Special offer

The Price of December - A few stray thoughts

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Austin Texas Homes, LLC 453249

December 2008 is one that has presented a few challenges for my family.  I am ready for Christmas (well, not totally ready), because it has to be an improvement over some of the stuff we have dealt with this month.

For example:

1. My wife and I both experienced a stomach virus (she had it worse than I did, which was compounded by the fact that she is five months pregnant).

2. My son's Nintendo DS case and all of his games were stolen from our van as we ate at one of our favorite restaurants in north Austin on December 11th, which was the day before his birthday.  Many of my ActiveRain and Twitter friends stepped in to help by sending money and games for him.  You can read my post here about that: How My Twitter/ActiveRain "Family" Made My Son's Difficult Day a Little Brighter

3. Six days after that theft, my daughter's actual DS was stolen from the TABLE at another restaurant when my wife took the kids to the bathroom.  Apparently, she left it sitting there for a couple of minutes.  When they returned, it was gone.  Elizabeth Golden went above and beyond by sending a second check for my daughter (she sent one for Brandon previously).

4. My wife accidentally backed into the vehicle of one of the maids who was cleaning our house.  Our car had damage - hers did not.  After that, while I was working upstairs, I overheard the maids using profanity (some in Spanish, some in English) while talking about my wife.  I made them leave my home immediately, and called the owner of the company, who is a longtime friend and a current client of mine.  Needless to say, they will never return.

5. Yesterday, our refrigerator decided die slowly.  We had to go out shopping for a new one, which answered the "what should we do today?" question.  It will be delivered tomorrow.  Tonight, thankfully, it is very cold (for Texas) outside, so much of our perishable food is sitting in boxes on our back porch.  It looks like we left it out for Santa so that he would have plenty to choose from.

In the midst of that, we had to get our house decorated, shop, plan for relatives who are going to visit soon, plan my son's birthday party, and keep our three children alive.  I also got two new contracts in place, thankfully.

Overall, it could be a lot worse.  I am blessed beyond belief. 

Thanks for listening to me whine for a minute. 

Truly, none of this stuff has put a damper on my Christmas spirit.  After all, it's just "stuff", right?   

Posted by

 

If you're looking for a home in the Austin area, you can also visit my primary website at www.austintexashomes.com.  Thanks!

Patricia Romano
RE/MAX AT BARNEGAT BAY- - Manahawkin, NJ
Your NJ Real Estate Professional-609-312-9043

Sorry for all that has happen Jason, But from reading your post, You are one lucky man, you have a beautiful family, good health and a new life on the way- There is no greater joy than that.

merry Christmas and Hope the new year is filled with more happiness & love

Dec 22, 2008 03:48 AM
Terry Miller
Miller Homes Group - Tyler, TX
Miller Homes Group and Tyler Apartment Locator

Man if I ever have a situation I know who to call. You are a real great guy and I love reading your posts. Happy Holidays.

Terry Miller

Dec 22, 2008 04:27 AM
Joshua & Kathy Schmidt
ERA Henley Real Estate - Cabot, AR

Jason,

     It is simply amazing that the old adage "when it rains, it pours" always seems to happen.  Although your events are far from tragic, they still happened in close succession.  I have always found that so odd.  Needless to say, I could take a little rain at a time, but when it keeps pouring that just stinks.  Glad to hear you are still your chipper self and that you are enjoying the holidays even though they have been tough.  Hope all is well and Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

Dec 22, 2008 07:12 AM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

Jason... you whiner.... lol  Serioulsy. yes, it could be a lot worse.  Besides, what should be the moral of the story when going to the restaurants?  Leave all games at home.  It does suck though.... and some great people on AR.. I just met 7 or so new members down in MD today...   Happy Holidays..  PS... I don't think I knew that your wife was pregnant...  congrats..

jeff belonger

Dec 22, 2008 10:15 AM
Tina Merritt
Nest Realty - Blacksburg, VA
Virginia Real Estate

Jason - i almost could not believe it when you said your daughter's DS was stolen.  That really, really stinks.  I hope things turn around for you and am glad to hear you are rolling with the punches.

Tina in Virginia

Dec 22, 2008 11:44 AM
Eileen Hsu
Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Manhattan, NY
LICENSED REAL ESTATE SALESPERSON

Jason, it is good to hear you vent once in a while, after all, we all think you are almost an Active Rain saint. It is ok to be human and get upset, annoyed, and challenged. But I am sure you have a lot to be grateful for, and it is important that you are surrounded by your lovely family. HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

Dec 22, 2008 04:53 PM
Vanessa Stalets
RE/MAX Elite - Brentwood, TN
REALTOR, Brentwood TN Homes, Real Estate

Jason, I can relate. The last month or two has been a never ending compilation of issues..lol

Sounds like you have the best attitude though. Many, many blessings to you and your family!!

Dec 22, 2008 11:04 PM
Anonymous
Anonymous

John 16:33 

 "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."

Dec 23, 2008 02:05 AM
#37
Alexander Harb
Knights Investing - Mesquite, TX
Dallas, Texas Real Estate Investing

Yup.....

Just STUFF...... wow...two nintendos in a month stolen.....

God is good to be so near to us when things go wrong.......

I am STILL waiting for the groups pages to be fixed....hehehehehe

;-)

Dec 23, 2008 05:16 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

God Bless all of you this Christmas.  My refrigerator died last month and it was only 6 years old.  I hope you have a great Christmas. 

Dec 23, 2008 07:34 AM
Grace Uhlhorn
Keller Williams Realty - Germantown, TN
You'll Succeed. With Grace.

I was so glad to see you say "it's just stuff" after all that's happened to you ... it is so true!  Your wife being 5 months pregnant & you all having 3 kids already - that's FAMILY stuff. Best to you & yours & have a wonderful Christmas!

Dec 23, 2008 08:28 AM
Anonymous
Anonymous

There seems to be a virus for refrigerators in the last week.   Suggestion:  leave all toys at home.  Windows get broken in Chicago even with an empty bag in the back or front seat!  (Lesson learned).

You know how to count your blessings.  One by one.

Merry Christmas to you and your family.

Dec 23, 2008 08:52 AM
#41
Sharon Richards
Kirsten Realty Tampa Florida - Tampa, FL

Jason. Sorry to hear you had a difficult month.  I am glad to see it did not put a damper on your Christmas.  Wishing you and your family a great Christmas.

Dec 23, 2008 02:51 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Jason!  OH MY!  I've missed alot of your posts and have a ton of reading to do, don't I?!  I came by to see your MeMe and found this post--you HAVE had a rough December!  How could I have asked YOU, of all people, to do a MeMe?  I'm so sorry and I do hope that you don't do one--you've had enough going on in your life!

I'm glad to know that AR members contributed to your children's losses.  That just warms my heart and just reassures me that those here are genuinely GOOD folks!  We're all very fortunate to have this group to fall back on--especially when we're having a rough month!

I hope '09 is just divine for you and yours and that things look up from this day forward!  Let me be the first to wish you a Merry Christmas Eve!!

Merry ChristmasMerry Christmas

Dec 23, 2008 04:53 PM
Ann Dail
Baton Rouge Area Homes, Louisiana, USA, 225-761-0551 - Baton Rouge, LA
Broker/Realtor,CRS, ePRO, SRS, B.A.Chem

Are you sure all this REALLY happened???  It's against the law of probability.

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL YOUR FAMILY.  THE WEEK BEFORE NEW YEAR IS BOUND TO BE BETTER!

Dec 24, 2008 07:04 AM
Craig Rutman
Helping people in transition - Cary, NC
Raleigh, Cary, Apex area Realtor

Jason, you're right that it's just stuff....but the kid's toys that were stolen was THEIR STUFF. Thankfully Elizabeth Golden came to the rescue! And even more than that, thankfully you didn't let it put a damper on your holidays!

All the best to you and yours this holiday season.

 

Dec 24, 2008 07:54 AM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

Through all the headaches, it looks like the people around you have simply shown you Christmas spirit.

Dec 24, 2008 09:00 AM
Patty Carroll
Vancouver, WA

Now that all of the bad stuff is over you can look forward to all of the good things that 2009 will bring.  Scott and I wish you and your loved ones a wonderful holiday season with all of the joy and love that it brings.

Dec 25, 2008 12:19 AM
Hope Goss
Ventura Property Shoppe - Ventura, CA
Ventura Real Estate

"I got two contracts in place" sounded like an afterthout.....Awesome......Congrats......and Happy New Year!

Dec 27, 2008 02:00 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Jason,

What a "string" of events! The bad stuff is over!! You are so right it's just "stuff" and your spirit sounded still intact. Hope you had a wonderful Christmas and very best wishes for a prosperous 2009! 

Dec 27, 2008 07:06 PM