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"7 Pounds" and a Remarkable Life

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Real Estate Agent with Pedersen Real Estate 01435175

I recently saw the movie Seven Pounds.  In this movie one of the main characters, an obviously good person, said that she had not lived a remarkable life.  Since seeing this movie, I have reflected again and again on her comment and have asked myself: What IS a remarkable life?

I imagine that everyone has a different vision of what makes remarkable people.  To some a remarkable person is someone who has achieved great things, maybe invented something amazing, to others it may be people who have had influence for good on the world like Mother Teresa.  Being remarkable is not necessarily just measured by one's achievements, it is also the meriad of small things done daily throughout a life in the way that someone treats and serves others.  Here is my list of the things that I believe make a remarkable life:

  • Service to others
  • Integrity at all times
  • Generosity -  they are generous in sharing their means and time and talents
  • They are generous with their love and are loved in return
  • They show kindness and respect shown to all
  • Gratitude – which they both feel in their hearts and express
  • Commitments are kept – even the little ones
  • They truly listen to others
  • They bear adversity with patience and dignity

A life lived by principles such as these is a remarkable life.  This is a question for all of us:  What do I need to do to live a remarkable life?  I've known people who seem to be so good to their friends and family, but when it comes to business - it's all about the money.  As real estate professionals lets all try improve in the ways that we treat others - everyone we come in contact with.  We can make the world a better place.

"I expect to pass through this world but once.  Any good thing, therefore, that I can do or any kindness I can show to any fellow human being let me do it now. Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again."  –Stephen Grellet (1773-1855)

Posted by

Vicki Pedersen 
Pedersen Real Estate
951-840-5212
vicki.pedersen@gmail.com
DRE#01435175

www.Riverside4Homes.com

Kat DeLong
Realty ONE Group Mountain Desert - Prescott, AZ
REALTOR

Vicki: it is obvious that you live by your list, and I bet your friends and family and clients would ALL agree.   Beautiful post!

 

Feb 01, 2009 02:32 AM
Jay Williams
Greenville, NC - Greenville, NC
Mortgage Loan Officer - Getting You The Right Loan

Vicki, Your post reminds me of a Bible verse. "He who is faithful in what is least is also faithful in much"

Often it is the little things that makes one remarkable.

Jay

Feb 01, 2009 06:42 AM
Bruce & Mary Smith
Savannah Lakes Homes - McCormick, SC
REALTORS, Savannah Lakes Village McCormick SC

Vicki - Awesome post!  You started off my week with positive thoughts!  Thanks.

Mary

Feb 01, 2009 10:15 PM
Vicki Pedersen
Pedersen Real Estate - Riverside, CA
Providing Exceptional Real Estate Service

Kat, Jay, and Mary,  Thats for the nice comments and for reading the post.  Also, I do recommend you go see the movie.  Its a good one. 

Feb 02, 2009 04:36 AM
Ellie McIntire
Ellicott City Clarksville Howard County Maryland Real Estate - Ellicott City, MD
Luxury service in Central Maryland

This is a great well thought out list. I have stared into space for 10 minutes trying to think of one to add, with no luck.

Feb 03, 2009 04:43 AM
Anne Marie Malf
Malfi Marketing Solutions ~ for real estate professionals - Yardley, PA
Real Estate Marketing Consultant/Virtual Asst, Bucks County,PA

Hi Vicki, wow what an incredible list and the movie sounds like something I would love - will definitely check it out.  I love these kinds of movies that really get you thinking and reflecting on your life - and firmly believe having gratitude every day and giving your best (honesty, integrity, committment, and truly listening) is how I choose to live my life.  For me the control center of my life is my attitude and I thank you for sharing your thoughts and the movie.  ~Anne Marie

Mar 11, 2009 12:53 AM