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Things I've Forgotten On The Journey...!!!

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Title Insurance with Patriot Land Transfer, Inc.

Yesterday, I wrote about things I've learned on the Journey. Today, I'm going to try to remember some things I've forgotten on the Journey...  

I've forgotten how to remember...I'm not talking about the normal effects of aging...forgetfulness...no, this inability to remember I'm alluding to is more like being too myopic...looking only forward...when I know that remembering fond memories has the capability of making them present...like recalling the good old days brings with it a fondness and joy almost as great as when we first experienced those events...CONCLUSION: Make and take time out to remember...!!!  

I've forgotten that we must 'become like little children'...to attain our goal...Not behave in a childish manner, or think at the education level of a child...that would be to throw positive growth, knowledge, and wisdom out the window...no, becoming like a little child means retaining or gaining qualities like innocence, colorblindness, openness, trust, imagination, playfulness, excitement, wonder, amazement, acceptance...watch little kids playing at a playground and carefully observe and listen...CONCLUSION: Stop and smell the roses...!!!  

I've forgotten how important 'stories' are...When we stop sharing our stories with one another, we no longer create new stories, we retreat inside ourselves and develop a false sense of security...we are our brothers keeper, and cannot exist as an island...we were not made that way...we are made to live in community...needing one another, relying on one another, supporting one another, loving one another...information we accumulate is worthless unless we share it...CONCLUSION: Engage in constructive dialogue and conversation...!!!  

I've forgotten my treasure map...you know...the one with the big 'X' on it that I misplace from time to time...marking my ultimate destination...We need to be careful not to lose our focus...not to lose our way...When the Jews did that in Exodus, they wandered for forty years in the desert...they lost their map, their focus...When their eyes returned to their God, they were then allowed to enter the Promised Land...How do we know when we have lost our focus? We need to examine ourselves...we must regularly reflect on where we've come from, how we got here, and where we're headed, else we're apt to find ourselves too far along the wrong road...sometimes the 'road less traveled'is the correct one...heavy traffic is an indication that many are headed to similar destinations, but heavy traffic doesn't insure we're on the right road...and in this world of GPS and bottom line diplomacy, we may fail to observe the signs along the way...CONCLUSION: Don't be in such a hurry to get there, enjoy the journey...!!!  

I've forgotten how much 'fear' is a part of our lives...It is said by some that fear is a great motivator...I see fear, however, as a hindrance, hamstringing us from the real freedom that our Creator intended...like it or not...we must read the manual...Actually there are three ways to master operating a piece of equipment...we can commit the manual to memory, we can spend a great amount of time trying to figure out how the equipment works through trial and error, or we can blend the two together...read and understand the manual, then confidently address the equipment...without fear or doubt...CONCLUSION: You can't get to know someone without spending a lot of time with them...!!!  

There are plenty more things I've forgotten along the way, the journey...I'll continue to share them with you in other posts! I just can't remember them right now...!!!

 

 

 

Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Bruce & Mary: Thanks for stopping by and commenting!!! :)

Sheldon: Balancing our time is very important!!! :)

Dee: I too had a Grandmother I was fond of who told great stories...!!! :)

Jason: We old folks still need inspiration from you younguns...!!! :)

Kristina: I don't like the way society tends to isolate the generations from each other...!!! :)

Thanks,   Fran

Feb 24, 2009 05:02 AM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate

Fran, life is a journey, I wish I could remember all I have learned along the way. However, the most important Love the Lord you God and your neighbor as yourself. That just about sums up all we really need to know. :)

Feb 24, 2009 07:38 AM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Missy,

I agree! How many say it, how many do it...!!! :) Thanks,   Fran

Feb 24, 2009 07:45 AM
Lisa Udy
Platinum Real Estate Group - Logan, UT
Logan Utah Realtor

Fran,

Great story! Thank you for sharing it with us.

Feb 24, 2009 09:28 AM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Lisa,

Thank you for stopping by!!! :) Thanks,   Fran

Feb 24, 2009 09:30 AM
Chris Olsen
Olsen Ziegler Realty - Cleveland, OH
Broker Owner Cleveland Ohio Real Estate

Hi Fran -- Great advice, esp. the part about the innocence and wonder that children have for life.

Feb 24, 2009 09:57 AM
Kelly Young
The Platinum Group Realtors - Colorado Springs, CO
Colorado Springs Real Estate ~ 719-226-0126

We get so busy building, creating and doing that the things we forget are probably some of the most valuable and interesting parts of life.

Feb 24, 2009 10:39 AM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Chris: We can learn a lot from children...! :)

Kelly: We CAN be too busy for our own good...!!! :)

Thanks,   Fran

Feb 24, 2009 11:54 AM
Kat DeLong
Realty ONE Group Mountain Desert - Prescott, AZ
REALTOR

Fran: A gold star for a STAR BLOGGER!  I LOVE "sharing" stories, but even better is when someone (older than I) tells me stories... I could listen all day to older folks. 

Feb 24, 2009 12:21 PM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Kat,

I wish some politicians would listen to some older folks...!!! :^) Thanks,   Fran

Feb 24, 2009 01:23 PM
The Somers Team
The Somers Team at KW Philadelphia - Philadelphia, PA
Delivering Real Estate Happiness

Fran, in a world of immediate gratification and hurried stress, it is easy to forget to remember, to cherish, to take a moment... Great post as a reminder to smell the roses, to maintain perspective, to have the ability to laugh at yourself and to enjoy life !  Life is too short : )  Sorry I missed you the other night ! ~ Chris

Feb 24, 2009 01:39 PM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Chris,

Missed you also, but your lovely better half covered very well for you...!!! :) Thanks,   Fran

Feb 24, 2009 01:56 PM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

I love this! Fran I think this is one of your best posts ever and that is why I love spending time with children as they always make me remember why it is good to be alive.

Todd Clark, Helping Families Home - www.IFoundYourNewHome.com

Feb 24, 2009 05:37 PM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

TC,

Time with children is time well spent...!!! :) Thanks,   Fran

Feb 24, 2009 05:59 PM
Anne Marie Malf
Malfi Marketing Solutions ~ for real estate professionals - Yardley, PA
Real Estate Marketing Consultant/Virtual Asst, Bucks County,PA

Fantastic Fran!!!  You had me smiling throughout the entire post and I could just picture myself sitting with you having this discussion.  I couldn't agree with you more about thinking and approaching things like a child.  I love seeing the world through my daughter's eyes and have learned some very valuable and life altering lessons from paying attention to her.  I've also learned to slow it down and truly enjoy each person and experience that comes my way - I don't want to live a life with regrets, that I didn't do something, say something or share something that could make a difference to someone in my life.  Thanks for putting a smile on my face so early in my day - you get me everytime I stop by! ~Anne Marie

Feb 24, 2009 11:12 PM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Anne Marie,

Your pleasant manner and smiling face enhance my day also...!!! :) Thanks,   Fran

Feb 24, 2009 11:24 PM
Charlie Ragonesi
AllMountainRealty.com - Big Canoe, GA
Homes - Big Canoe, Jasper, North Georgia Pros

Hey Fran what a nice post. Ever watch a movie where in part you see kids and people sitting around a fire telling stories. Not the slasher movies but maybe national geographic or something like that. It really does resonate . It must be something in our DNA memory from days long gone

Feb 24, 2009 11:24 PM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Charlie,

That used to be called 'family'...! :) Thanks,   Fran

Feb 25, 2009 01:12 AM
Alice Linahan
Voices Empower - Argyle, TX

Fran,

I have not decided if I should read your blog in the morning to start my day out right or in the evening to end on a great note. I think both would be great!!

Thanks again for your wonderful insight and wisdom. You are right about politicians. I heard a great saying the other day.

"I learned the most after I knew it all"

Morning Glory-Evening Grace!!

Alice

Feb 25, 2009 02:50 PM
Fran Gaspari
Patriot Land Transfer, Inc. - Limerick, PA
"The Title Man" - Title Insurance - PA & NJ

Alice,

Hey, read it at lunchtime also...great for digestion...!!! LOL, Thanks,   Fran

Feb 25, 2009 04:09 PM