"Nothing gives one person so much advantage over another as to remain always cool and unruffled under all circumstances." - Thomas Jefferson
  

pictureYour feelings are not your friend.  They will get you in trouble more times than not. 

I'm not saying not to have them, just keep them in perspective.  If you get mad and rip into someone because you are angry or frustrated, you may feel like you won the battle, but you will have lost the war.  Don't feel like prospecting?  Is it really better to go with that feeling, if you do where does it lead?  Most of us live on an emotional roller coaster, with our life, business and the service we offer our clients.  We do so at our own peril. 

Your feelings give color to your life, and they can be glorious and exciting.  They just shouldn't dictate your actions.  As you paint the portrait of your life, your commitment and actions should provide the black and white outline of how you live while the color adds the vibrancy.  Reverse it and your life will look like a kindergartner's version of the Michelangelo masterpiece your life was destined to be...

  

 

Carpe diem,

Chris

 

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4 Comments on Feelings are not Your Friend

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Feelings can be your friends OR your enemies. The key, I've found, is not to let them dictate.

12:45pm • #1
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Hi,

Good post!! But, feelings are a part of life, some good and some bad. It all builds your character and your make up as a human being.

             Tinker

9:51pm • #3
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 Really great points!  When these things are  happening most of the time you're not thinking about it like that.

Kinda like that saying goes life is what happens while you are making plans...

 Thanks  good points to ponder.....

Sonya Davis

11:41pm • #4

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