A tale of two houses...It was one of those nights you never forget. 

Earlier, the wind had played gently with my trusses; nipping in between the shingles as it whistled upwards towards the towering timbers overhead. 

The rain had started too.  Falling in lazy, large droplets, spattering across the window panes before making fat little puddles of mud.

But, things started to change around about midnight.  At a time when most homes had long quenched their lights and their owners were solidly tucked between the overstuffed duvets.  The wind which had earlier tousled my trusses began to bruise them with vicious ferocity...as though it was now angry.

Lightning streaked across the sky, first wordlessly and then booming with bolts of thunder which rocked me to the core of my foundations.  The rain was driving harder now, the wind whipping it into a  sideways frenzy which whirled the torrent of droplets around me like a dizzy merry-go-round.  Faster, faster, faster...

 

storm cloudsThe pounding was unrelenting.  Wind, rain, lighting, thunder...all seemingly at war with each other whirling around in a mad cosmic chase which ripped at my very core.  It was all I could do to stay anchored to my footings. 

I remembered when the builder had laid them down.  He was an honest man who took real pride in the five homes that he built every year.

Not one to cut corners, he had personally inspected every step of the job, forcing workman to complete the job to his high standards even when they complained that the delays would cost him dearly.  It was his reputation on the line and he cut off their protestations with a fierce look.

The foundations for the house across the street had been dug shortly after my builder got started.  Yet amazingly, it had been completed ahead of mine.  Causing just a little grumpiness for my homeowners. I couldn't see everything the crew was doing, but they worked fast...mighty fast to get that house ready.  Perhaps too fast.

It was hard to see clearly through the inky darkness, but several shingles whipping by my roof line indicated that all was not well. 

I heard several large crashes and then there was silence.  It was as though the wind and rain had simply spent themselves into a muted, angry truce a they ran out of steam.

Across the street however, a scene of intense devastation was unfolding.  Large portions of the roof had been whipped off and an entire corner of the home had simply crumpled into the ground.  The foundation wall had shifted and the home looked as though it might topple over at any time.  A crowd of concerned onlookers was gathering to survey the damage.

My thoughts drifted back to the wise builder who had had taken such detailed care in laying my foundations.  I used to hear him telling his workers that they needed to build as though they were building their own home.  In fact, he often refused to build on certain lots when he felt the underlying terra ferma would not be rock solid. Unstable, shifting soil was a guaranteed non starter when it came to undertaking a building job. 

I was thankful for the attention had had paid to making sure I had a stable foundation today.  I had survived the storm because of it.  I had been buffetted by wind, trounced by the rain and beaten silly by the storm, but I had not failed because of a formidable foundation.

the wisdom of timeFoundations are what anchor us to the earth in a solid fashion.  They're not glamorous.  It's about the basic building blocks of life..and business.  The follow-up and follow-through. 

The simple task of doing  what you say and delivering beyond expectations.  It's about the phone call, note and thank you card.  The research conducted with thoroughness and the listing monitored with diligence. 

Foundations are what ensure that you don't forget who you work for.  They remind you that every part of the process in life, relationships and business is another nail which holds together the priceless treasure of a good reputation.

Yes, this story can be found in a truncated fashion in Matthew 7:24-28.  It's actually commonly refered to as the Parable of the Wise and Foolish Builder.  Because you see, we're all architects of our own lives.  What we build reveals who we really are.  It's a matter of choice...

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44 Comments on A Tale of The Wise and Foolish Builder...

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Lola, life just like a house needs to be on a firm foundation, or just like a house that was poorly built, it will come tumbling down.

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We all need a firm foundation in our business and in our personal live thanks for the reminder.

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Hi George, thanks for sharing your thoughts.  I'm struck by the fact that the wind and rain didn't have the power to tear the house down..,per the story, the house that came down was the one without solid footing.  It really made me think about what is happening in our industry today.  The real estate market challenge will NOT have the capacity to bring down agents trained with a solid foundation.  They may shake and rattle, but they will not fall.  I find this truth very encouraging...

8:44pm • #3
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Hi Terry, thanks for stopping by.  Sometimes an old story can frame the present day context in a new light.  That's what this story does for me.

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Excellent analogy for not cutting corners and for having a firm foundation. Then when the winds come in economic times we have built solid and can grow from there. Oh sure a few shingles may blow off but they are easily repaired unlike the whole house falling down.

6:21am • #5
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Architects of our own lives.

Lola, thank you.  I love this story and especially am touched by how true it is in all of our lives, not matter what our profession is.

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Lola,

Love the analogy and thanks for sharing. It is an ecouraging story and one we can all relate too!

7:30am • #7
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What a great writer you are Lola.  I thought I was reading a book.  I thoroughly enjoyed reading your post this morning. Love the analogy.

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What great reading for the morning!  I think we all need to really focus on whats right for us...I remember seeing a financial planner once and he told me before you get into investing you have to lay down the foundation..at the time...the foundation was really weak...I never forgot that message..and started thinking about the foundation I had layed other parts in my life..he gave me lots to think about.

8:32am • #9
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Because you see, we're all architects of our own lives.  What we build reveals who we really are.  It's a matter of choice...

Can't say it much better than that.  Hope your 2009 is the best ever !

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Very interesting and I love the series idea although I hadn't seen the others.  Time to catch up.

 

Your joy of writing certainly shines.

8:44am • #11
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Wow, Lola!  You always amaze me with your storytelling ability.  You certainly have a way of painting a picture with words, and that is an art.  Thanks for this inspiring story.  :)

8:47am • #12
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Lola, a solid foundation whether it be builder or our lives, is essential to sturdy footing and weathering the storms.

9:44am • #13

This is one of my favorite passages in the Bible -- I was actually able to find a "print" with this passage -- great post -- Best of Luck in 2009! JE

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Lovely writing!

And strong foundations are the basis for everything from our homes to our businesses to our lives.  If we don't build upon strength, we don't build upon longevity.

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Sounds like you really dodged a bullet here Lola.  When having a home built it's wise to stop by and inspect what's going on since it's hard to judge quality until something like this happens.

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10:43am • #16
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This was very lovely to read - you are a good writer - we all need to make sure our foundations, both literal and in the abstract, are firm.

10:47am • #17
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Lola, what beautiful writing as always and an important reminder that during these stormy times the survivors will be those that have a strong foundation based upon good work ethics, hard work and knowledge.

11:17am • #18
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Hi Lola - your builder sounds like my kind of guy.  That was my challenge for the new year in a previous post:

http://jaymarkanich.activerain.com/blogsview/857513/A-Golden-Rule-Business

Long before I was an inspector I used that parable a lot as a missionary.  It was good of you to post it!  Thanks!

11:19am • #19
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Nice blog. As an inspector I can really relate to it.

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Jay, thanks for stopping by.  I appreciate hearing from a home inspector.  I'm sure you understand the issues involved in solid foundations in ways that most of us cannot.

Steve, thanks for reading. Like Jay, your perspective on this blog has a very practical application. 

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Missy, thanks for your comment.  I'd heard this story since I was a kid.  However the truths are even more appreciated today.  We are in an economic storm, that cannot be denied.  But, it is a real comfort to know that good foundations go a long way to enabling not just weathering the storm but thriving in the aftermath.  Here's to a thriving 2009!

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Kris, very true...this is about a universal principle of life.

Dorrie, Thank you.

Rebecca, Thank you for stopping by this morning to read and comment.  The story can be found in The Good Book! :)

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Midori, it really is a paradigm shift isn't it?  We're often so engrossed in the dramatic issues that swirl around in a storm that it's easy to ignore that the most important part of surviving the elements is the foundation. 

I think about deeply rooted ancient trees that survive for hundreds of years in the forest and go through countless storms.  They survive primarily because they are strongly rooted and grounded. Thanks for sharing your thoughts here...

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Bill, Thank you! And Amen.

Hi Karen, Thanks for stopping by.  If you enjoyed this post, I think you'd like the ''What it Means Series'.  Each post examines a different element of character building or life.  Enjoy! :)

Carol, I'm so glad you stopped by and that you enjoyed the read. :)  Always a pleasure...

Jason, this is a great story to have as a favorite.  Here's to your continued success in 2009!

 

 

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Absolutely wonderful post, would be great to have your gift of the printed words.

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Lola, What a great analogy!  I think our generation understands the concept..I hope we can teach it to our children!

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Ann, appreciate your comment.  Thanks for reading.

Barb, I'm thinking that perhaps our generation (I'm GenX) didn't understand the concept as well as we should have...In some ways, our kids are leading the way in teaching us about affirming human life and relationships.

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Gary, True!

Lane, when you take that perspective, you can see how far reaching the implications of solid strong foundations actually are.  Thanks for your comment.

Kris...the 'house' which told the story did. :)

Thanks Emily.

Diane, Thanks for stopping by.  I think more than ever, it will be important for all of us to examine our foundations and repair them where necessary.  I'm encouraged by the fact that foundations can be strengthened and repaired.  All is not lost...

12:38pm • #29
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A strong foudation built brick by brick can weather any storm life throws at it. Very good analogy.

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Lola,

What an excellent article.  I totally agree that we really need the firm foundation in our lives. 

1:51pm • #31

Your photo reminds me so much of Michele Obama!  I do hope that you take that as a compliment, as she is a beautiful, graceful and highly intelligent woman.  I have to admit though -- every time I see your photo as a small thumbnail, I have to make a double take, thinking "what is Michelle Obama doing on ActiveRain?!"

2:24pm • #32
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Lola,

Foundations are what it's all about...Life is a journey and we're all builders...without that firm foundation all building is worthless...!!! I checked, and mine was built on ROCK...!!! Thanks,   Fran

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Cameron...the strength and integrity of the foundation makes all the difference in the world in building a house...or a life. 

Thanks Diane.

LOL..."what is Michelle Obama doing on Active Rain?"  That's too funny.

That's the point Fran.  We all need to check our foundations to make sure that we're building on solid ground and with integrity.  This parable is applicable in so many practical ways.  Thanks for stopping here to read and comment.

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Right now I'm watching some people I'm very close to, be spiritually buffeted by the storms of life. I experienced a lot of it last year. And as you know, it will continue to happen, as we grow "from glory to glory". It's difficult to watch though, when you see this happen with people who are spiritually mature enough to know better. But the storm is so strong, they're allowing it to buffet them around. It's gotten so strong that they've taken their eyes off the the Source of their strength.

But I realized that as I've been watching them, and as I've been getting more frustrated by their actions, it's been exposing some very old, deep rooted issues in myself. I have a hard time getting close to people and trusting them. So when people I've respected and trusted for a long time start letting the storms tear at their foundations, it starts to have the same affect on me. I actually realized this as I was reading your post. LOL. God works in mysterious ways. My friends have their eyes on their problems, and I have my eyes on their shortcomings. So none of us have our eyes on Christ. Yes, He's our foundation. But with Christ, in order for Him to keep us from falling, we have to keep our eyes on Him.

My mom once told me that God has His mighty hand over us at all times. He'll never remove it. But He's given us free will. WE can walk out from under that covering, thus leaving us exposed to the storm. I'm seeing a lot of that lately. And I'm guilty too. I'm going to have to go pray some more. You started a thought process I need to pray about. This is good though. It's just in time to get me through some events that I know are going to happen tomorrow.

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Lisa, it's powerful when we are given the grace to see an issue revealed at it's source.  That's what I see in this portion of your comment:

"My friends have their eyes on their problems, and I have my eyes on their shortcomings. So none of us have our eyes on Christ."

And when God shows us the root of a problem, He also shows us the solution & the way out...

"Yes, He's our foundation. But with Christ, in order for Him to keep us from falling, we have to keep our eyes on Him."

I'm glad you read this post tonight and that it was beneficial to you.  May God's Spirit continue to lead you on to higher and firmer ground. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

9:55pm • #36
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As Christians, if we build on anything other than our Messiah as the foundation to our lives...everything will fall apart when lifes storms come......

I am featuring this post in,"Christianity and Real Estate"

WELL DONE...and rightly featured in the network at large!!!

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6:13am • #37
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I've always loved the teaching of the Parable of the Wise and Foolish Builder and the importance of foundational fortitude. We are certainly the builders of our realities. However some start off ahead, with foundational wisdom parented in. Others may take varying degrees of time to overcome and develop, but may excel tremendously nevertheless.

Thoughtful.

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Good foundational principles make for great business.  Thanks for the post and have a great day!

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Hi Lola!  Happy NEW Year!  As usual, i find you at your post - encouraging audiences....and leading them to grasp for higher heights!  What a great enhancement AR gained when YOU came on board. 

When i began reading your post, i became enraptured... and in NO HURRY for the story to end!  This is the affect most of your writings have on many of us. Your depiction places us BACK where we should always remain even in times like this... without worry, trusting our Faithful Maker who works ALL things out for our good.  (I'm NEVER disappointed when i sneak in and read from time to time

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Alex, Thanks for the feature!  I appreciate it.  I hope this post helps us to think about the possibilities available to each of us in 2009.

Deborah, That's very true.  It's a real gift to be raised in a way that allows us to develop solid foundations.  But, the beauty of God's grace is that even if we do not have that support as children, we can make choices which create life giving opportunities.  Each of us has a personal responsibility in building our lives.

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Thanks Jason.  Hope you have a great New Year!

Diane, it's so nice to see your comment!  I love it when you pop into the Rain.  How are you?  I'm so grateful for the connections which have occurred through the Active Rain network & I remain especially grateful for your encouragement.  May God's blessings continue in your life in 2009.

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Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate- All I want to know is when is your book coming out? Great post Lola. Thanks for teaching me a scripture in the bible that I didn't know. Congratulations also on being one of the newest moderators at the Christianity Real Estate Group on Active Rain.

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Lanre, LOL...Thanks for stopping by.  I'm glad you enjoyed this post & I look forward to working with the Christianity in REal Estate Group. 

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