Real Estate Reputation

Here's a little story I tell new agents in the business.   Many years ago, during a pretty good market, I listed a "cream puff" home.  It was the kind of listing you love to have; perfect condition, well staged, and priced to sell.  A few days after I listed the little gem, I received two offers and advised both agents to come in with their "highest and best".  And they did.

Both "highest and best" offers were identical in every way.  Every single way.

One of the agents was a favorite of mine to co-broke with. Carole worked hard to get her buyer the best deal, but was very professional, cooperative and accommodating.  The other agent, Diane, was unpleasant, demanding, and combative when negotiating. Taking my advice, and with no other differences in the offers, the seller accepted Carole's contract knowing the transaction would go smoothly.  Carole has built an excellent reputation. Her buyer won because of it.

I tell that little story now because of something that happened today.  I have a condo listing located on a newer road.  It isn't listed on most GPS systems nor was it listed on our MLS mapping system.  I paid particular attention to make sure the written directions were very accurate but forgot to move the pin on the mapping.  I made a mistake.

I use HomeFeedback.com to obtain feedback on my showings. It is mailed directly to the seller.  Mark showed my condo listing yesterday and here was his feedback (his spelling, not mine):

The listing agent was either to lazy or incompetant to place the location properly in the MLS, so the buyer had a hard time finding the property.

After my blood pressure resumed normal levels (see photo), I responded: 

Mark,

(I have copied your Broker on this email.  If I was your Broker, I would want to know how you were conducting business.)

I can assure you I am neither lazy nor incompetent.  Sachem Drive does not appear on many GIS systems nor does it appear on the mapping system for MLXchange.  For that reason I was careful to give very specific directions on the listing itself.

I of course, should have placed the map point at least closer to the real location and thank you for pointing out my error.  I try to help my fellow agents when I see a mistake but do it in a professional and helpful manner.  Calling another agent lazy and/or incompetent is very unprofessional and probably grounds for a complaint since the feedback can go directly to the seller.

You'll find you will get a lot farther in this business if you treat your peers with a little more respect. 

Linda

His response:
Feel free to cc anyone you wish. Maybe you should cc your Seller too, so they can see how you run your business and their listing.

I don't normally use my blog to rant.  But he did give me permission. He's a young guy.  I'm guessing he's new in the business. 

What kind of reputation do you think he is building?

 

All names changed to protect the stupid.

 
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87 Comments on What kind of reputation are you building?

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I've met a few with that sort of attitude. The reputation he's building is not a good one..that's for sure. He is burning bridges with peers...and his behavior shows he believes he's better than....

One thing is for certain...that attitude and behavior will not take him far in this business...and I dare say....he does not respect our COE nor will he care about his clients best interests.

7:20pm • #1
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Gee, so uncalled for. I can think of hundreds of ways to have said that better and with more class. Those darn GPS's they are not perfect yet are they?

Linda, this must be the first rant I have ever seen you write in 2 years.

7:29pm • #2
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Sally.. From what I read, I wouldn't give it a second thought.  Someone like this won't be in business long.  Maybe just too long to make a bad rep for those still in the field.  You have been in real estate for years, anyone that knows you knows you are very professional and a realtor they want in their corner.

valerie osterhoudt

7:29pm • #3
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Linda, Folks just don't get it. Our reputation with our peers is very valuable. I know for a fact that many of my listings sell because of who I am and how I conduct myself. My sellers know this too.

This guy wont last long.

 

7:29pm • #4
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How frustrating and unfair.  Reputation is important, and it's good to work with an agent who knows the business well and can help the other agent to get the transaction done.

7:39pm • #5
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Well obviously he doesnt understand how Google maps works and its a simple error and not that big of a deal. Its his fault for not having enough experience to recognize that the road wouldnt be on the map nor enough experience to know that regardless of which office we work in we are all colleauges and coworkers. Its a pretty small way of thinking to think that you are more important than other agents.

I do get frustrated when wrong directions are on a house but its my fault for not checking where it was before we left. I also bring maps and a gps if I get lost. Regardless its my fault if we cant find the house as long as I have the correct address. (I have seen that wrong too before lol)

No matter what you shouldnt treat other agents that way. Its fine to point out the error or even to say you were frustrated but thats enough.

7:45pm • #6
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Well, the youngster certainly isn't playing nice in the sandbox. I expect with that attitude it won't be long until someone comes along to take away his toy truck and kicks sand in HIS face! He made a bad choice in messing with Carnac!

7:52pm • #7
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Linda !

Dont worry, what goes around ... you know the rest !

I have won many deals by being "Carole" - it is the backbone of my service !

... pay 'Mark' no more attention, his rude approach wont get him very far for very long.

 

7:52pm • #8
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Linda - His feedback seems to be a a self-indictment of which agent is lazy and incompetent.  It sounds like he sent the buyer to find the property on his own.  It also would have taken very little effort to get the spelling correct.

7:56pm • #9
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The item that interested me the most was his belief that it is your obligation to provide clear directions for his client.  While we are certainly cognizant of our facts and pertinent accompaniments when entering a listing, mistakes are made. I find it somewhat amusing that he does not realize his own.  I take ownership of the info my client receives.  I never rely on a listing to direct my client to a property, much like I never take the information within the listing as gospel.  Due diligence extends to the actual practice of showing and selling, not just he transactional portion of the job.

It reminds me of an agent who once used my call for feedback as a platform to berate me for the condition of a listing of mine.  See, she was angry about being embarassed in front of her client because she hadn't had time to preview it the day before. 

Those who are diligent seldom have to rely on others to make them look good.

I give the young buck two years max before he decides the world of Real Estate is populated by morons who have prevented him from earning his rightful success as he exits stage left.

8:00pm • #10
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Mark will make a fantastic hardwood polisher, carpet installer or dog catcher but he won't last in real estate unless he grows up fast. The market is too competitive to be kind to that crummy 'tude.

8:02pm • #11
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Kinda seems like he might be over-compensating for something........

The real estate industry is small very small at times.  Everyone knows everyone else.  You need to do your best to be your best all of the time.  Nice response, and good idea to not email while you were still steaming!

8:05pm • #12

Thanks Linda.  Among the many things our society is losing is civility.  Who raised this guy?  I wouldn't put anything like that in print even if I was writing about my worst enemy (although I don't think I have one).

A couple of months ago, one of our Realtors called me late on a Friday afternoon after an agent she submitted an offer to was belligerent to her on the phone.  His beef . . . he didn't like the way the offer was written and just had to go off on her to let her know.  She simply asked the agent to have the seller counter since she had followed the buyer's instructions for structuring the offer.

She called the listing agent's broker to inform him of the agent's conduct, and then the broker cussed, ranted, and was rude too.  Questioned her about how long she was in the business . . . did she normally construct such poor offers . . etc.  He wasn't open to the seller countering the offer either.  Go figure.

The sad part of it all was that the offer wasn't presented so both the seller and the buyer were losers.  Some agents are just not aware of the harm they cause when they don't act in a professional manner.  I'm quite confident the the seller described above wouldn't have been happy to learn that the agent and the broker cost him an offer.

Professional courtesy goes a long way.  The Atlanta real estate community is large but not so large that you won't run into people over and over if you have any longevity at all.  I perfer agents to be professional, competent, and polite.  If I can't have the first two, I'll always settle for just polite . . . at least it gives you something to work with. 

You've got one chance to make a great first impression . . . better to make it a great one than just one.  Thanks sharing your experience . . . just sorry it was a bad one!

8:05pm • #13
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Linda,

I never called a home for sale in good condition a cream puff......I used to see that in the want adds when I was looking for a used car:) But that behavior is something I've seen before.

8:15pm • #14
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Linda, I love this story!  Imagine if his buyers actually wanted to buy the place!  That could be awkward!  The twerp!

8:18pm • #15
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Linda,  I think I know that guy.  Only he goes by a different name here.  He's so unpleasant to work with that most successful agents try to avoid showing his listings.  How unfortunate for the poor sellers who didn't know what they were getting in for.  I've noticed he never gets a renewal on his listings and hopefully his time is about up.  We all make mistakes and when we admit and do what we can to correct, our reputation is intact.  Keep up the good work and don't waste any more time with that idiot.

8:30pm • #16

Don't worry this market will make the Marks of our business go away. The public has too many good choices to put up with this kind of attitude and behavior.

8:48pm • #17

Linda, I thought that feedback form is about the property and not for volunteering our opinion about the listing agent.  That was a big mistake on his part.  Maybe, business is soooo bad that it brings out the worst in him.

Well, you can use this story teaching new agents how not to behave.

8:51pm • #18
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How many times I have wished I could contact the clients of an agent to tell them how their agent is conducting themselves...

8:52pm • #19
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The first thing I noticed is that it seems 'Mr. Friendly' sends out his buyers on their own because he is too busy to (or is that lazy and incompetent?) to help them himself. 

8:57pm • #20
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Poor Mark.  I don't see a referral from ANYONE in his future.  He's young yet and will probably leave the business.

9:05pm • #21
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Yes, even male agents can be "prima donnas" . . . a shame.

9:09pm • #22
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What an idiot.  Yep, he makes me want to do business with him.  NOT.  From day one in business I was told the most important thing is to get along with other agents, because of your exact statements above.  It is SO darned much easier to be nice than act ugly.  What a sorry sap that guy is. 

9:17pm • #23
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He will not last in the business with those kind of people skills. You handled this situation like a pro. I would have been ticked too.

9:35pm • #24
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I noticed the same thing that Lane noticed.  I hope the guys broker responds in a more appropriate way.  It would almost be funny if it weren't so sad.

9:35pm • #25
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Linda,

Almost anyone can attain a real estate license, but few really understand how to use it in a professional manner that will generate referral or lifetime business.  Way to go on how you handled things and happy blogging to you!

9:40pm • #26
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What is really sad is that although he probably won't last long in this business - HE PROBABLY WILL HAVE PROBLEMS IN ANY BUSSINESS BECAUSE HE HAS A PROBLEM IN GETTING ALONG WITH PEOPLE. That doesn't normally sit well in any service or people oriented business, so what kind of job will he end up in???

10:16pm • #27
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Hi Linda,

I'm guessing he may. not be around all that long either...in the importal words of Forrest Gump, "stupid is as stupid does"...and most importantly not worth a blip on your b/p!

Feel better now?

10:22pm • #28
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Yikes!  Like everyone else here, I don't think he'll last long.  How's he going to get home after he's burned all of those bridges??

10:50pm • #29
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I can so relate...my mom had a listing a couple of years back that was not a cream puff, but not a dump either and this agent (who was a newbie) didn't think that showing feedback went to the sellers as well.  Here was her feedback..."Barbara, where do you get these hidious listings???  This place needs to be burned to the ground!"  Upon reading this, my mom got in her car, drove to the agent's office, walked into her broker's office and showed it to him.  He apologized for her behavior and promised to discuss feedback etiquette to his agent.  The agent then got back on showing feedback and send the following reply...which also went to the seller..."Hi Barbara, I am so sorry, I got your listing confused with another one that was a real dump...yours wasn't that bad!"  Needless to say...she is no longer in the business...thank goodness!!!!

10:53pm • #30
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Hi Linda!

Imagine someone calling you lazy, hahaha they obviously don't know you!!! Maybe he was projecting? Why would he get so mad over a small mistake?  :?

Jeani, your story is hilarious...! Atrocious!!

 

11:02pm • #31
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No excuse for just plain old "bad manners".  I believe I know this guy too. His broker says not to take it personally, he doesn't mean anything by it...just having a bad day.

Well, sound like all his days may be bad. 

I would believe our Board would strongly suggest he take an ethics class and a few others that might educate him in the way of conduct becoming that of a "Realtor".

11:11pm • #32

Gosh -- what a jerk!  I can only wonder at what he was saying to the buyers and what their thoughts were of his behaviour.  Especially if a copy of property info with concise directions on it.  He was showing them the property wasn't he? or, had they just called him for directions for a drive by since they couldn't find the property?

whatever the situation was his feedback was uncalled for.  As has been said I believe that what goes around comes around and he'll get his.

Sue of Robin and Sue

11:30pm • #33
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Isn't ActiveRain wonderful?  Where else can you go and "rant," then have tons of cheerleaders to "rah" you on?  It's people like Mark that are on the losing team...

11:31pm • #34
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Dear Linda,

The guy was a jerk! His broker needs to jerk his chain!

This "feature" is not available in our MLS. I am glad!

Barbara

12:02am • #35

Linda, I agree with the posts above and I can't imagine working with someone like that in an office.  He will be looking for another job soon. He'll not make it in the real estate world.  Hope you don't have to deal with this anymore.  This is a great post.....

Marie Goodwin
12:05am • #36
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Linda, don't focus on those not worth your time.  Just take whatever business he throws your way if you must.  Good luck... sorry for your frustrations!!!!

12:40am • #37

Good luck to us all working with the Ego....at any age!!!!

4:07am • #38
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Good old Mark does not understand that disparaging other agents and behaving in a nasty manner will inure to his detriment. 

There are two agents in my market area whose listings I will not show because I know that the agents are simply too nasty to deal with in any civilized manner. 

Now, as everyone who knows me knows, I am the most patient person on the face of the earth.  Howeever, I do not communicate with nasty people.  They simply cease to exist and their listings along with them. 

 

4:56am • #39
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This guy will either learn, unlikely or leave the business.  It was actually his mistake for not checking for his buyer - his responsibility.  There will always be nasty, unpleasant and unprofessional people in this business and you just found one. To heck with him.

5:46am • #40
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I soo don't like doing business with children that should not have a license...and when their version of being "right" supercedes manners, professionalism...courtesey...aren't you glad he didn't write ?

5:55am • #41
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There are a few Marks in everyones town.  For some odd reason they keep on going here and getting away with it.  I just don't get it, how do they stay in business?  I had the pleasure of dealing with one in December and I had to be the bigger person and I did get through it with experience.  Thats ok, I sleep at night.

 

5:58am • #42
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Oh my.  He sounds like a real jerk no matter what he's up to.  I absolutely LOVE making and keeping new relationships with other agents.  They are invaluable.  I would never put that on the line with behavior such as his.  Linda, fuggedaboudit!  He's not worth the aggravation.  A big LOL to Jeani's comment.

6:26am • #43
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I'm glad I took a moment to rant here which I seldom do because I absolutely love all the comments. They could be a primer for new agents. Sadly, it appears every town has a Mark. 

6:27am • #44
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Linda, Along with the freedom to conduct our businesses as we see fit, come some very odd decisions. It doesn't take long for the agent community to know who they are and avoid them at all costs. Rich

6:50am • #45
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Yes the terms "lazy and incompentent" seem to be thrown around a lot these days.  Bless the perfect agent who has never made a mistake in their career. 

7:21am • #46
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How we treat other agents is so important. How we treat the people they represent is also important. Transactions don't have to be controversial. It is amazing how well transactions can go for us and our buyers and sellers when we play nice together.

7:36am • #47

He more than likely won't last in the business. Attitudes like that show everyone that your broke and can't handle Real Estate Sales in a market that you have to actually work in.

8:25am • #48
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Great story and so very true!  When other agents give us a bad time the memory lingers on.  I find it fascinating how "small" our world really is, even in a metropolitan like where I live, one would think the odds are not likely to have to do business with someone disagreeable twice, but it happens. They forget our clients rely on us for guidance when it comes to situations like yours. We don't have to defame them, all we have to do is tell the truth, that agent is very difficult and unpleasant to deal with, is generally enough to dissuade any sane seller.

8:38am • #49
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Hi Carole,

He won't last long. I can't believe the way he treated you. What a jerk!

-Lisa

9:53am • #50
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Wow Linda... that is just uncalled for.  It would be interesting to see how he conducts himself throughout an entire transaction.

10:09am • #51

I get calls from agents all the time.  The property is mapped correctly and directions are given correctly in MLS and THEY CAN'T FIND IT!  I calmly tell them that the first thing I purchased when I got in this business was a Key Map and learned to use it.  Do you think the buyer's client doesn't think he's a total nimrod for not being able to FIND the property HE is trying to show.  It's not your job to guide his little butt around.

Jeanne Gregory, RE/MAX Southwest, Sugar Land, TX
11:22am • #52
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Unfortunately, I think they clone those agents and stick them in every area. It would be nice if his broker reprimands him but sometimes I find attitude comes from the top down. In my area, this is the case with one brokerage. Going to the broker in charge results in NOTHING.

12:31pm • #53
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In Tennessee we have a canned product called "whupass".

Happy to deliver and open a can on Mark if you like. ;->

1:04pm • #54
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Linda this is the type of person that by the time the light comes on it is to late.  We have these in the mortgage side of things also.

1:07pm • #55
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He was wrong and maybe inexperienced. But am I understanding you let these go directly to your seller prior to your taking a look. That isn't too cool either.  You're lucky that was all that was said.

1:25pm • #56
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Linda: Thanks for the post. It always amazes me how people within our own industry can denigrate others. I find it so unprofessional. We all need each other. Those that cut down others are cutting off their nose to spite their face. Not only is it short-sighted but it's also mean spirited. I wish you well!

2:46pm • #57
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Hi Linda -- Its beyond easy to see why clients and good agents would like to do business with you, simply based on this post alone, it's quite evident you are a class act.

I dread sometimes if I know I have do have a transaction with a specific agent.

I think apart from some of the basics and contextual differences of what one agent brings to the table versus another, the main things that separates us is our integrity, of which this guy will never get very far, and you (and others of likemind) will go very far.

3:27pm • #58

Linda, there is always two sides to the story, I'm sure you took correct action with what you did, and Mark thought he was right with pointing out his frustration on you. He didn't know the real story and the real fault lies in the mapping system, a more friendly note to you would have went much further and I'm sure you would appreciate that! Mark may just had a bad day.

4:04pm • #59
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Great follow up to frustrating feedback. Keep it up!

4:43pm • #60
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Oh my gosh! Well, you did the right thing. First, you very professionally took responsibility for a very simple to make mistake (a pushpin, good grief!) Second, maybe I am being overly analytical, but why did the buyer have a hard time finding the place? Didn't the buyer's agent take the buyer there, or did they meet? If I was that buyer's agent, I would have provided your directions that you copiously wrote to make sure the buyer gets there okay. I think that's his fault...

Don't worry...whomever that is, they won't be a real estate professional for long...With an attitude like that, it'll get around.

5:07pm • #61
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Just wait until he needs your help with something.  It will be interesting to see how much cooperation he receives.  On the other hand, knowing you, Linda, you will be very professional in your dealings with him.

5:09pm • #62
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People are who they are.  I don't forget agents that would ever say such a thing, because that is just not a poor reply; it is telling you what type of person that agent is.  In the future it is best to call the agent directly as emails can intensify a conflict.  I would not blame it on the agent being new.  If the agent survives, see how the agent operates in the years to come.  My bet it that the agent's approach to business will not change. Hope I am wrong, but I doubt it.

5:52pm • #63
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He is building a reputation that is "Oh no!  Not him again!"  Some agents are gracious and I love to work with them.  Others are offensive, defensive and abusive.  Those are the agents everyone likes to avoid working with if they can.

7:22pm • #64
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Linda,

Several previous comments said this guy won't last long in this business and I agree with that.  Who is going to want to work with someone with that sort of attitude?  I would imagine his condescending attitude extends to his clients at well at peers.

7:50pm • #65
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Hi Linda~ "Mark" sounds like the perfect "Pompous A$$."  Give him enough rope and he will hang himself!  He will never make it in this business, so don't worry about it!

8:37pm • #66
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Linda, starting off on the wrong foot with an agent is not the way to handle business.  Agents like this do not stay in business too long.  When I confront an agressive agent like this, I realize they are covering up their own stupidity!

8:40pm • #67
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Linda,

It won't take long and he will be looking for a new profession! Glad you called him on it!

9:22pm • #68
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You know, here in Atlanta one could burn a lot of bridges... there are tens of thousands of agents.  One could go through several lifetimes without EVER dealing with the same people twice. 

9:36pm • #69
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It seems to me that even if the pin was placed in Henderson NV the written directions still would have taken the buyer right to the property. And why isn't Mark with the buyer? Mark is lucky you didn't go all Carnac on him -- but it would have been fun!

11:01pm • #70
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Unfortunately, there are some unprofessional agents out there.  Gives the rest of us a bad name.

12:57am • #71

Wishing the "new agent" responding here though...

7:38am • #72

Linda,

Just think karma. He wants to make waves and show how smart he is? It will come back to bite him. It always does!

Brent Greer, Prudential Commercial Real Estate, Columbus, OH

Brent Greer
9:41pm • #74
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Linda:

He is attempting to accuse another person of incompetence when he does not have the basic good sense to realize that he needs to open a dictionary once in awhile.  I do not think he will go very far in this business.

   

 

10:05pm • #75

Linda-
It is unfortunate to see an agent make comments like this but it is all too common today.  Gone is the professionalism in many newer licensees and it has become all ego.  We used to work together, today it is more against each other.  Hopefully this correcting market will slap some sense in the way some deal with their fellow agents or jsut slap them out of the market altogether.

10:47pm • #76
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a crappy one.  I give him 6 months

10:49pm • #77

Any news from his Broker??

11:38pm • #78
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Linda,

An impressive glass house he must live in.

I see this quite often in "young" today since I'm older now. You handled it extremely well.

8:31am • #79

Sarah Schneider 

Both "Diana" and "Mark" needs to grow up and get over themselves. They are not more special than the rest of us. But natural selection always eliminate the weak members of the species, so I'm not worried. Behavior like this in any business environment is inexcusable and totally counterproductive.

Anytime I have difficulty finding listing information for any reason I always call the agent to clarify. And I make myself available to other agents as well. Or, at worst, I call the office to try to get info. Mark probably felt, well uh, shriveled by the experience and was looking for a scapegoat. He can always bring the buyer back.

And negotiatig offers requires finesses, patience and a complete awareness of the concept of KARMA.

Kudos to "Carole" who navigated the terrain with professionalism and intelligence and got the deal done for her buyer. And, yes, agents do have huge influence on their sellers as to whom they feel can best get the deal to the table. And kudos to you for exposing the Diane's and Mark's to us all. It keeps us all on the right path. It is 2009 and yes, bigbrother is watching, listening, and wrijnting blogs!!!

Cheers, and Happy St. Patty's Day. Let's all work this market together and we'll all come out better for it in the end.

Comp responsibly.

Love, Sarah

 

 

 

10:03am • #80

He's going to be selling something else soon. Hard to work this business without being a member of the community.

Probably treats his clients that way too.

A lot of "real" jobs make their applicants take personality tests, especially if you have to deal with the public. Perhaps we should do so also. Before even license school....

2:18pm • #81
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Thanks for all the comments. Here's the update:  Mark's broker did email me and was very professional and apologetic. 

8:29pm • #82
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Wow! I'm emarassed for this guy. I wonder what his clients think of him? Yikes!! This business is so much about reputation, maybe it'll catch up to him sooner rather than later!

9:01pm • #83
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There are always at least a few in every business and as long as you know this going in there should be few surprises. Thanks for the great post.

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Linda - great story - both of them.  I always tell new agents to be nice to everyone because they remember.  And always work harder that you think you ought to!!  I always try to go the extra mile for both my clients and my fellow agents.  I have been in similiar situations as the your first story and most of the time it has gone the same way - your client deserves to know what your opinion is - and I always qualify that it is MY Opinion and MY experience with this agent.

Thanks,

Kathy Carson

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His career will be short lived with that type of arrogance. I would suggest he try another trade... seems like he'd be good at telemarketing/bill collector.

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LInda - I missed this before and it made me chuckle. Someone could use some gidance in being a bit more diplomatic. We all make mistakes and finding out that we have from a fellow agent is a good thing, but not in this manner. Bet he is the same way in person. He may learn the hard way.

Jeff

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