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It's About Commitment

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Wendy Smith Real Estate

I recently moved to a small community with a single entrance.  At that entrance is a few small neighborhood retail shops which include a restaurant, a beer & wine store and a pet grooming store.  The newest addition is an ice cream shoppe and the reason I sat down to write.

First let me say that I know nothing about the operations or running of an ice cream shoppe but my best guess would be that the ideal time to open an ice cream shoppe is not winter.  Even in Florida, we have days that are just not ice cream type days.  In any event, Mr Ahearn decided to open his ice cream store in December.

yummy ice cream coneThe ice cream store has all the favorites - soft serve ice cream perfect for dipping in hot chocolate syrup, popular cone flavors like rocky road, cookies n cream, you name it, he has it and what ice cream shoppe would be complete without home made sundaes and banana splits.  

As you might imagine traffic to this shoppe full of ice cream goodies has been scarce.  Passing by the shoppe a couple times each day I can't help but notice the empty parking in front of his store.

 I always root for the little guy whether he or she is venturing out to start a business of their own or embarking on some journey to fulfill a dream.  For Mr. Ahearn, this ice cream shoppe IS his dream.   

The thing that sets Mr. Ahearn above the crowd is his determination for success.   I first noticed Mr. Ahearn and his home made sign one Sunday afternoon; Mr. Ahearn was holding up his sign waving it at cars as they passed by on Alt 19 - his sign simply said OPEN.   It made me reflect a few moments on commitment and how this man and his sign is a good example of commitment.  

I've seen Mr. Ahearn and his sign frequently since that Sunday afternoon and one evening it was well past sundown when I saw Mr. Ahearn and his sign waving at the cars.  

As a parent, I try to take note of real-life opportunities to help my teenager understand concepts such as commitment.   Our society has become one of easy bail outs when things get tough and commitment has become just another 3 syllable word.  So, as my daughter had lunch and discussed plans for college and moving out of the nest, we also talked about commitment and Mr. Ahearn for she too had noticed Mr. Ahearn and his sign.    

When things get tough, and the road is not as easy as we hope it to be, we think of Mr. Ahearn.  Sometimes failure is just not an option.

 

 

 

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Counting Blessings & Serving My Community,

Wendy Smith

 

 
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

I agree with your pilosophy...... people have lowered their standards all around unfortunately. We need to continue to believe in our integrity and hold true to our values in this lazy, take the easy road world of today.

Happy New Year!

Good Luck,

Patricia Aulson/Hampton NH Real Estate Portsmouth NH Real Estate

Jan 08, 2009 01:24 AM
Goodbye Active Rain
Out of Real Estate

Wendy,

Failure IS NOT an option.  Once you quit, you fail.

Thank you for the post.

Jan 08, 2009 01:29 AM
Herb Hamilton
RE/MAX Preferred Inc. Realtors - Portland, OR
Real Estate Broker ,CDPE, Downtown Portland

You have to pull for a guy like Mr. Ahern even when in the back of your mind you are shouting " What the heck were you thinking? Openining an Ice Cream Shop in December with an economy like this"

Jan 08, 2009 01:31 AM
Li Read
Sea to Sky Premier Properties (Salt Spring) - Salt Spring Island, BC
Caring expertise...knowledge for you!

Thanks for this timely reminder.    I once heard Whoopi Goldberg being interviewed, some years ago, and she remarked that "no wasn't in her vocabulary".    It was in the context of "failure wasn't an option".    Same with your story.    We all need to remember this.

Jan 08, 2009 03:22 AM