The retirement account statement sits on the counter, unopened. You're too afraid to look.

The house across the street goes up for sale with a "lender owned" sign dangling below. You look away. You'd rather NOT know the price.

And when you try to trade in your wheels for something newer and more gas efficient, you pretend the dealer is talking to someone else. Someone with a much older, much crummier car than yours.

Assets to assets, dust to dust?

If Scarlett could just go home to the red earth of Tara when everything seemed to be lost, where should we go?

Back to work, of course. Back to where real work produces real wealth. The kind you can spend. Not the kind you brag about at a cocktail party.

I don't know about you but all that paper wealth I used to have never bought a single loaf of bread at the store. Maybe it even made me feel a little too secure and kick back a little too much.

I predict 2009 will be a year when business owners go back to the work of working on their business. There may be plenty of devastation. There may be dead bodies. Our economy may look like a war zone.

But we still have this: our business.

We will love our old customers more, and we will strive to add new customers. We will get there earlier. We will leave later. We will take this new economy and devise new ways of doing things. We will discard systems based on an economy that no longer exists.

We will operate by being LEAN. Not by being MEAN.

We will learn more. Read more. Become more focused.

We can't control everything, but we can control our business. To feel in control is to feel empowered.

Unlike the beginning of 2008, now we have survived the war. We are still standing. We will apply what we have learned and adapt.

Things are different, but that's okay. The biggest advantage of all is the fact we can change on a dime. We are flexible, unlike big companies and giant corporations. We are street smart. We know because we are in the trenches, not in the boardroom.

No one can fire us, but we have no one to blame but ourselves if we fail.

When business is good, everyone is too busy for things like customer appreciation, customer service, and customer contact.  Who needs networking groups, referral partners, advertising, newsletters and new ideas when there is so much low hanging fruit? And where somewhere in the misty background, your assets silently appreciate, giving you a false sense of security?

It is time to fertilize. To prune. To water. There is fruit to be harvested from that red earth.

We have realized paper assets will not save our ass.

But there is still Tara.

And I'm going there.

 

Written by Janet Guilbault, California Mortgage Lending Specialist Based Out of the San Francisco Bay Area

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
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55 Comments on If Your Assets Are Gone With the Wind....Can You Still Go Home to Tara?

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Very creative opening, and very relevant.  Back to basics is always the best solution when things get tough!

12:14pm • #1
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Janet - Nicely put.  I love your post.  I bookmarked it.  It gives me inspiration and I'm going back to Tara.  We'll make it!

 

12:27pm • #2
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Margaret, I find a have a much better grip on things now. Last year the mortgage business felt like getting constantly surprised with punches in the stomach. You never knew where the next one was coming from.

It is a very weird way to feel optimistic, I know. And I cannot say the worst is over. I can say I understand what has happened, and how it has impacted people. That understanding makes it so much easier to know what to do.

12:30pm • #3
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Rosalinda (I love your name): Usually when I am writing a post like this I am doing it to inspire myself. So I am glad you were also inspired.

The world needs a lot more inspiration, wouldn't you agree?

12:32pm • #4
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Hear hear.......... people are still buying and people are still selling.  We WILL survive and conquer.

12:59pm • #5
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When you get to Tara, can you send the carraige for me.  I am ready for a slow ride to a warm safe place.

1:11pm • #6
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An inspirational post.  I'm right behind you. Tara here we come.

1:12pm • #7
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Janet I think businesses are going to be be going back to the basics and really working on connecting with the consumer and making sure customer satisfaction is very high. I know I am looking forward to this coming year and expect the Real Estate market to see some improvement.

1:16pm • #8
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Hi Janet,  You write so well !  ANd you really nail it: " No one can fire us, but we have no one to blame but ourselves if we fail. "   Happy Holidays to you !

1:30pm • #9
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 Very well said, Janet.  I, too, feel strangely optimistic about the future, though I know there are still some tough times to come. In part, I suppose it's because I know I am still in control of my destiny. Thanks for the post.

1:41pm • #10
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Janet, very good blog, I love the analogy that you used and that is what it is going to take to put the economy back on track, hard work, the get rich quick days may be over for many, many years, and old fashioned work will be the only way to arrive at that point eventually!

1:52pm • #11
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Well said!  The real estate industry WILL rise again (along with the values of our homes, hopefully!).  Your post is an inspiration!

1:55pm • #12
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Not only was it too easy but that "easy money" led me to spending money on marketing that didn't work any better than the basics that worked for me just fine when I started out - walking the neighborhood, meeting people, open houses - the basics - - UGH - THose of us who are left are learning all over again.  

2:27pm • #13
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Wonderful post.

I especially like this line: "But we still have this: our business."

And we still live in the greatest country on earth - the country that gives us more opportunity than any other.

2:29pm • #14
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Mark: I like that line too.

A friend of mine inspired this post. He was telling me about an observation of his that business professionals who had previously lost interest in their business were suddenly re-focusing and working to squeeze more money out of their business.

He said it was partly because of survival, and partly because it helped them feel more in control of their destiny at a time when everything around them was crashing.

He also pointed out that people who had been planning on phasing out and retiring now were coming to grips with the fact they may need to work a lot longer.

 

 

 

 

2:48pm • #15
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Lisa: I think some of the best marketing you can do in an environment like we have is to let customers know you care about them with something very basic like a call on their birthday. A card at Christmas. A plug for their business on your newsletter, etc.

It is funny how this all works. The more basic something is, the less it seems to cost. And you are right that some business owners are very far removed from these basics.

Being "basic" actually gives you a competitive advantage!

2:55pm • #16
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Maureen: Absolutely it will rise again. But rise or fall, good times or bad, there is always something to do to make your business better.

John: I am glad you understand my mindset. I feel validated by that. Strangely optimistic sounds like the name of a perfume. LOL

2:58pm • #17
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Tony and Darcy: Luckily for me, I find hard work quite stimulating and challenges something that you rise up for.

Bill: and Happy Holidays to you. That line says alot about those of us in this business, doesn't it? Whenever I feel down I always remember this: Hey, no one can fire me, and I can make things better.

Bill in Mass: I am not going to rely on the market to change. I think that is a mistake that we make in our industry. I will simply observe the market and mold my business to be successful within that framework.

3:04pm • #18
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Russ: When you get to Tara you have to put on your work gloves. There are no safe places and no more carriages. There may still be a few warm spots. Let me know when you find one.

3:06pm • #19

this is a good reality check and I will not allow myself to participate in the economic slowdown.

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3:26pm • #20
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And I can tell you one thing Janet, I'll never go hungry again. Ah, Scarlett.  Aren't we all a little bit her offspring?  I love your blog and I couldn't agree with you more.  I for one, actually enjoy work and I think we have the best job.

4:03pm • #21
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Janet - Sometimes I think you are that little man sitting on my shoulder. Thanks for the inspiration.

P.S. Is it still okay to put the retirement fund statements away without opening them?

4:28pm • #22
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Nice.  You're on a roll.

I've been telling agents that ours is a very tough business.  They had to wait until the business got tough to believe me.

Untill we've survived a few of these markets we can't really understand how we need to practice and save in the good times. 

There are, indeed, too many Scarletts in the real estate business.

 

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Janet, This has been one heck of a year. But not only did I survive it but I came out of it being much better at what I do. I am soooo excited about the coming year. I don't want to come home to Tara. Instead I want to create a new home and new and improved future.

It may help that I never had any assets to lose:)

5:20pm • #24

You say this so much nicer than I do.

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5:47pm • #25
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Great post Janet. I'm motivated and speechless. Thank you!

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Well-deserved feature, Janet.   My favorite line is "We can't control everything, but we can control our business. To feel in control is to feel empowered."  Sometimes I have to remind myself of that!

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Great Post as usual. As you know New Orleans is an odd place. We missed the boom and the downturn will not be as bad here since it was never good. There are few corp jobs here, poor people cannot get much poorer, people do cheap things here, so we will see what the future brings.  

6:01pm • #28
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It's really too bad that so many agents (and maybe mortgage professionals as well) didn't provide the quality of service during the good times they are always bragging about. When times got tough, they found out that good service is what people crave. But for many, it will be simply too little, too late.

6:24pm • #29
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I enjoyed reading your post. It's positive and upbeat and I think we need to hear more of this kind of message.

6:39pm • #30

I totally agree it's nice to see something positive on the subject.  We're not looking at our statements for a few months.  In the meantime, my partner and I are really gearing up 2009 also.

Debra Ford

7:16pm • #31

Great Post Janet - there will be a lot of work to do and we will be ready.

7:27pm • #32
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I'm afraid I can relate a little too closely to most of this post. I'm just praying that real estate is sublime in 2009. Yeah. It's goofy, but if it sticks in my head, it helps me stay focused.

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This brings a re-start of clear focus. thank you!

7:34pm • #34

Janet,

Your post is exactly how I have been feeling.  I hate to open the envelopes.

Whoever said that which doesn't kill us makes us strong must have been a realtor.

7:53pm • #35
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Janet: This is a great post... Everyone needs to remember what got them to where they are ( or were ) and get back to the basics.

11:30pm • #36
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Janet, I hope your post does inspire you because it does me and made me think of a few extra things I need to be doing. Thanks again and good luck

11:40pm • #37
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Hi Charles: Well I think I was already inspired and that is why I wrote the post. That it inspired other Rainers is a beautiful thing. If this makes a change for the better (even in your attitude) then that is something pretty special. Happy Holidays.

Roland: Many people mentioned the back to basics theme in this comment thread. How funny that I wasn't even thinking about that as the theme. More like this is what is left, and this is why it can give you hope and optimism.

I love comments. I always learn from them. Happy Holidays and enjoy your Sunday!

10:03am • #38
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Brenda: I hate those envelopes too. One of my most depressing days was when husband shoved one under my nose with one of those little graphs. Do I need to tell you the arrow was going straight down? And it broke my little Christmas trance I was in...listening to music and gazing at those little twinkle lights on the tree.

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Mara: And hope for the New Year. I love fresh starts even if they mean hard work lies ahead.

Lisa: Then I hope it sticks in your head. This post has been stuck in my head for several weeks. I didn't write for about a month so my brain needed clearing out. Creative overload.

Kathy: I am definately ready and knowing what needs to happen and that it is within my power has really brightened me up.

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Debra: At least hide the statements until January. We all need to just relax and re-energize this year more than ever before. It has been such a tough year in so many ways.

Colleen: I actually feel positive and upbeat. I can't exactly explain why. I tried to explain it in this post. I mostly think that just knowing what I need to do to succeed and decided to move forward and do it is a big reason.

Kelly: Having gotten into the mortgage business at the very tail end of the good times, I loved the fact that customer service during the mortgage boom years was terrible. I was able to "pick off" so many mistreated clients who said they had no idea what kind of mortgage they had, and barely spoke to their mortgage broker. These were from my auto leasing data base and it allowed me to have instant clients..those who had leased cars from me became my mortgage clients.

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Eric: Your descriptions of N. O. are always so interesting. Is there some kind of book out about the post-hrricane effects on the city? If not, you should write one. It is rare for someone to actually understand the mentality of a semi-devestated people. I would really be interested in reading that and it might even show some opportunites for "the south to rise again)

10:17am • #42
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Kerry: That is one of my favorite lines to because it speaks to the secret hopelessness that so many of us are feeling because of all the events that appear beyond our control. Everyone wants to know it is within their power to be successful, but we need reminding of that when times are tough. Thank your for your comment!

10:20am • #43
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Scott: Since when are you spechless???! I refuse to believe that.

Bryant: Tara is just the symbol of hope in this post you silly boy. I love that you picked up the "I have survived and I am better because of it" Most of the readers took away something different. But for me, the fact that I survived is oddly one of the reasons I am so optimistic. If I can get through that, I can get through anything. Stronger....onwards and upwards, right?

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Janet, rock on !  Strong and powerful post !  People in all industries should stop whining and saying how bad it is and move on and work hard.  It is always darkest before the dawn and there is tremendous opportunity every day !  Like you, we are very excited about 2009 and we are also excited that we had a strong 2008 and gained market share amongst our competitors !

10:30am • #45
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Lenn: I am sure if you hadn't blogged for 30 days your creative self would have a backlog of opinions and ideas that needed to be expressed. That is my situation so yes, I have been spewing a little bit these last few days to get my creative closet cleaned out before the next onslaught.

You are right that perspective is a huge advantage. Having been through several of these downturns taught me that no matter how good times are, bad times can be right around the corner. This concept is very real if you are a business owner. If you survive, and go on, it colors your financial decisions, and is always right there with you no matter what.

I am not certain what you mean by too many Scarletts. I am thinking you mean... in denial until it was too late? Too pretty but without substance?

Don't forget she may have learned the hard way, but she did make it through..with sheer determination and grit. She can't be all bad.

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Karen: You have my permission to leave the envelope sealed and just enjoy the Holiday.

Marian: Agree there is a little Scarlett in all of us. Some parts we hate. Some parts we love. But the fact she is complicated and is a survivor makes her an all time favorite.

John: I will not allow the economic slowdown to be an excuse for failure.

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C & S: I am thrilled that your 2008 was so successful and that you gained market share. I am excited also, and feel stongly that part of what will make 2009 so good is the fact the real estate industry has mainly the "strong ones" still standing.

I would hope that all of us can be like you and increase our market share.

And PS Whining is a complete waste of time and a real downer. Not going there.

10:46am • #48

Janet - Thank you for the great motivational and inspirational post.  It is a Sunday morning and I am gearing up for my open house this afternoon on a cold day here in Nashville.  My OH is from 2-4 when many of our community will be glued to the Titans-Steelers game.  I have a positive attitude that if I get any traffic it must be serious consumers due to the weather, ballgame and so close to Christmas.  All the best to you and your business!

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Kenneth: Good luck with your open house and make sure to have some candles that smell like Christmas and some warm cider. I love Nashville! Parents and brother both born there. Dad went to Vanderbilt. Spent many Christmases there as a child. Happy Holidays!

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There are opportuties in every market.  It is merely a mind shift to find out what is the opportunities in a shifting market.  Merely spend one day as day of planning and let you mind do its thing to get yourself out of the box of selling in a thriving market.  We are in an atmoshere where CHANGE is the word of the day.  You can either fight that word or realize the reality of it.....or get out of business and get a government job where there is no change.....or money.

12:25pm • #51
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Could not have said this better myself. As my kids were growing up, they would sometimes whine like all kids. I would always tell them this:

There is a beauty in every season.

What you have added in you comment which I find very significant is to let your mind do its thing. You know, that sounds simple, but that is the single place where most people don't do well. They clutter their mind with day to day struggles instead of going to a place where solutions and innovations are allowed to brew and blossom.

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Janet,

Love the post.  

This line resonated:

"We will operate by being LEAN, not MEAN.  We will learn more, read more, become more focused."  

Thanks, as always, for your thought provoking posts.

7:09pm • #53
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Hello Wendy: Still enjoying being a Realtor instead of a Lender? I am seeing your and Doug's listings around and am so happy your team seems to be prospering.

I hope to see you around town and wish you a happy and successful year.

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Bravo!  I am re-blogging this! 

And you put the word "ass" in the body of the blog...

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