When I was a teenager I thought being a Realtor would be the coolest job in the world!  I didn't personally know any Realtors.  The only examples I saw were attractively dressed professionals driving big shiny cars and living in beautiful homes.  They set their own work schedules and helped families achieve the American Dream of homeownership.  What is not to love?

I came from very humble beginnings.  My parents worked for ‘the man' to earn a steady income and had no entrepreneurial aspirations.  The thought of working for 100% commission was a nightmare to them and they instilled that fear in me.  That being said, my dream of becoming a Realtor would not be realized for many years.

Fortunately I started working in the electronic components industry and became a manager at a very young age.  It was a career that afforded the ability to take real estate investment and business management classes.

I decided to become a loan officer.  It led me to help families facing foreclosure (even when it wasn't a way of life).  I began working for an appraiser to become an apprentice.  One day it occurred to me, while I was explaining to a Realtor how I came to an appraised value, I am better qualified to sell homes than the Realtor on the phone.  I asked myself, "What are you waiting for?"  So I decided to dive into the world of real estate sales and never looked back.  Some would say I went about it the long hard way and they would be correct!

I am a Texas Real Estate Broker, coach, mentor, salesperson and business owner.  It would be a challenge for me to calculate how many investors, families, and agents I have helped achieve their financial goals while realizing my own.

My career permits time to do other things I am passionate about as well.  I am a wife, mother, domestic engineer, daughter, sister, volunteer and a friend of many.  What other job could afford someone the opportunity to do all those things?

My second choice would be a head chef in a five star restaurant.  I wouldn't have time for much else, however.

Yes, my passion is real estate!  I was right, it is the coolest job in the world.

And every now and then I get to do this!

 
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42 Comments on Dear Diary, my passion is... Real Estate (insert heavy sigh here).

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Nice post - my mother and father were both school teachers.  However, at a young age, we were indoctrinated with a strong, independent and focussed work ethic.  Luckily, I learned  a very simply lesson at an early age.  When you have your own following and book business, you have greater control of where you can go. 

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Mel - No shame in that!  I love this business, too, although I do hope that 2009 is nothing like 2008, frankly.  I need a vacation - thanks for the reminder!

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Yes,  i agree.  Thanks for the reminder on the vacation.  I love the beach.  KM

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Hi Melody !

I think to be successful in our industry you have to have a passion for Real Estate. You can only fake it so long, and in this economy and market - those who dont have a passion for it will not prevail.

... oh and a "volunteer friend" ? Is that when there are mean people who everyone dislikes, you go and volunteer to be their friend ? ... oh I read it wrong ... my bad ;o)

Nice french pedicure BTW !

Cheers !

Sheldon

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I am, as far as I know, the only person in my family to work 100% commission. People think you are insane to even attempt it. But that just spurs most of us on all the more!

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Ryan, you said it!  I wouldn't have it any other way.

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Jason, 2009 is already looking up!

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Kristin, I was in California when I took that pic.  It was too much fun!

2:51pm • #8
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Sheldon, yes I have been that volunteer friend!  However, I volunteer for animal shelters and SPAN (Special Programs for Aging Needs).  I couldn't hold a 'regular job' and maintain my lifestyle.

The fastest way to ruin a pedicure is to hang out at the beach.  But who cares, eh?

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Steve, I am the same person in my family.  They all think I live a 'posh' existence until they spend a day with me.  Then they realize just how much work it takes to make a living when you are your own boss.

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Mel, what a terrific well rounded person you are to have the appraiser and loan officer background there prior to Realtor and Broker. I'm glad you broke away from what your family thought you should be. If you ever are that five star restaurant chef in a future life you have all your real estate contacts to have the big party there. P.S. Vacations are good to have a passion for too : )

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Melody, you really have it all together! Your background obviously gives you in depth insight into the intricacies of our business! Love the beach shot, so relaxing!

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Thanks Gary!  I have been tackling the commercial market lately as well.  It is a whole different world out there.

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Caren, the laws and contracts are tweaked so often there is always something new to learn.  I love that it never becomes boring or humdrum.

The sounds of the water is missing...

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Mel...Great post.  My family worked for themselves most of the time.  the times they didn't, they were not as happy.  I have done the same...and prefer being my own boss, although I seam to be hard to work for!

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William, my boss can be a real you know what!

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Melody, it is OH so important to add some "me time" to your calendar.  As much as our jobs are our passions, we need to get away from them and NOT think about them or else we will just go crazy!

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Hey Mel~ Sorry I've not been as good at staying in touch lately...but it's only because I've been busy working at OUR passion...Real Estate. Like you, I love this business (even when it's crazy) and also like you, my favorite place to relax is the beach...maybe I should sell RE at the beach and have the best of both worlds :-0 Happy to see you are doing well! xoxo,

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Hi Melody! Congratulations for doing what you love and loving what you do!! That is the true key to success! I liked your post!

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Mel -

I love the beach, I was born on an Island - I love the sand and the surf.

My second love is homes... I'm in this business for the long haul.

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Mel...

I didn't have to read this post to know that! I can tell that you really love the profession.

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It matters not that you may have taken the long way, you are here now. Not every road is the same nor should it be.

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Mel, Loved your post and your passion and can relate.  I volunteer for the elderly as well...something my "old" jobs would not have allowed time for.  And I too, LOVE what I do! 

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I went into real estate after being pushed by my husband and grandma. One of which financed my business when I was given the opportunity. The other works as my partner in the business. I am grateful to them both. It is a job that I love!

And by the way you are a spectacular person!

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Great entry Mel! Your story sounds so much like mine...going about it the hard/long way. I think that makes you even better! You are well rounded because you are the entire package and understand it...full circle! You rock!

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Mel - when I was a teenager I wanted to be in a band, and I was in several. And, although I am a Realtor today (yeah, it is cool), I still want to be Jimmy Buffet when I grow up. Thanks for sharing your journey.

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Very nice and cute story.  My dad did not want me to be a Realtor also.  He wanted me to take over his Accounting office, YUK! 

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Hi Mel!  You have GOT it going on girl!  You are truly fortunate to have the mortgage and appraisal background that you have in this business--why would ANYone use another agent when there's you?!  Cute post and best of luck in the contest!

Debe in Charlotte NC

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Hi Mel!  Great story.  I've seen this photo before, this time I can tell you have a beautiful French Manicure.  Nice!  What I'd give to go to the warm sandy beach right about now.  Sigh.

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Melody, glad to hear that you are doing your passion!  Also glad to know that '09 is already showing good signs!  Now, move over and let the rest of us have some space on that beach!

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Mel - Your passion is eveident in all of your posts.  I am glad that you figured out what you love to do and are actually doing it. 

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I started laughing at the *SIGH* Clever post and an enjoyable read! You have an excellent background that gives you an edge over many in our business and coupled with a biting wit and sense of humor makes you even better! We have something in common, my second or third choice would have been CHEF!

PS are you and your family still headed to Austin for a run in the spring?

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Melody

I love it!  You are adorable...A breath of fresh air!!!!

8:13pm • #33

Melody,

I've always had such admiration for your desire to learn.  You ROCK, Mel!  It has been my pleasure to watch you succeed at everything you have taken on.   

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You may have went about it the "long way" but how much more knowledge you came into real estate with than most.  Your clients are lucky to have you :~)  We really do have the coolest job in the world!

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Mel, I came from humble beginnings  as well and no matter how successful I perceive myself to be, it's always in the back of my mind, along with how very much I owe my Mom Dad and God. All can be lost in a single moment so we have to embrace each day and really savor those days at the beach!

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Mel-Wow, what a great post. If all the agents had an attitude like that, we would benefit so much more.  I wish you were in my area...

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Melody-You forgot to mention that you're a Domestic Goddess. Sounds like you're one of the women I admire. Success breeds success, and I'm working hard on mine.

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Mel, I didn't know you were an appraiser or on your way to being one.  Its nice to learn something new about you.

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Great post, both inspiring and down right funny. Thanks for the lift.

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Mel, Your passion for real estate and life shines brightly. Good luck in the commercial effort.

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Melody - Thanks for the great post, I love this business too.  The challenges are greater than I've ever experienced but I'm up for the task and ready to go.  I frankly don't know what I'd do with a real job!

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