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Dear Diary, My passion is never completely discovered.

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lizette Realty - Richmond KY 205403

Dear Diary, My passion is never completely discovered.

I have always felt there is something more to do to find out what it is.

Even though I can't exactly put my finger on the pulse of it... I always feel I am doing what I am supposed to... right now.

Bluebird of happiness

There is a peacefulness that has settled over me.

In my lifetime, tragic events that should have been challenging have propelled me on many paths. Also, I was not given a sense of career direction by my parents in my high school years. They let me make my decisions. I liked this at the time, but I was adrift in the sea of life without a mentor or career path.

In my grade school years, I loved horses, I dreamed how life would be if I could be in a boarding school in New England where I could learn to ride horses. I saw this in an ad in the back of McCall's Magazine. It seemed so glamorous!

My parents would have never spent the money for this dream... so I never asked.

We moved to a 33 acre farm and Dad bought me a wild yearling filly when I was in 8th grade. True...he bought her, but the rest was up to me. I had to train her myself(learned from a library book), raise the money for a saddle(my first bank loan), buy tack, feed, pay blacksmith and vet bills.

I worked long hours every day to earn money by cleaning dorm rooms at the local university for students, renting stalls and pasture, riding lessons(as I learned, I taught others)and selling baled hay from the pasture. Life was sweet I thought.

Finally, everything was perfect in my senior year. I had been working toward my horse farm career for four years investing my own money.

By April 4th, a tornado came and wiped it all away. No more house, furniture, cars, trees, barns, horses(they turned up safe a mile away), horse trailer, clothes, shoes, all the keepsakes from my childhood...my daily life on the farm disappeared in a matter of seconds.

Shaken and beat up we moved to one room (4 of us)in the Holiday Inn until FEMA brought us a trailer a month later. It was devastating that everything was gone before prom and graduation.

I quickly learned I could start over from nothing. All I had after the night of the tornado were just the clothes on my back. Everything I had worked for had disappeared like dust in the wind.

This one event formed who I am today. I know I can reinvent myself at any time.

Since the devastating tornado, I have had many passions, many lives. Starting over from nothing... time after time.

Five and a half years ago, I reinvented myself from a professional artist to a Realtor. I went into this real estate career with the conviction that failure is not an option.

There has never been a moment that I have wanted to bail out and get another job. This is my passion right now and I just finished getting my broker's license. It was so hard for me to study since I am older, but I wanted it like nothing else.

I plan to be around for a long time and events can transform who I am and what I want. Thoughts become my reality. I choose to make them good .

Life is an amazing adventure I wouldn't want to miss a moment wishing for things that could have happened... but didn't.

       

Lizette Realty Lizette Fitzpatrick

Lizette FitzpatrickPrincipal Broker at Lizette Realty.

#1 featured Kentucky Realtor on Activerain.com and Localism.com.

Publisher/Author for the only Central Kentucky email newsletter on local real estate listings and sold properties, Kentucky relocation, local events, homeowner information and fun!

For more information on Lizette, Kentucky Horse Farms, Lizette Realty, Madison County, Fayette County, Richmond or Lexington KY real estate click on Lizette.us.

See for yourself what Lizette's extraordinary clients have to say about their Kentucky Real Estate experience. Copyright © 2009 By Lizette Fitzpatrick, All Rights Reserved..*Dear Diary, My passion is never completely discovered*

Comments(23)

Roy A. Peterson
Domicile Analysis of Texas - El Paso, TX
P.R.E.I.

Wow Lizette, that is an amazing story. Fear is one of the key elements that keeps many of us form reaching ones passion of dreams.

                                                     ~ Life is Good

Feb 22, 2009 03:58 PM
Susie Blackmon
Ocala, FL
Ocala, Horses, Western Wear, Horse Farms, Marketing

Didn't know you were a horse fan! Great to know. I've loved every 'life' I've had but would have to say I love being a referring agent in many instances, and actually LOVE all the creative aspects of my branding, blogging, etc., much more than other aspects of RE.

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Feb 22, 2009 07:27 PM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

That is a wonderful story - we don't need all of the 'stuff' that we surround ourselves with, we can always start over and succeed! A great story for these times!

Feb 22, 2009 11:00 PM
Lizette Fitzpatrick
Lizette Realty - Richmond KY - Lexington, KY
Lizette Realty, Lexington KY MLS - Kentucky Homes

Roy - Fear is a powerful force. At times when I feel it I change my thought to something I like. Then it doesn't overwhelm me.

Susie - Yes...it's true. I don't have them now but did for 22 years. I know how hard it is to keep them and the joys of ownership too. I had a white stallion,"Santana" that I dearly loved. He was fast as lightning at barrell racing and pole bending. Funny that he wouldn't let anyone but me ride him.    

Barbara Jo - It sure is a lot of "stuff" till it's suddenly gone. It's always replaced by something better.

Feb 22, 2009 11:39 PM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate

Lizette, what a great story. Events like this have a tendacy to make us re-focus. I wish you were here, haven't met that many folks from AR yet. Darn that plane and snow storm.

Feb 22, 2009 11:44 PM
Lizette Fitzpatrick
Lizette Realty - Richmond KY - Lexington, KY
Lizette Realty, Lexington KY MLS - Kentucky Homes

Missy - One of these days we will have to get together! I'm so tired of snow!

Feb 23, 2009 12:04 AM
Robert Rauf
CMG Home Loans - Toms River, NJ

Lizette, WOW, I can not imagine everything gone in an instant. I guess you step back and just be Happy that everyone is ok.

Feb 23, 2009 01:36 AM
Lizette Fitzpatrick
Lizette Realty - Richmond KY - Lexington, KY
Lizette Realty, Lexington KY MLS - Kentucky Homes

Robert - It was like that. Shocking to say the least. Not till later did I think of what was gone.

Feb 23, 2009 02:53 AM
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Keller Williams Realty - Ann Arbor, MI
Ann Arbor Area Real Estate

Lizette,  Your story is very inspiring and makes me think of people who really do have to work hard to get normal life back.  You have proven yourself strong beyound words!

Feb 23, 2009 07:46 AM
Barbara Flannery
USA Realty,Inc. - London, KY
"Homes for Everyone In London Kentucky"

Lizette, Very inspirational story, Sometimes hard times makes us strong, and we seem to appreciate the good times more when we really have had to start from nothing.  With your attitude you can do anything.   May God Bless!

BARBARA

 

Feb 23, 2009 01:21 PM
Alexsandra Stewart
Remax equity group - Portland, OR
Broker - Portland Oregon Real Estate

Lizette -- what an inspiring story -- not everyone who has everything wiped out -- ends up with the positive attitude that you hvae.  Congratulations on being able to reinvent your self, and choose your way. 

 

 

 

 

 

Feb 23, 2009 02:53 PM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Lizette Realty.....doesn't that sound and feel so good after the hard work to get your brokers license?  Reading this I could see your character, reinventing yourself at various times in your life.  thanks for this peek into who you are.

Feb 23, 2009 08:06 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Having the conviction that failure is not an option... I love a lot of things about you, but I have to say that this is my favorite trait by far (LOL). What a fantastic post! I am learning something new every single day. :-)  

Feb 23, 2009 09:17 PM
Robert Rauf
CMG Home Loans - Toms River, NJ

Lizette: Just stoping back.... Your story reminded me of when my Aunt and Uncle lost their house in a fire. Everyone was ok, and most things were easily replaced except for pictures.  My sister collected and had copies made of family photos for them. They are probably the hardest thing to replace.

Feb 23, 2009 11:04 PM
Connie King
Sevierville, TN

You know you are the mother of reinvention!    I keep hoping you will rub off on me,  in spite of myself!

Feb 24, 2009 10:37 AM
Lizette Fitzpatrick
Lizette Realty - Richmond KY - Lexington, KY
Lizette Realty, Lexington KY MLS - Kentucky Homes

Karen - I think that being young kept me from totally freaking out about everything being gone.

Barbara - Good times are precious and life is good. There are so many things that can affect who we are.

Alexsandra - (Love the spelling 0fyour name!)It's true. Not everyone wants to pick themselves up and get on again. I've never thought there was any other way.

Kathy - It puts a smile on my face for sure. People that don't know my history might think I did this quickly. Only I know how many stops and starts it took to arrive here in this moment. I'm so lucky and thankful.

Carolyn - You understand because you are like this also. I'm amazed at what you can do.

Robert - I don't think we had any of those photos replaced. That would have been nice.

Connie - I'm working on you! You'll do just fine. I'm amazed how well you made it through last week. I know that was difficult. I'm so proud of you and always here if you need me.

 

 

Feb 24, 2009 11:19 AM
Russell Lewis
Realty Austin, Austin Texas Real Estate - Austin, TX
Broker,CLHMS,GRI

Lizette  what an incredibly passionate and well articulated post. Losing everything in a moment is such a shock! I grew p in West Texas just south of an area known as Tornado Alley but was fortunate to have never suffered the calamity like you. Thanks for writing this and I so appreciate your attitude,

"Life is an amazing adventure I wouldn't want to miss a moment wishing for things that could have happened... but didn't."

I also would like to add that once an artist always an artist, I would love to see some of your work. There are many people her eat Active Rain who are also wonderful artists and express their art in many different mediums. Best to you, I am glad to have met you here!

Feb 25, 2009 03:15 AM
Adell Forbes (REALTORĀ®)
eXp Realty - Atlanta, GA
"Knowledge & Experience Working for You"

HI Lizette- I can relate. I've never had direction from my parents or peers growing up, and I didn't know enough to seek a mentor. However; over the years I've tried to follow my instinct and go in the direction I felt I was being led. To date I still sometimes wonder "WHAT DO I WANT TO BE WHEN I GROW UP?" Then reality hits and I'm like "too late pumpkin-you're already grown up" so tough it out and do it to the best of your ability.

I used to love art in high school and college and always did awesome pieces. I've been wanted to get back into it....(even went out and bought materials about a year ago). Like an unused threadmill-those art materials remain untouched.

Your story is inspiring. Maybe just maybe I will put pencil to pad this weekend.

All the best to you!

Adell

Feb 25, 2009 04:35 AM
Lizette Fitzpatrick
Lizette Realty - Richmond KY - Lexington, KY
Lizette Realty, Lexington KY MLS - Kentucky Homes

Russell - It seems I have had many careers but the artist career has followed me all my life. I have an online gallery at www.Lizette.com

Adell - I know the feeling about buying something that you never use. My Pilates machine is in a room of it's own...gathering dust. O well.....

Feb 25, 2009 06:06 AM
Russell Lewis
Realty Austin, Austin Texas Real Estate - Austin, TX
Broker,CLHMS,GRI

Lizette, I went to your site and thoroughly enjoyed it! Just wanted you to know and I also returned to subscribe to your blog! Thanks and have a great week!

Feb 25, 2009 11:20 PM