property.  Eventually, the company fell on hard times and laid my father off.

It may look like a simple mechanical part to the outsider but to me it’s a symbol of what it's all about.

It proves to me daily that it’s not about changing the world.

It’s not about how much we make.

It’s not about who you know, or who knows you.

It’s about the little things.

The little things we do everyday, both good and bad, that can have profound implications on people we know and so many others we’ll never know.

The little things I do everyday will have profound implications on so many others.

I have the ability to choose what those little things are. 

That’s what keeps me sane. 

 

Trying to understand is like trying to see through muddy water.

Be still and allow the mud to settle.

 Because clarity and enlightenment are within your own nature,

they are regained without moving an inch.

 

 

Comments(27)

Lisa Dunn
Edina Realty - Minneapolis, MN
www.TwinCitySeller.com
Wow, you sure raised the bar on the what keeps me sane blogs, very nicely done
Apr 25, 2007 11:16 AM
Mike Mueller
Tech and Social Media Consultant - Walnut Creek, CA
Lisa - Thank you! You are too kind.
Apr 25, 2007 12:16 PM
Ricardo Bueno
Diverse Solutions - Los Angeles, CA

Mike,

Your post somehow inspired me. I'm going to clean up my desk and find the thing that allows me to keep my balance on a daily basis. It's time to start being productive again. Now that I haven't been...it's just that each day has been filled with so much chaos. 

Great reading your post.

--

Motivation moves people...people move businesses -- M.W. 

Apr 25, 2007 02:26 PM
Michelle DeRepentigny
Success Realty - Athens, GA
Broker Athens, GA
You desk is the epitome of neatness....I can only strive to reach that level!  Thanks for reminding us that the little things are VERY important.
Apr 25, 2007 02:31 PM
Caroline Carrara
EWM/Christie's-Las Olas, Real Estate - Fort Lauderdale, FL
Your words are very dear and enlightening...thank you.
Apr 25, 2007 02:34 PM
Leigh Brown
Leigh Brown & Associates, RE/MAX Executive - Charlotte, NC
CEO, Dream Maker - Charlotte, NC
That was so enjoyable and got me all choked up, right after laughing about how your teenager does NOT keep you sane!  Thank you for sharing.
Apr 25, 2007 02:35 PM
Uzi Husain
Keller Williams Integrity First - Scottsdale, AZ

very inspiring blog and I love the story telling behind it - good job, keep up the great work.  by any chance are you related to Peter M. at Grand Canyon Title in Arizona?

Cheers,
Uzi Husain
Arizona Realtor, serving Goodyear & The Phoenix metropolitan area 

Apr 25, 2007 02:39 PM
Ray Saenz
Exit Realty Laredo - Laredo, TX
Homes for Sale in Laredo, TX - Texas, Realtor

Mike,

you got a 5 star from me,  thanks for sharing something of you. :)  I enjoyed the pictures / descriptions so that's make you a 5 star rating :)

 

Apr 25, 2007 02:56 PM
Stephen Gladstone
Stonehollow Fine Home Inspections & Testing - Stamford, CT

Nice post, thanks for sharing your desk and your world.

Your Home Inspector in Ct. , Steve Gladstone Stonehollow Home Inspections

Apr 25, 2007 03:27 PM
Ana Connell
G & C Properties - Burbank, CA
Burbank Real Estate Agent
I love your work area, I'm with you!  Clutter slows me down!
Apr 25, 2007 04:14 PM
Moisés "Moe" Pagán
Walnut Creek, CA

Hey Mike, Great post.  The desk is very neat - almost too neat!  BTW, back in my manufacturing days the guys on the mfg floor would use those spring nuts a lot. (I was in planning at the time and would have to make sure that they got ordered).  Nice to know where they originted from.

 

 

Apr 25, 2007 05:33 PM
Melody Young
Milestone Motoring - Auto Broker/Dealer - Westlake Village, CA
Auto Broker-Milestone Motoring
Thank you for reformating and uploading everything, I wouldn't have wanted to miss this.  It's a truly inspiring post and a lovely tribute to your father as well.
Apr 25, 2007 06:32 PM
Ashley Drake Gephart
Drake Intel Group - Albuquerque, NM

I am awed by your post.

Apr 25, 2007 06:46 PM
Christy Powers
Keller Williams Coastal Area Partners - Pooler, GA
Pooler, Savannah Real Estate Agent
Great post. I am not sure if I am overly emotional from the insomnia but I teared. I agree it's all about the small things. It's the little things that string together to make our life.
Apr 26, 2007 12:01 AM
David A. Podgursky PA
THE PODGURSKY GROUP @ Re/Max Direct - Boynton Beach, FL
THE PODGURSKY GROUP - Make the Right Move!

How Zen of you

I'm a little more "Method to Madness" type decor... not as big into wall art...

Apr 26, 2007 02:04 AM
Howard Arnoff Charleston South Carolina real estate
The AgentOwned Realty Co. - Charleston, SC

Mike, thanks for the wonderfully inspiring post, I still think of my dad often after 25 years of his passing, and you gave me a good reason to find something small but important to remember him by on my "uncluttered" desk. Thanks, Howard

Charleston Real Estate | Charleston real estate blog

Apr 26, 2007 11:42 AM
Mike Mueller
Tech and Social Media Consultant - Walnut Creek, CA

Thank you all for your kind words.  You make it so easy to share.

 

Apr 27, 2007 06:08 AM
Sandi Bauman
Chico Homes Real Estate - Chico, CA
Chico CA Realtor
Mike-  I loved this post.  I missed it the first time around!
Oct 22, 2007 03:47 PM
Mike Jones
SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC (BK-0907366, NMLS 145171) - Tucson, AZ
Mike Jones NMLS 223495
Mike, I would have liked your Dad.
Nov 01, 2007 01:40 AM
Sarah Cooper
Real Estate Shows - Hurricane, WV

(Hey, Mike -- you are so hot.) 

Nov 01, 2007 09:12 AM