As many of you know, my family has chosen to home school despite my parents, grandparents, and even my brother all being teachers or having been teachers. But, one of the things that they criticized us for in that decision is that our children weren't getting the social interaction that they needed.
Now, I personally disagree with that because they are involved in sports, church youth groups and even girl scouts, so they get plenty of social interaction as far as I'm concerned. Even if you talk to most people who meet our kids they say they are the most well spoken and polite children they have ever met. (Not to toot my own horn, but I think my wife and I are raising some pretty darn good kids.)
But, last night during our family game night we realized that we are sheltering our kids, but sometimes that isn't always a bad thing. While playing a game with the kids, my daughter was beating the heck out of my wife. So she laughingly said to my 10 year old daughter, "AHHHH, this is child abuse starts, so cut it out!" It was a joke, of course, and we were all laughing. But, then in all seriousness, my 10 year old daughter looked at my wife and asked, "What is child abuse?"
WOW! We were sheltering our children, but I think we may be sheltering them from what the real world is like. The weird part is that we were able to shelter her from this despite me being involved in the Cinderella program that has a lot to do with abuse of young girls from family and or other figures that most kids look up to.
So, my question is, can we really shelter our kids too much or maybe kids should be in such a position that they can be kids and not have to worry or ever know what such things in life happen? After our other younger children went to bed we sat her down and had to explain what child abuse was and she didn't know that people could or did treat kids that way.
We had to explain to her that is why her uncle is a foster parent. Most of those kids were in exactly that situation before going to his house to live with him. I think she was a little saddened that kids she may even know on the baseball team, or kids she knows from girl scouts could be in this situation. Her perfect world may have been shattered by a innocent comment during a family game night.
I wish we didn't live in such a world, but I'm glad she didn't have to find out about it until she was 10.
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