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You Crave What You Eat - - - GREATNESS IS A DECISION!!!!!

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Mortgage and Lending with Cherry Creek Mortgage Illinois Residential Mortgage License LMB #0005759 Cherry Creek Mortgage NMLS #: 3001 NMLS ID# 158606

Cravings go to more than just food.

YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT!!!! Or are you?  Growing up that's what kids said to each other.  Got it???  You ARE WHAT YOU EAT!!!

I have a different take on this phrase....how about you CRAVE WHAT YOU EAT!!! 

This goes to

1)  FOOD

2)  LIFE

3)  DISCIPLINE

4)  BUSINESS and even

5)  LOVE!!!!!

So what gives?????  Let me share a story with you, then we'll talk about how it translates to life...

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Here's the deal....one of my best friends in life works for a competitor.  We fizzle in and out of contact due to our frenetic lives.  She lived a wild life until a few years ago.  Not really wild, but definitely wilder than yours truly.  She ended up getting divorced, FINDING CHRIST, and subsequently getting remarried.  Forcing yourself to eat and do the right things make you crave the right thingsWhat she told me sticks with me to this day.  First, let me say that she was never fat..EVER..but in her mind, she was overweight and could use to lose a few pounds.  I remember having a conversation, but the result of the conversation was that you CRAVE WHAT YOU EAT.  You eat crap, then you crave it.  EAT GREATNESS, and you CRAVE IT

SO WHERE'S THE RUB????? 

A lot of people, including your's truly want change in a certain area of life.  But the craving for the old garbage is always tugging on the shirt sleeve.  People want to:

Quit Smoking

Quit Drinking

Lose Weight

HERE'S A NOVEL IDEA...Have a great and successful business;

Be Disciplined in Work and in Life!!!!!

So let's translate a favorite of mine...food and health.  You ever watch the Biggest Loser?  People want to lose weight, but they don't want to give up the crappy foods they're eating.  Why????  They've eaten crap so long that crap is exactly what they crave.  Any whoooooooooo, my friend forced herself to eat fruits and raw vegetables and other stuff that sounds good on paper, but looks like it'll taste like crap to real men.  She told me that she force fed herself....(THAT'S CALLED DISCIPLINE)....AND LO AND BEHOLD she started to actually crave the good foods.  She started craving everything that was good for her.  It was a decision, than when stuck to provided great results and the cravings got in line.  Mind you, this wasn't overnight, but, most importantly, it was real. 

Here's the gig....life is like a box of chocolates.....scrap that....

If you want to change, YOU NEED DISCIPLINE!!!!!  There really isn't anything better for change.  I could go on about the psychology of forgiveness and the need to forgive yourself, but it's discipline that changes the result.  But.....

AFTER YOU'VE BEEN DISCIPLINED LONG ENOUGH....IT GETS EASY BECAUSE YOU START TO CRAVE THE GREAT STUFF.

Want lose weight?  Get to the point of craving the good stuff.  IT WILL COME!  Want a better business, then discipline yourself to making daily non-negotiables.  It really does come in every facet of life.  This year, I've been working on Bible Study and Health.  In both cases, the more I force feed myself the good stuff, the more that I crave that good stuff.  It was hard to switch, but once done, life has been grand.

Holy Sni-keees Batman!!!!  Man Eating JalepenosHoly wacka  nacka!!!!!  The challenge that exists in creating discipline can be insane.  The reward that comes from this success is even greater.  Remember the great successes come from great sacrifices. 

I know that there are some in the rain who don't want success even though they claim that they do....  However, once that effort is put forth, that changes everything.

Good stuff indeed......Worth the price????

YOU BETCHA!!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Comments(45)

Kathy Opatka
RE/MAX CROSSROADS - Ocean City, MD
Serving Ocean City, MD, & The Delaware Beaches

Larry,

Great communication!  Just the incentive(PUSH!!) I needed to make those few changes I've been thinking about!  Could you call me daily (hourly!!!) and remind me that I need to change my CRAVINGS!!!???.... said as I unwrap this Dove chocolate!!!

Kathy Opatka Re/Max OCEAN CITY,MARYLAND

Feb 17, 2009 05:28 AM
Maria Mastrolonardo, IL Probate Specialist
RE/MAX of Naperville & RE/MAX Enterprises - Naperville, IL
Illinois Probate Realtor

Larry - Awesome post! Very inspirational, it's all about putting your mind to it and it can be done :)

Feb 17, 2009 05:52 AM
Brien Berard
Remax Professionals Laurel MD - Laurel, MD
Maryland Real Estate Agents - Laurel Real Estate

I believe you can live yourself into a way of thinking.  The worse thing about eating right, is when I go back to old habits and my stomach gets upset, because it misses the good food.

Feb 17, 2009 06:11 AM
Caren Wallace
Premier Property Group LLC - Tualatin, OR
Portland Caren Real Estate

Larry, you are so right and it is really difficult to force feed the good stuff so you crave it! I am trying to live a balanced life and there are so many temptations that stand in the way!! Your post is very well written and gives us alot to aspire to!

Feb 17, 2009 06:59 AM
Emily Lowe
RE/MAX Homes and Estates, Lipman Group - Nashville, TN
Nashville TN Realtor

I also put up vision boards around me to remind myself of what greatness to me looks like on a business, personal, and spiritual level...

 

Thanks for a great post!

Feb 17, 2009 07:09 AM
Julie A. Black
KAUAI DREAMS REALTY Kauai Real Property Specialist - Kapaa, HI
CLHMS, CRS, GRI, Realtor, Broker

And for those who crave success "discipline" is a must. Thanks I love inspirational posts.

Feb 17, 2009 08:02 AM
Scott Baker
www.eHomeReports.com Coldwell Banker Realty - Liberty Township, OH
Realtor Homes for Sale Cincinnati/Dayton Ohio

Great post Larry. I used to smoke about a pack and a half a day, drank 2-3 pots of coffee a day. I quit both the same day December 4, 2004, COLD TURKEY. Trust me, I felt like a Cold Turkey by the 4th day. Day 1 with no coffee, headaches and very grouchy. For me to quit smoking, I knew I would have to quit drinking coffee because that was my "trigger". Definitely not easy, seriously, the fourth day I think I could have climbed a telephone pole with no equipment, tough, tough, day. And to this day, I still crave them, only occassionally, but it is still there. But less and less. As you say, change your habits and you will crave your new habits, I agree wholeheartily. 

Feb 17, 2009 08:55 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Scott...

Boy am I glad to hear that about the smoking. I quit in August and apparently Blogging became one of my triggers. You can't imagine how many times a day I feel like firing that Mother up :)

TLW...ROAR!

Feb 17, 2009 09:08 AM
Vickie McCartney
Maverick Realty - Owensboro, KY
Broker, Real Estate Agent Owensboro KY

Hi Larry~ Loved your post!  Old habits are hard to break, but it can be done if you are persistent and consistent with replacing the old habit with a good one.  Backsliding can happen, but only if you let it.  Discipline makes the difference. 

Feb 17, 2009 09:16 AM
Gregory Lohr
West Columbia, SC

Larry,  you've touched on a topic I try to share with people all the time...sadly, many don't want to hear it.  Health is a very touchy subject, and very few want to change old habits, even though those old habits may be slowly killing them.

I started a Better Health Group some months ago, please consider adding this blog to the group.  I've been away from the rain quite a bit since Christmas, but am getting back to it now.  For those looking for better health, I hope they come and join the group!

Feb 17, 2009 09:33 AM
Larry Bettag
Cherry Creek Mortgage Illinois Residential Mortgage License LMB #0005759 Cherry Creek Mortgage NMLS #: 3001 - Saint Charles, IL
Vice-President of National Production

Paul...you da man!

Lynn...kinda thought that it was something along those lines....how am I supposed to be disciplined when you're pitching that crap to me?  Too rough sista!

Kathy...I just called you....where are you?

Maria...thanks for the stop by...

Brien....good words....myself as well. When I eat great, I'm on it!  No cravings for crap either.

Caren...I appreciate your comments more than you know.

Emily....I'm all about that.  I have one in my office as well.

 

Feb 17, 2009 02:59 PM
Larry Bettag
Cherry Creek Mortgage Illinois Residential Mortgage License LMB #0005759 Cherry Creek Mortgage NMLS #: 3001 - Saint Charles, IL
Vice-President of National Production

Julie...great of you to stop by and comment.

Scott....this is so cool....what an inspirational story...change this into a post.  Just good stuff.

TLW...me too......rough to walk away...but great to do so.

Vickie...I've tried to build some blocks around it so that I don't backslide....ultimately it doesn't matter if you do...everyone does....itmatters how quickly you can get out of it.

Erica....cheers.

 

 

Feb 17, 2009 03:05 PM
Gwenn Tanvas
NEXA Mortgage LLC an Equal Housing Lender NMLS # 1660690 - Appleton, WI
The Mortgage Gal, 920.267.7891~ SMART - INNOVATIVE

Hey Lar - Holy Wa Na! Great one! Love it, Love it, Love it! You have me thinking about my cravings... Interesting - The good news is that it takes 30 days to make or break it. - A craving is simply a habitual act, but but not simple to change with out the discipline you speak of. Congratz on the feature... keep em coming...

Feb 17, 2009 10:55 PM
Bruce & Mary Smith
Savannah Lakes Homes - McCormick, SC
REALTORS, Savannah Lakes Village McCormick SC

Good food for thought for the day!  Like Lenn, I have to have a little chocolate to make it through the day.  Just like in real estate, old habits are hard to give up!  Thanks!

Feb 18, 2009 12:21 AM
Jerry Murphy, CRS, SRES
Long Realty West Valley - Anthem, AZ
Anthem, Phoenix, and Scottsdale AZ Real Estate

Man Larry, it's like you're in my head.  I have stressed that discipline is the #1 key factor to success in ANY aspect of life.  Those who can master themselves can master the universe.  You can do all the positive thinking in the world, get all the education one can muster, but if you don't have the discipline to do the things that will get you to your goals you will NEVER succeed.  I see so many people out there who have talent, looks, personality, intelligence, everything one needs to succeed, EXCEPT discipline. Great post and best of luck.

Feb 18, 2009 02:48 AM
Nina Bailey
century 21 garner properties - Independence, KY

I agree after having four kids being disciplined is a key aspect in my everyday life. I gained double the recommend thirty so to get it off and keep it off i have to stay disciplined and now its easy for me.The crazy part is yes after a while you would rather have a chicken breast and steamed vegetables over a big mac. Now as a new agent i just need to figure out how to use my strong discipline and make my way up the real estate ladder and start selling!

Feb 18, 2009 03:39 AM
Stephen Kappre
KW Hometown - Mantua, NJ
Helping You Home

You know we pay a price, always, either now or later. I pray everyday I pay the price now so that I reap later. Time stands for no man. Nobody. Ever.

Feb 18, 2009 01:28 PM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

This was fantastic!  I see why it got featured - so very motivational :-)

Feb 18, 2009 03:48 PM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

I'm fortunate that I met my marketing guru almost 15 years ago. He taught me how to crave greatness and how to get there simply by working persistently and consistently each day.

Feb 26, 2009 05:37 AM
Larry Riggs
Century 21 Redwood - Frederick, MD
GRI, SRS Your Frederick County Specialist

Larry,

    I was just watching a DVD this morning dealing with this exact subject. This not just emotional but actually physiological. Your brain activity changes based on what you continuously feed it. Most of the time it's just getting rid of limiting beliefs we have about ourselves. Beliefs often given to us in childhood that we carry and that taint our perspective of life. Breaking free takes effort but as the change occurs it becomes easier.

Feb 27, 2009 07:43 AM