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My heart truly bleeds for...

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Real Estate Agent with Alain Pinel BRE 01367196

My heart truly bleeds for people who

 

 

....truly believed and hoped they can achieve the American dream of home ownership

....reached out for the brass ring

....saved and saved and saved to put a decent down payment on a home

....loved living in a home they call their own

....paid their taxes.

....kept up with their monthly payments

....supported the local economy by buying goods and services relating to maintenance and enhancement of their home and lifestyle

....when the economy started going south, did what they could to stay afloat as long as they could keep their home.

And when the job market dealt them a powerful blow, they lost their jobs.  And in spite of their efforts to be responsible homeowners and still feed their families, they lost their homes.

How could I not grieve with them?

Not all people who are losing their homes are greedy flippers, unwise buyers, poor speculators. or gamers. Those who were responsible homeowners and members of the community deserve our sympathy, not our scorn.

How many of us have not gone through life's upheavals? Ever been laid off from a job? Ever lose an important client? Ever gotten seriously ill where you can't work?

In Time Magazine's issue last week, there's a story on House of Cards: The Faces Behind Foreclosures.

Come on people...have a heart!

Local market update: As I wrote this, there are 131 homes actively offered for sale in my island city of Alameda, CA. Of these, 22 are short sales, and 7 are bank-owned. All in all, 29 homes or 22% of total. And more are coming up.

Comments(6)

Alan Grizzle
Chestatee Real Estate - Dahlonega, GA
Full Time Realtor, Lifelong Resident of Dahlonega

I agree with you. I now see a lot of foreclosures on good people who have done everything they can do to make the payment. They saved to put a down payment and even had several months of cash saved for a rainey day. We have so many people lose jobs and depleate there savings trying to hang on.

Mar 11, 2009 12:06 AM
Melody Botting
Broker Associate PenFed Realty - San Antonio, TX
You Deserve The Best

It is our job now to try to help as many of them as we can.  Through counseling and education we can save a few.

Mar 11, 2009 12:23 AM
Caren Wallace
Premier Property Group LLC - Tualatin, OR
Portland Caren Real Estate

Pacita, you wrote a true story of what is happening out there! Surely not all people are irresponsible, and only victims of circumstance!

Mar 11, 2009 01:48 AM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Pacita - there is no single description for those that have lost their homes. Some through their own greed, some through deceptive practices, some through a failure to try to understand what they were committing to. And then there are those who had major medical problems drive them towards or into bankruptcy (although nowhere near the 1 every 30 seconds that President Obama referenced) or those who have lost their jobs, through no fault of their own. Those last type are the ones that we should be focusing on helping.

Mar 11, 2009 01:51 AM
Terry Chenier
Homelife Glenayre Realty - Mission, BC

Pacita,

I agree with your comments; unfortunately, the ones who shouldn't have been in homes and are foresclosed on now are dragging everyone down with them. It's too bad.

Mar 11, 2009 03:28 AM
Pacita Dimacali
Alain Pinel - Oakland, CA
Alameda/Contra Costa Counties CA

Alan --- I know there are some folks who never should have bought, and never should have been approved for home loans. But there are folks who aren't in that group, and still found themselves in a financial crisis that they can't control.

Melody --- I am trying to provide info to some prospective cllients who are undewater, hoping that they can qualify for loan modification or some other form of relief.

Caren --- how I wish we aren't in this economic slump. But you're right, some of us are victims of circumstances.

Mike --- the folks who need our help are muliplying.

Terry --- I am truly saddened by the wreckage. It used to be that we're in cradle-to-the-grave jobs, where we stayed in the first house we bought until the mortgage is paid off....but more and more, people in approaching their senior years, are discovering their nest eggs are shrinking or disappearing. Not all of us were reckless with our purchases and investments.

Mar 11, 2009 08:55 AM