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Dear Diary, My Passion is....Life Itself

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Real Estate Agent with Liberty Homes RS-#62825

Cheetah at Honolulu Zoo

For those of you that remember the movie "Love Story"  (1970) you most likely equate the meaning of the word "passion" with ‘love'.  "Love means never having to say you're sorry" is one line that permeated throughout the movie and continued on after her death regarding his relationship with his father.

Now that I'm a ‘little' older the meaning for passion takes on a whole different meaning and it surpasses the joy, infatuation and happiness one feels when in a wonderful relationship. It goes beyond that first love for someone or something as if in blissful harmony through a ‘courtship' phase.

The motivation and determination becomes a driving force and therefore becomes my passion in a deeper sense of the word. 

  • The passion and intense desire to be the best person I can be....therefore, leaving a grand legacy behind. What do I want to be remembered for? My laughter and kind heart, my healthy relationship with myself and setting healthy boundaries, overcoming obstacles and continuing on with life, accepting others for who they are...not who they are not, caring for others and having empathy for their problems...but not enabling them to continue on a path of destruction, love myself so I can love others. The list goes on but I'm sure you get the jest. This is also for me, my family, my children.
  • The passion to work hard on my relationship with my husband Gary. It passes the infatuation phase and becomes a relationship and bond that takes hard work and effort to keep alive.  Communication is key to a successful marriage (or relationship) and if the communication fades..so will the marriage. We discuss (sometimes argue...so we can make up lol) every aspect of our marriage. Financial, careers, intimacy, family and everyday needs and wants. We do say we're sorry though. Leaving things unsaid and going to bed upset is something we just do not do. And have fun ...together! 
  • The passion to be one of the best in my Real Estate career.  During the course of my life I ‘picked' jobs where I could save the world. (codependent) A Family Law Attorney's office and a Structured Supportive Living Skills program. It drained me (literally) and lo and behold! I realized that you can't help people who DON'T WANT to be helped.  Now I help people that want to be helped and the caring that goes into each and every transaction is surely the key to my success.
  • The passion for writing locally about my home.....Hawaii.  I am driven with my love for the Hawaiian Islands. I have strayed afar to many lands only to return to the tropical paradise that I will experience daily from the time I awake every morn to fluttering my eyelids to succumb to deep sleep every night. Passion for life in a place I love....my home.

Skydiving over Mokuleia

Passion is my intense desire to live my life with good morals, beliefs and values and the determination, consistency and effort to work hard on me from the inside to the outside. Everything else WILL follow. That's a given.

You cannot love if you do not love your .....‘self'. 

Hint:  I know I'm living my life well when I drop off to a peaceful sleep every night after evaluating my day.

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Celeste "Sally" Cheeseman  is a Realtor-Associate® and Certified Residential Specialist (CRS) with Century 21 Liberty Homes in Mililani, Hawaii. With a sharp understanding that a listening ear is the key to a client's needs  she serves the island of Oahu (Honolulu County) and all Hawaii Military Relocations, Hawaii Retirees, Hawaii Job Transfers and Hawaii Residents, Home Buyers and Sellers.

 

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Comments(37)

Lisa Hill
Florida Property Experts - Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Beach Real Estate

I think my favorite on your list of passions is your passion to work on your relationship with your husband. So few people don't have a clue about the reality of marriage. It does take constant work. Many people will quote the phrase about nothing in life that has any value, requiring hard work. Yet they forget that marriage is something of great value. So of course it requires work. Even on the days we don't feel like trying, we can choose... make a decision... to try harder. Instead of holding onto hurt feelings... instead of choosing to be an unforgiving, spiteful person, we choose to forgive, and rise above our petty feelings, and get back to work at preserving something that is worth preserving!

And then there's the biblical definition of love...

1 Cor 13:4-8a  4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8Love never fails.

I guess this is why "God IS Love". And why we're supposed to Love our neighbors as ourselves. Because love is a verb, not a noun.  =)

Jan 31, 2009 04:07 PM
Catherine C Capasso
Catherine Cornelia Real Estate - Eastchester, NY
Cottage or Castle, What's Your Dream!
Fantastic sample and the pictures are amazing. They add such life and enhancement to your words. Looking at them gives a true sense of credibility - so important to me when I read something written by someone I haven't met before.
Feb 01, 2009 01:19 AM
Linda Bourgault
lulugraphix-creative photography & fine art - Flower Mound, TX

Sally—As always your have written an excellent post. Any one who reads your blog instantly knows you are a passionate person and it encompasses all you do! Your passion is tangible and infinite—part and parcel of your success as a person, spouse,  family member, friend and realtor! Thanks for being a judge in the Diary of a Realtor Group contest. I know you and the other judges will have a challenging time determining the winners from all of the great entries you will be judging. Good luck and continued success in all you do.

Feb 01, 2009 02:07 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Contest.....ahh so someone finally got you to be a Judge LOL :) You wrote about your passion, quite well I might add.....so is this what we do for the contest?  Umm I might have to check it out......

Feb 01, 2009 05:03 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Sally, What a beautiful post.  I do believe you have to love yourself to truly love others.  Your passions shine through in your posts no matter what you are writing about, they are always profound.  That contest is going to be incredible, I can't even imagine all the wonderful posts!

Feb 01, 2009 02:20 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Sally, Beautiful post, beautiful words, beautiful pictures, beautiful passionate life, beautiful YOU!

Feb 01, 2009 09:25 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

Sis - It seems passion oozes out of you.  Your words & actions inspire a lot of positive things in many people.  To some extent, you personify the word passion.  Geez, no wonder I'm the Black Sheep:)

Feb 02, 2009 04:36 AM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Sally,

Passion, hard work, and love are not far from one another!!! :) Thanks,   Fran

Feb 02, 2009 03:34 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Sally,

Great post on passion! Thanks for the sage advice and points to remember.

Feb 02, 2009 05:32 PM
Toula Rosebrock
Diane Turton, Realtors, Forked River, NJ - Lacey Township, NJ
Broker/Sales Associate, Realtor, Lacey Township,

Hi Sally:

We all need to be passionate about life!  Great post to remind us all...

ToulaRosebrock.com

Feb 02, 2009 11:50 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Russell: I appreciate that kind sir! I'd love to see your version :)

Auntie: Oh, thanks <scuff a foot> I do really try to bring EVERYTHING to the consumer....people relocating sure love that.

Deb: Went to the zoo a couple months ago....now using the pics :) I liked that "assignment" ...gave me a chance to go back inside of ...me :)

Ilyce: Gets me places to keep on the upside of things :)

Feb 03, 2009 01:50 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Gary: Wonderful...now...do you get mine :) :)

George: Ah...the 70's. I was young and mishievious :)  You may want to join in this contest too...you have wonderful writing when you get deep George :)

Audrey: I love hugs :)  Thanks!

 

Feb 03, 2009 01:52 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Lisa: All parts of my life are good stuff..... balance is priority. Can't put more into one and not the others.... :)

Catherine: Wonderful! I appreciate your appreciating the enhancing qualities of a post :)

Linda: Thanks Linda! I sure do put some effort in all I do...it helps to know that I've done everything possible on my end....

 

Feb 03, 2009 02:03 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Kathy: LOL....Go check it out...you'd do good :)

Carole: Of course! Everything starts with self. This is not in the sense of self centeredness...but of self awareness...but then..you knew that :)

Margaret! Thank you thank you thank you....beautiful you tooo!

BRO: Oozes in a different way than you and Jen but passion nontheless :)  And you aren't...in my eyes :)

Feb 03, 2009 02:08 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Fran: Sure thing!

Dorie: Thanks...and you're welcome.

Thanks Toula

Feb 03, 2009 02:15 AM
Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist
Kingsbridge Realty, Inc - Hubert, NC

Sally,
Your zest for life always comes through in your writing but this one really says who and what you are and where your priorities lie. 

Feb 04, 2009 11:29 PM
Linda Scanlan
A Consumer's View - Burleson, TX

Sally, this is beautiful and so true!  I love this post...

 

OMG!!! You let your daughter jump out of a perfectly good plane??? Yikes!  Makes my heart flutter...

Feb 14, 2009 11:33 AM
Kate Elim
Dockside Realty - Spotsylvania, VA
Realtor 540-226-1964, Selling Homes & Land a

Hi Sally...I bestow upon you 1,000 points.

Well, I would if I could.

Kate

Feb 16, 2009 10:24 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Cynthia: Thanks much....all there is but a little time ....and I just HAVE to utilize it in a enjoyable way :)

Linda; I didn't let her....she went ahead and showed me the pics after...she is an adult...will be 27 ya know...:)

Kathleen: Oh, goodie...judges win too????

Feb 16, 2009 10:31 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Sally

WOW what Fantastic photos and story! I love it!

Feb 24, 2009 12:03 PM