Dear 2008,

You gave me a hard time this year.  Accompanying two layoffs, questions of whether I would have enough to pay rent on several occasions, a really, really bad boyfriend, and my family's ties growing steadily weaker the more and more that they fought, I have to say that this is the toughest year I've faced since "growing up".

I learned a lot from you, don't get me wrong.  I learned that hard times call for hard work.  I learned that family is what you make it.  I learned that some people do give a damn about others.  Even so, I feel like we barely even knew each other before we pulled the covers up and nestled down for the long haul.  Still, even, I'm glad that I write down events, because I barely remember much of what we struggled through together.

But... All things must come to an end (notice that I didn't say "good" things).  I know we had a few good times together, and yes, there were times, even, when you made me smile.  The snow on Christmas was a lovey gift, and really, I appreciate it.  I just don't think we're right for each other in the long term.  I know you'll be okay without me, hanging out with 2007 and 2006 in the Years of Memories Past.  I know I'll remember you for your good points when I remember you at all.

That's right, I'm moving on to bigger and better things.  You see, I met this new bloke.  His name is 2009, and he came knocking on my door, asking me out for New Year's.  He seems to be a kind soul, someone I can really cuddle up to.  You were the one who taught me to seize the day and recognize opportunity when it showed its dashing face, and so...really...I must bid you adieu.  For both our goods.  2009 promises many things; I don't believe them all, trust me, but the hope of fewer hardships and more smiles is too much to pass up.

Take care of yourself, 2008.  If you ever need to look me up, you have my number.  Best wishes in all you do.

Yours Sincerely, with love but no remorse,

Claire

 
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DEC
31

That's pretty good. Nice twist on the whole New Year's banter.

Melissa "The Mortgage Maven" Breeland
5:06pm • #1
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Claire, - great letter, very creative.  I hope you have a good 2009 filled with many happy memories. 

5:07pm • #2
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Claire, I have a few choice things to say to him too. I sure like your style. Thanks, Deb

5:07pm • #3
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hahahaha, i would love to embrace 2009, but i am still in love with the 80's.  Happy new year Claire.

5:14pm • #5
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Claire- Here's wishing us all a wonderful time with Mr. 2009.  You will share, won't you?

5:16pm • #6

I'll toast to that.  Let's all focus on making it a better year - Wishing you a Wonderful relationship with 2009 -

5:22pm • #7
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I think I'm experiencing deja vous.  But Happy New Year anyway

5:51pm • #8
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Great post! Very well written and oh soooo true!

5:53pm • #9
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I'm looking foward to 2009 too!  Happy New Year.

5:53pm • #10
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I agree, 2008 had a good points, but 2009 looks so much better.

6:00pm • #12
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Claire, let's make a pact...this time next year we'll be begging 2009 not to leave!!!

6:03pm • #13
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Claire, It seems you've learned alot in 2008. Best wishes with 2009! I am sure it will work out.

6:10pm • #14
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you hit it right with all of the comments about family is what you make it, hard times call for hard work and so on.  Happy New Year to you, I hope you and 2009 hit it off. :)

6:21pm • #15
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Hi Claire - 2008 showed me some wonderful times and also the worst time of my life so far, and that wiped me out for the last few months.  For that part, I would be happy to say goodbye to 2008, but yet I also want to hang on to the good times that took place before that happened.  It's bittersweet for me.  I hope 2009 is much better for you than 2008 was.

Happy New Year,
Ann

6:23pm • #16

Claire, I am always enthralled when I read your writing...this was no exception.  I just hope all those bad things were exaggerated, and if not that they stay in 08.  Happy New Year to you :)

Kathy McGraw
6:25pm • #18
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Wow.  I actually clapped a bit when I finished reading this post.  Easily one of my favorites from you.  A well deserved feature.  I hope 2009 is a better year for all of us.

6:34pm • #19
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This is a wonderful blog. I, too, am not sorry to see 2008 behind me. In many ways, it may be my most meaningful year, but that doesn't mean I've enjoyed it...

6:38pm • #20
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Claire,

Great letter!   This was a great last post for me to read as I am ready to turn the page on 2008.   I am hoping that in a year from now, I will read a letter from you to Dear 2009 and you will share in lots of happy and fun moments.   May 2009 be big and strong and have lots of love in store for you.

6:38pm • #21
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I can relate.  I will not miss 2008 either.  Bring on 2009!

6:39pm • #22
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Claire, You're a gifted writer and I love the post.  There is not much to applaud in 2008 but I did learn to stand on my own in business (well with my partner Terri) and I've learned to be a bit tougher. I'm looking forward to 2009 too.

6:43pm • #23

I love it!  My senitments exactly - word for word.   Goodbye 2008 - you really weren't that great.  2009 Will be just fine!

6:54pm • #25

I love it! My Sentiments exactly - word for word.  Goodbye 2008 - you really weren't that great.  2009 will be just fine!

Colleen Craig
6:55pm • #26
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May you get a better boyfriend, not have to worry about layoffs and may your family not fight -- and oh yes, may you be healthy. All the best to you in 2009.

7:01pm • #27

It's always darkest before the dawn...hey...if you can't be cliche on New Year's Eve, when can you?

Happy New Year Dear...it's the Journey...not the destination.

7:05pm • #28
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 It's always darkest before the dawn...hey...if you can't be cliche on New Year's Eve, when can you?

Happy New Year Dear...it's the Journey...not the destination.

 

7:07pm • #29
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Claire, I'm sorry 2008 was a struggle but I wish you the absolute BEST of everything good in 2009....many, MANY blessings to you for your BEST year EVER!

7:31pm • #30
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That's a cute spin!  Happy New Year to you - see you next year!

7:39pm • #31
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Claire, a toast to you! 

Happy New Year, Blessings for 2009

7:41pm • #33
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This is the funniest things I have read in a while.  You had me rolling!  2008 is like one of those bad boyfriends.  When I look back I am sure I will slap my forehead and say, "What the heck were you thinking?"

7:44pm • #34

You're a good man Charlie Brown. This too shall pass. The intervention of government in free enterprise is unchartered waters and we all have the responsibility to stay tuned.

Joe Pascal   5 Star Real Estate   Wilmington, NC

7:46pm • #35

Claire-Very well said! It's time to shake it all off and start a new! I hope for a wonderous new year for you, your family, your business and friends! Cheers!!!

7:46pm • #36

Very Cute!  Reminded me of a story I wrote about junking my 68 Mustang.  Thank  you.

Vicki
7:59pm • #37
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Hi Claire...If 2008 did not live up to your expectations I certainly hope 2009 will. 

Your good-bye to 2008 was very well done.  With that kind of talent and creativity you should have much success.

Kate

8:05pm • #38

I kept looking for the twist, and being a really well done story with a twist, I didn't know what it was going to be until you told me - well done!  thanks for the moments of fun reading...

8:06pm • #39
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Claire:  I will repeat your title because it sums up exactly how I feel:  Dear 2008, I Will NOT miss you!  I am somewhat older than you and I can tell you that it has been by far the most difficult year of my life.  The hardest part for me was losing my beautiful and always faithful cocker spaniel named Boopi.  That was the worst but there certainly were many more challenges to conquer, seemed like one right after another throughout the entire year.  Still in all, my blessings out numbered the hardships and for that I am thankful.  Wishing you a prosperous and happy 2009.  Your post shows that you have a winner's attitude.

  In loving memory of Boopi  December 1993 - April 2008

8:48pm • #40
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Hi Clare,

Enjoyed reading your letter. You have a gift for sure!

Hears to a rejuvinated and prosperous New Year!

8:56pm • #41

Great BLog  Claire.  I agree. See ya 2008.

9:06pm • #43
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Claire: That is one way of looking at the new year.. Just think positive ! 2009 is gonna be GREAT !!!

9:20pm • #44
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Well what a nice letter, was it a Dear John or what? Just look at it this way it can't get any worse, or can it. Good Luck and heres to a great 09.

9:34pm • #45

Cheers to you...nice way to say good-bye to 2008!

Cheron Lange 

9:59pm • #46
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Haha about the 80's comment...I love the 80's music and I wasn't even born in the 80's!

Haha!

Well yes Claire ... I am certainly looking forward to a new year and administration in the USA.

 

Thanks

Tom Davis

11:46pm • #47

Hey Claire!

Great post, thanks for the letter... I think we can all mentally sign our signatures at the end of that one!  Take care & best of luck to you in 2009.

Aloha, Lachelle signature

11:59pm • #48
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wow - I felt like I wrote this myself...... except I think I'd have to add a few more really's to bad boyfriend! Here's to 2009, and leaving the past where it belongs, and moving forward.......

12:20am • #49
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Claire, I hope you have yourself an awesome 2009! I won't miss 2008!

12:26am • #50

As a married woman, I can't say I'd consider courting the year. I see him more as my business partner. Sure, bad stuff is going to happen, and good stuff too, but when the clock turns on 2010 we'll both have learned from the experience. Hopefully we'll still be in the black!

Happy New Year Activerain family!

2:00am • #51

Very well written, Happy New Year and welcome 2009!

3:03am • #52
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Hi Claire - 2008 could have been worse ... you could have been a real estate agent. :) Best thing about 2009 is it's a clean slate full of possibilities. We just need to get out there and participate.

3:03am • #53
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Claire,

I think the sentiment is "Goodbye, and good riddance!"  Congrats on the feature.

Mike in Tucson

3:14am • #54
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Claire,

You are too cute and too sweet to deal with a really bad boyfriend. No one should deal with a bad boyfriend, or girlfriend.

I am especially sorry to hear about the family ties weakening.

Best wishes for 2009 - we all need them.

Richard

4:57am • #55

My year went okay until the last quarter.  That was a terrible time.  Things are looking up for 2009!

5:12am • #56
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Claire - I'm with you, honey.  Move on and make 2009 your best year ever.  Very creative post - loved it!  Ralph

5:43am • #57
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I too am glad to see the end of 2008.  I don't have much enthusiasm for 2009 either, but I refuse to give in to the fools who are running and ruining things for the majority of us.  Since the Trillions of OUR money being doled out to "fix" are only going to "fix" the budgets of a few, we're on our own and we might as well understand that.

2009 will not be dull. 

5:49am • #58
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Claire,

Awesome post. Very creative and great twist. I wish you a prosperous 2009!!

6:30am • #59
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I love the open letter to 2008! I agree this is one I think needs to be put to rest. Better is ahead. Cheers to you! Happy New year and I'm also ready to make 2009 the best EVER.

7:04am • #60
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Oh, Claire,  The things we learn from love gone bad! So smart of you to take the good and say bye-bye to the bad.  It was a horrendous year for me and yes, I think probably the worst ever.  I too have great hopes for this new guy, 2009.  Good luck to all of us.

7:34am • #61
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Claire, 2009 bring with it a new slate and tremendous opportunity !  Let's make it a great year : )

7:53am • #62
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Great post, Claire!  Definitely more positive than the last few I've read this morning.  2009 IS going to be great isn't it!?!

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8:16am • #63
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2008 has been tough.  I think I'm going to consider it a learning experience.  I'm hoping for a better 2009 and for that we need a housing bottom.  Happy Housing Bottom for all.  Let the healing begin.

8:27am • #64
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Happy New Year, Claire.  I can tell you that 2008 sucked for me professionally... but I still think it was a marvelous year.  We welcomed Jackson Bryce Bailey into the world in March... gotta love that.  We took the family to WDW in November.  The year (including the coming one) is what you make of it.  Don't let the best of time go to your head and don't let the worst of it invade your heart. 

I hope that you have a marvelous time in '09... and don't put up with bad boyfriends.

8:37am • #65
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Claire,  We become who we are, through experiencing the good and the bad in life.  You are on top of it girl and have youth on your side:)  I loved your letter to 2008.  So creative.  Keep putting one step in front of the other. You will soon reach your destination:)  The world has wonderful things in store for you!  Happy '09.

8:44am • #66

Claire,

Here's to 2009 and a great post.  I love Lane's line Don't let the best of time go to your head and don't let the worst of it invade your heart. Priceless.

8:45am • #67
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Cute approach to a dismal subject!  Happy New Year and here's hoping for a prosperous 2009.

8:47am • #68
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Good post Claire. I'm a pastor and my sermon lastnight coming into the new year was, 'A WINNING ATTITUDE'! You've got what it takes to overcome 2008 and you'll do fine in 2009, all because you've got A WINNING ATTITUDE!

You rock!

Jesus is THE ROCK!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!

8:49am • #69
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Hi Claire,  When you decide to dump someone you should make a clean break and " Kick their ass to the curb !"  I am so glad that 2008 is behind us and hope 2009 is the best ever !

8:49am • #70
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Loved your post Claire, congrats on the well deserved star.  I just hope that 2009 isn't the rude roommate of 2008, but a whole new character to deal with and enjoy.  Best wishes.

8:50am • #71
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Claire seems we both have the same idea in mind and you deserve this feature.  Enjoy '09 girlfriend!

8:50am • #72
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Claire -

Keep the faith, girl.

Remember . . . in 2009, if you ever feel like you're at the end of your rope, we've got lotsa people here that can tie a knot in it for you!

Happy New Year!

DEAN & DEAN'S TEAM CHICAGO

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Claire, There are so many creative people who blogg on Active Rain, you are one of them. it reminded me of the swiffer commercials. I sent it on to both of my kids to read. Thank you. Happy New Year.  Bill

9:47am • #74

Claire - I wish you all the very best for 2009! It looks like you are well on your way to enjoying life this year.

Cheers!

David

9:56am • #75
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Claire...did you get inside my mind before you wrote this post? Well, you're better at expressing it than I am...but it's scary. Thank you for posting. I hope on January 1, 2010 we realize that 2009 was a good fit for you (and I) and it was worth it while it lasted.

Thank you, girl! Happy New Year!

10:09am • #76

It's amazing, in many different fields, how many people want to kick that deadbeat of an 08 to the curb.

09's gonna be fine.

 

10:53am • #77

Holy cow, people!  I think this is my most-commented post EVUH.  I wish I could respond to every single one for it's own merit, but I think my long-forgotten coffee might drop to arctic temperatures, and January 1st would be over before I got anything worthwhile done around the house or on my novel (as was the plan)

I think the sentiment shown here is indicative of what a fabulous community we have here on AR, that we've all seen struggles and overcome them for the year.  Let's close the book on 2008 and look forward to 2009 now that it's clearly sitting here on our doorstep!

Thank you all for your well-thought comments; I spent a good portion of the morning reading them after Jon ninja-featured the post.  I am truly, truly happy to be a part of the Rain, and for all the stresses that come with my line of work, every second is worth it because I know that our staff kicks serious butt all day, every day, improving it for the use and gain of us all.

(Well, wasn't that pep-talky?)

Happy 2009, everyone :)

11:08am • #78
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Claire: Thank you. Thaty's a great way to put it. All my best in 2009!

11:10am • #79

Claire,
Nicely put. I hope you maintain that fabulous energy and focus. Those two attributes will carry you to success and acheivement in whatever you undertake. Be the best!

Joe Pascal  Owner/Realtor  5 Star Real Estate in Wilmington, NC

11:17am • #80

Claire,

Go get em girl!  You sound like you have it all together.  We wish you the best in the new year!

Steve and Cristy

 

11:40am • #81
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Atta girl to you Claire. When the going gets tough, the tough get going. You sound tough.

Best wishes for a great 2009

11:53am • #82
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Happy New Year Claire!  Cute note and rings some truth with all of us, I am sure!  KM

12:02pm • #83

HA!  I loved the writing in this piece.... I feel the same way about most of 08'...

Have a great date :))

Eugenie Eckler
12:16pm • #84

Thanks for your post. A great way to "write off 2008". I like you, did not have a good 2008....personally I am SO happy we are in 2009. On to bigger and better things!

 

Take Care and Keep in touch!

~Alisa

www.TheBeachPeach.com

Alisa www.TheBeachPeach.com
2:37pm • #85

Thanks for your post. A great way to "write off 2008". I like you, did not have a good 2008....personally I am SO happy we are in 2009. On to bigger and better things!

 

Take Care and Keep in touch!

~Alisa

www.TheBeachPeach.com

2:39pm • #86
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I love your post... When I look back at 2008.. It has been a difficult one, but greater things are coming your way....  

3:31pm • #87
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Claire, there have been years where I felt the same thing....good ridden's. I think that is why starting a New Year is so exciting, it is a time to reflect, start over, let go and embrace. May you be blessed beyond measure in 2009. I appreciate all you do to keep things running....not an easy task I am sure....but an exciting one.

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Claire,

Well put. Most mortgage, real estate and other AR pros must be toasting the new year with a new gleam in their eyes. 2008 taught us a lot about everything and now we ought to be that much smarter to make 2009 a better one. Happy New Year.

8:46pm • #89

Amen to that.  I hope everyone has a better next year.  I know I will.

8:54pm • #90
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Claire - That is great!!! I think a LOT of people are feeling the same way!!!

9:55pm • #91
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Hi Claire.

I think we've all done some sobering up from 2008, and I don't mean from champagne.  Now that we have the bad news out of the way, I think we understand that the tough times are not over.  If we learned anything, we will be better prepared to endure and even to prosper in 2009.

May last year be a fleeting memory except for the good.  Touch the Divine in 2009!

12:19am • #92

I will not miss 2008 either, and look forward to 2009 as a very prosperous year

1:05am • #93

Looking forward to 2009 and the new President Elect...and the hope that he is talking about I see as a great plan with great leaders in his Cabinet. 

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¡Feliz año nuevo, Claire! Me encantó tu carta abierta al 2008.

9:36am • #95
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Claire - well then here is wishing you a even better 2009 . . .

3:00pm • #96
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Wow Claire. I completely feel the same way. Soooo glad 2009 is here.

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Nicely said.  Very nicely said.  Good bye 2008 and 2009 HHEEELLLOOOO 2009.  We've been waiting.

2:48am • #98

Very nice and clever post. I sincerely hope that 2009 is awesome for you. Good luck!

9:09am • #99
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Claire,

I hope 2009 is the best year ever for you!  That was a great blog!

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