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This is a sequel to my last blog, E + R = O.  For those of you who have read Napoleon Hill's "Think & Grow Rich", this will probably sound familiar.  For those of you who haven't, I highly recommend that you add it to your reading list.  "Think &Grow Rich" has been described as one of the most influential books of all time in pointing the way to personal achievement.  I believe the principles in this book are especially applicable now when we are in the worst recession since the Great Depression. 

In the closing pages of his book, Mr. Hill asserts that people who do not succeed have one distinguishing trait in common - they know all the reasons for failure and have built what they believe to be air-tight alibis to explain their personal failures. These alibis allow us to shift the blame for any negative outcomes we experience to events and circumstances and away from our response to those events and circumstances.  Alibis are easy to recognize.  They typically begin with the words - "If only."

As professionals who earn our livings from the housing industry - and I include Builders, Developers, Realtors, Lenders, Trade Contractors, and Material Suppliers - are we building alibis for difficulties we are currently facing? Do any of these sound familiar?

  • If only the media would stop reporting all the negative news about the economy,
  • If only consumers would just stop listening to all the negative news and start spending again,
  • If only all those people facing foreclosure wouldn't have bought homes they couldn't afford,
  • If only the mortgage companies had not written all those no-doc and low doc loans
  • If only Wall Street had not created all those collateralized debt obligations and other asset-backed security and structured credit products backed by those questionable mortgages, 
  • If only the banks would just start lending money again, 
  • If only the government would hurry up and enact an economic stimulus package.

What other alibis have we built?

I believe what Napoleon Hill wrote over 80 years ago is still true today - building alibis with which to explain away failure is a deeply rooted habit.  But if we want to succeed, it is a habit we need to break.  We need to stop blaming events and start working on how we are going to respond to those events in order to produce our desired outcomes.

Our greatest asset is our minds. Let's put our minds to work to formulate responses to the current crisis in the housing industry.  Better yet, let's create Master Mind groups to formulate those responses.  For, as the saying goes, two minds are better than one.

Chuck Miller GMB   CGB  CGP   MIRM   CMP   MCSP   CSP

President / Builder - Chuck Miller Construction Inc.

(208) 229-2553

chuck@chuckmillerconstruction.com

 
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5 Comments on If Only

FEB
07
2009

you are right. The 'IF's in our live are the one affection our current and future realities. Instead we need to think about what is possible that we can do to think positively and in harmony with our future.

visit me at Think Rich Diary.

Jaky Astik
8:36pm • #1
FEB
08
2009
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Chuck,

Great post. If only I had been born rich and didn't have to work ... if only I'd win the lottery. :)

Steve

8:51am • #2
MAY
23
2009

Great post It has come to the point where I have almost stopped watching the financial channels.  If you listen to them it is no wonder people are running scared.  We as Realtors need to educate the public on the benefits of buying in todays market and the possibilities of what the real estate market can hold for them.

7:50pm • #3
JUL
18
2009
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Chuck,

Agree, agree, agree. I cant get enough of N. Hill's theory.

Napoleon Hill Foundation will send you a daily positive email "Thought for The Day."

It is sent daily at 5am so if you get your email on your phone, you can make it a habit to read it over and over throughout the day.  (following the habit and auto-suggestion lesson)

Have you had any luck finding people who "get" the mastermind theory?

 

Eric Bracht, E-Pro Idaho Realtor

Eric's Blog

Search for Boise ID homes for sale at AgentIdaho.com

208.412.0701 

 

         

9:09pm • #4
JUL
19
2009

Eric,

Thanks for the link.

Chuck

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