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Single or Married - What's your opinion?

I would like some honest opinions on if you think being single is a better life, or being married?

I know most people are going to say married because so many at activerain are, and some may not want to get in trouble because the other half might find out.

And some may say being single is lonely, just because your single doesn't mean you are alone.

Remember, let's be honest and not think about what others may think when they read this blog and our comments.

I am going to give my honest opinion!

I really like being married and I also like being single. I was single for many, many years before I met my wife and I did not have a problem with being single. The only ones that had a problem with me being single were my family and friends.

Being married is great because we work as a team, travel together, laugh together, cry together, etc. Being married is a special love and bond that sometimes we take for granted.

If you are married (or not), I would like everyone that reads this blog to call your partner at home or on the phone before you comment and really tell them how special they really are.

So for any of you out there that are single, there is nothing wrong with it. You must first love yourselves before you can love others.

And being married is a very big commitment.

And if you like blogs like this about love and have some love stories please post them to this group!

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Posted by ROBERT A.SWETZ - Commercial Real Estate on 01/07/2009 08:01 PM

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29 Comments on Single or Married - What's your opinion?

JAN

Been married for 34 years and would not change a thing. If I was single I would not have a beautiful daughter and a great life with her and her mother.

You got married when you were 9 ??

Oops! Let me change that

Been single for 34 years and would not change a thing! I think I will be ready to get married in another 20 years maybe!

David - Thank you for your comment and coming around.

Rebecca - I would like to thank you also for your comment.

All the research suggests that married people are healthier and happier. Interestingly this is especially true of men.

Personally, I like being married. I've been married for 10 years and though he gets on my last nerve its nice to know someone is in my corner and that someone loves me at my very worst. I wouldn't trade that.

Vegas Bob:

Great post - been married 15 years and love it. Happiest ever - husband is a blast and have a great daughter. Enjoy being married way more than being single.

Robert, For me, being married is much better than being single if you have a sweet husband who treats you like an equal and like a princess at the same time. And of course, I treat him like an equal and like a prince at the same time. We are practically joined at the hip, as the saying goes, but we also give each other space, breathing room.

I think the better life is the life you have. Be happy with your situation, whether single or married. Try to learn new things, experience new things, have fun. Everyone is not meant to be (or stay) married, and everyone is DEFINITELY not meant to parent kids.

How's that for a non-answer?

I am married going on 36 years. We have worked together in 3 businesses including real estate, at one point in time. We have travelled all over the USA together because of his business and my flexiblity.

We met 42 years ago and we were smitten. We have two great boys. One is now my partner in real estate. What a joy to teach him all the wonderful things I know and continue to learn. My other son is married to a fantastic women and is a Doctor. They met at the same age my husband and I were when we met.

Life is sweet-we laugh together all of the time. We compromise together. We share coffee.

I could not imagine being single, playing the dating game and that "to kiss or not to kiss game at the door". I could not cope with that kind of stress in my life.

Well, I met my husband when I was 15 so I really don't know any different. 15 years later there were times where I wish I was single....but there was something worth sticking to it. It was not always an easy road and there was a time where I was single for a year (we had split) I had the time of my life but that quickly got boring. I think it depends on the type of person you are. I'm happy having someone in my life (all the time), it keeps me grounded and I tick soo much better. I think if I was single, I would get even more caught up in work. I could work 24/7 if there wasn't anything to come home to.

Tough question...and I'm not sure if there is a right answer.

I wouldn't know because I haven't been single in 19 yrs. I wouldn't mind trying it out for a day or too just to see whats better but I doubt I could give you an honest opinion. I guess being single was nice when I was younger but now I'm not sure.

I'm single but sometimes I think married people really have it made. Some of them seeem really happy. All of my best friends are married and its always an intersting transition to watch. It's almost like I lose them in a way. I'm sure I will get married someday. Currently I could not deal with the commitment. If I do get married it probably wont be till I'm in my late 30's

Of course I can only speak for myself but I love being single. I call it the "No Compromise Lifestyle". My choices are my own, there's nobody to disagree with me in my castle - I do what I want, when I want.

No denying there are plenty of happy couples but there are also loads who lead lives that are much more limited because they are afraid to be on their own. There are too many people being made miserable because of the actions, attitudes, and treatment they recieve by their partner.

The longer I've been single the happier I've become.

We have been married for 14832 days but sometimes we act like we are single. I have introduced Lee as my roommate. We still date each other and have fun.

Justin- I am going to try and respond to every ones comments, but I am pushing you forward because we are buds.

Read this blog that Jackie left because it's all there----------------

How's that for a non-answer?

01/07/2009 08:25 PM

by Jackie - MortgageVirtualAssistant.com (770.469.7385)

And like I wrote in my blog, being married is wonderful but I think it depends on the individual. Never hurry into something your not ready for and remember.

No one knows what goes on behind closed doors!

I was married 22 years. Would not change a thing. We had many many great times together and two wonderful children. No longer together, but I have no regrets. I would rather have those great times with my family than to never had it all. Divorce is not a failure. People change/grow at different paces/times in their life. I have been single 5 years and ready to get married again! Redondo beach CA www.KBSouthBayhomes.com

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Stacey - I agree with some of your comment, you need nerves of steel.

Kathy Knight - Thanks for your honest opinion and give you family a big hug from Vegas Bob!

Shirley - Very nice comment and yes you need breathing room!

Jackie - I am very impressed with your comment even though you may think it's a non-answer, it's wonderful!

Diane - great, honest, sharing comment and make sure to give your family a big hug. Congrats o 42 years!

Catherine- There is no right answer, these are every ones opinions to the question and we are entitled to them. Thanks for your comment.

JAN

Neal - Thanks for the comment.

Elizabeth - Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment and there is nothing wrong with being single. It's all about what makes you happy.

Margaret- Thanks for stopping by with your wonderful comment and I am glad you and your sweetheart/roommate/ husband are happy!

Karen - Been there, done that and I will agree with you that we all change in time. Some times we can live with the change and sometimes we can't, thanks for leaving a comment.

Now that I am married to the right person... I know that for me I'm in the right place being married. I do think I should point out that I believe one should not get married when they are too young. I know it has worked out for many including my parents, but I think you should know and love ones self before you commit to a life long relationship.

Tammy - Thanks for coming by and very good answer!

Not saying I wouldn't do it again, but marriage is not for me. Life sentence! I never wanted children, and I get bored easily. Love living alone, and have no problem being in a committed relationship - - living together 7 days per week dulls the senses and passion, and I love passion. I want someone coming home to me because they WANT TO... not because they have to!! Just sayin' .....

Robert,

I think it is a personal choice we all make. Personally, I love being married. I have been married almost 45 years, I love my husband and daughter, and I am totally devoted to the two grandchildren! To each his own!

Robert - I am so very happily single at this point in my life! I never feel lonely and enjoy my freedom immensely. : ) Married or single are both okay as long as you are happy.

I think some people enjoy being single...as some enjoy being married...as for me...

It is good both ways. Both have advantages...Married does edge it out though..Most days!

Susie - I really, really like your comment and this line is the greatest and so true!

- living together 7 days per week dulls the senses and passion, and I love passion. I want someone coming home to me because they WANT TO... not because they have to!!

JAN

I enjoyed my single life, but after awhile it's a little overrated. I love being married! I thank God I married a great guy. I think the key is marrying the "right" person.

JAN

I guess it really depends on where you are in your life....but I'm with Stacey-Ann on this one! Great answer Stacey-Ann!!

JAN

Robert although I have been married for 10 years in today's day and age that is something of a milestone I would think. My take on marriage is simple...You get out of marriage what you put into it! Nothing more and nothing less!!! Take care and happy blogging!

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