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How do you handle things when they go bad, when they don't go your way. And I am speaking on behalf of a botched closing. A loan officer or lender making a promise that they will close your loan on the date that is in the contract. Or giving you certain rates and or closing costs on paper, to later finding out at closing, that they changed some things on you. Or the worst case scenario, telling you that they can't help you now, the day of your settlement.

Now, don't get me wrong, I am not telling you to go out there and attack someone or maim someone. But what about filing a complaint with someone. It can make a difference. Yes, it does take some effort on your part. But if you don't take a stance of some sort, it will just happen to the next person. 

Okay, so why the urgency now?  Well, I have been a part of a few discussions from a few well-written posts in the last day. Two things that were mentioned within the discussions that I heard,

  1. "I don't want to sound like a cry baby"       and  
  2. "my complaining won't do any good."


thinker

 

Now, I have always considered myself a thinking man. Someone that will usually exert that extra effort to try to make things better. Even if that means taking the time to bring it to someone else's attention. 

Have I done this every time something goes wrong?  No, I'll admit that. Sure, it can take some time out of your busy schedule. But whatever happened to the Power of People? The Freedom of speech? If you don't stand up to what happened, if you thought it was unfair or unjust, then what about the next person that it happens to. Or better yet, that it might happen to you again?

So, let's use an example now for all intense of purposes. I am a loan officer that has promised a closing on the 12th of May with $2,000 out of pocket to the buyer. The 11th roles around and I tell you I need another week to close this loan, for what ever excuse was used. Now it's a week and I ask for one more extension. Bingo, we finally make it two weeks later. But wait, I tell you that you need another $1,500 at the closing. You complain, rant, and rave. (possibly more than this, but we'll keep it "PG") But because you want the house so bad, you come up with the extra money or one of the realtor's cuts back their commission a little to help out with this. Okay, you aren't a happy camper, but you have the keys. You call up the loan officer, because they weren't even at the closing and say, "you won't be getting a referral from me."  The loan officer under his/her breathe, "oh well, I made my money."  Now, you both go your separate ways...... This shouldn't stop here and here is what can be done.

 

 

 

                           What can you do to possibly keep this from happening again? And no, you wouldn't be the only one that could make a difference. But if enough people do it, it can make a difference. Sometimes a follower needs to be a leader at times.
                               

solution A.  When having a problem with the loan officer, call their supervisor and or manager. Give them the benefit of the doubt at least once. But if they don't return phone calls and or e-mails, don't wait around. This is usually a good sign that something is wrong. (not always, but a good chance)

B.  If it seems like the manager is taking the side of the loan officer, just go up the ladder per se. If it's a small company, speak to the V.P. or the owner/President of the company. If it's a larger company, after speaking to the branch manager, you can then go to the regional manager.

                               C.  So, you either closed on the loan with problems or they denied you last minute. Don't stop here. There are a few things that you can do:                                       

                                           1.  Call the BBB or go to their online complaint system (Better Business Bureau).

                                           2.  Or go to Google and type in state license complaints for mortgages. With this search, you will pull up many different states. If your state isn't there, just type in your state name ____________ followed by mortgage complaints.

                                           3.  Or go to the NAMB site. (National Association of Mortgage Brokers) And then go to this link on the page and click it.  Home Buyer Complaints

 

Now, I never said that by doing this will make everything better for what might have happened to you. Or that it will correct the problems right away. But if it's the same people doing this over and over, your efforts might get them to stop down the road. Don't be a back seat driver. 

Disclosure: This does not happen to everyone. Nor is every loan officer a bad loan officer. But this is based on real life examples from the past, from speaking to other realtors and consumers.

 

Part of my inspiration can from reading a blog done by both Neal Bloom and Randy L. Prothero. Both of whom wrote two thought provoking blogs based on their experiences with botched closings. 

 

31 Comments on As a Consumer or a Realtor, should you complain?

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UPDATE : Some of you might have seen this about a week ago, when I posted this. I am posting it again, because I had several issues that I had to take care of and couldn't reply to the comments. And I also wanted this to be seen again and not lost, considering that I think this is an Extremely Important topic.

I will copy the prior comments.  Thanks again.... 

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Has anyone ever taken any of these steps before?  What do you do when this happens to you or your client?

                                                                                                              jeff belonger

05/05/2007 by Jeff Belonger -- The FHA Expert.com Edit Delete Report as Spam


 

I think the secret to avoiding these things from happening is by starting with a referral.  Ask your Realtor who they have worked with and what was their experiences.  Find a loan officer with a funding lender who is not part time or new to the business.

05/06/2007 by Randy L. Prothero (R), CRS, GRI   Delete Report as Spam


Jeff I do have a confession... I have...and if felt sOOOOoooooo good.  I could not take those fax blasts anymore.  You know the one saying 1% mortgage.  I called the number and spoke to the person.  I asked him how could they offer such a low rate.  He informed me that yes 1% is a true mortgage.  I asked him if he was a lender or mortgage company.  He then informed me that neither he was a marketing company and he would have a loan officer contact me.  So again I asked him to be clear that they are faxing rates and they are not a lender or a mortgage company. Once again he said.  In Florida the law is very clear on lenders or mortgage companies can advertise rate, payment or term.  I called the state and spoke to the compliance department.  They where very interested in the fax.  You know what the best part was?  I never received that fax again.

05/06/2007 by Matthew J Blum   Delete Report as Spam


I have a "go to" guy (loan officer) that has his package to the title company days before closing - every time .  I think he's all that and a bag of chips.  I had to kiss a lot of frogs before I found that prince, though!

05/06/2007 by Chris Elizabeth Griffith, Bonita Springs Real Estate   Delete Report as Spam


 

Randy.....  I totally agree. I did a post on this several weeks ago, in regards to approvals and such. I had written that you should first ask friends, family, or your realtor for those that they trust and work with. This then would eliminate half of these problems without a doubt. Thanks for your feedback.

Matthew...  great example. Thanks for sharing this. It's so easy to just sit back and let things happen over and over and over again. Once you start taking a stance or calling people, or making a complaint.... your efforts might pay off.  Thanks for sharing this.

Chris....  I agree, sometimes it takes a long time to get to the point that you are. That's awesome. But what about those that go through what I wrote about?  Should one complain? File a complaint?  Take the time to do this?  Have you had to do this, even if it wasn't mortgage related?  For anything....  thanks for stopping by. 

05/06/2007 by Jeff Belonger -- The FHA Expert.com Edit Delete Report as Spam


 

Point taken, I have never complained higher than the manager. But, honestly never gotten anywhere. It really never happens with our local lenders that know us and want future business, only those internet lenders that promise one thing and then change it right before closing.

My worst was a Physician moving here for her residency. She literally walked in with cash from her wedding, because the lender was 30 days late and raised her rate and she had to bring more.

I am bookmarking this and sending out to my office. Thanks

05/06/2007 by Missy Caulk   Delete Report as Spam


Jeff - I flagged this post.  We have had several posts on this subject in the last week from frustrated Realtors including myself.  This one is extremely helpful especially coming from the eyes of a mortgage professional.  I can always depend on you to give us that perspective.

05/06/2007 by Randy L. Prothero (R), CRS, GRI   Delete Report as Spam


 

Thanks Jeff - this is great information.  It is so true that most of us will exert a little effort to complain and then give up.  I plan on bookmarking this for future reference because I know it will happen again. 

Kris Burgess

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Missy.....    sure, I can understand that it might not happen as much with local lenders. But I still see it happen. I did about 5 transactions last year just in New Jersey alone that went south, bad....right up until closing or at closing. And these lenders couldn't make it happen. I was able to close each one. And a few of them were extremely hard. A few of the loan officers had made promises not even god could have gotten done, under the program that they promised. This is when the client and sometimes the realtor should rise to the occasion per se and let that persons manager know about the issue at hand. And if anything, report them to the state or BBB if it was that bad. Thanks for the compliment and for stopping by.

Randy.... thanks a lot. But from what Collen Kulikowski said about a week ago, that the flagging system hasn't worked in about 2 months.  Overall, thanks for your compliments.

Kris.....  As I have mentioned, there could have been times in my life that I reported someone for something. But I guess it depends on the severity of the situation and or problem. And sure, that question popping into your head...my one complaint won't make a difference. But it can...And yes, it does take a little effort at times. Thanks for stopping by and for that compliment. 

 

05/06/2007 by Jeff Belonger -- The FHA Expert.com Edit Delete Report as Spam


Jeff was this post removed from the professional category and if so why?

05/06/2007 by Randy L. Prothero (R), CRS, GRI   Delete Report as Spam


 

Jeff,

Hopefully, I will not have to deal with this issue anytime soon, but you are right in that rolling over and playing dead probably isn't the best way to go.  I would definitely complain to a lenders higher-up if I felt they intentionally led me or my client astray.

Fran

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Part of the problem here is that the only person we get to talk to is the lo. The processor and underwriter are kept in isolation by many lenders. In Arizona we have a contract that requires the buyer to direct the lender to keep in contact with Loan Status Reports (LSU). Trouble is, many lenders do not process locally. In calling a processor, when I can get one, they say "We don't do that". The arrogance continues. People from one MAJOR bank hate coming into my office when I am there because I keep blasting them. They aren't the worst, just the ones brave enought to drop by.

05/07/2007 by Jim Little, Realtor   Delete Report as Spam


Good info I have filed a complaint before on another realtor that was breaking the law.

05/07/2007 by Jeff Fulgham   Delete Report as Spam


 

Jeff,

Great post and I wish people would take action if they do not like the service.  I for one welcome feedback, both positive and negative, as this is the only "real" way to know if I am doing a good job or find areas where improvement can be made.

 

05/07/2007 by Robert D. Ashby, CMPS, CITRMS   Delete Report as Spam


Hmmm.....I'm one of those that will call the underwriter and processor who is working on the loan if I can't get ahold of lo.  I go to the boss...if I have to.  I make sure the job gets done.  I also call the escrow officer to follow up on title reports etc...and utilize escrow if the other agent is not getting needed docs in.  Sometimes, we can't depend on the other agent, the lo or even escrow officer to do their job meticulously as I...oops, .....WE do.  So instead of waiting around I get cracking.  The loan process is most definitely the most crucial part of the transaction...and I still think we all need to have "overseers" ...hahahaha.

05/07/2007 by Celeste "Sally" Cheeseman (RA), e-PRO; Oahu, Hawaii!   Delete Report as Spam


 

Jeff,

Good post.  Not enough people complain to the right people and that's why there are still so many scam artists out there.  I have met so many clients with stories that blow my mind, but they never did anything about it. 

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Jeff I have only had one loan officer I wanted to do something like this to and I have never had to deal with him again.  I can say that if a buyer came to me with a letter from him I would tell my buyer to fire him and find a better lender.  Thanks for being so upfront with how to deal with some of these issues. 

But I truly feel that a lot of these issues are a break down in communication - with proper communication most issues are able to be solved or at least understood.

05/14/2007 by Thesa Chambers, REALTOR®, Sunriver, OR  

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Jeff,

Welcome back.  I was wondering if you fell off the face of the earth.

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Fran..... well, you are lucky, from what I have heard from other realtors. And this is a growing concern of mine because I see so many borrowers and realtors walk away from the issue, thinking that they can't change anything by complaining. 

Jim.....   even though you think the problem is because you can only talk to the loan officer, this shouldn't be the case. You can call the company and ask the receptionist to direct you to a manager or someone in charge. You just need to ask around.

In regards to Arizona and many of these lenders not doing what is requested. Put this back on the borrower then.  Make it their responsibility to get the lender involved.  Thanks for your input & feedback.

Jeff F. ........... thanks for stopping by and for the compliment.

Robert..... I totally agree. How am I suppose to know if you weren't pleased with my services, if you didn't say anything to me. If you don't want to call me, put it in an e-mail.

And yes, I think more people would need to stand up and complain if they weren't happy.... within reason.  I think this was as much as a problem than the HIGH LTV loan programs that everyone complained about. By complaining could curb some lenders and loan officers...    at least making them think about their actions. 

Sally.....  you make some great points. I don't think a realtor needs to stay on top of it 100%... but at least make that loan officer aware that you mean business. 

Olan....  thanks for the compliment.  I agree, as stated above, that not many people complain and they should. Even if it takes an hour. It could curb some of the issues that we have now. I have had only one complain to the BBB in 14 years....  and it was a bogus complaint... lol   Long story...  thanks for your feedback.

Thesa.... I agree... many of these issues are a breakdown in communication. But also... lack of communication. I have seen some loan officer's hide from negative phone calls. This is where it starts...

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I take it straight to the manager or broker and let them know what happened. I also, if the action calls for it, either file a complaint with the state or the licensing board. I have also taken another Realtor to the Grievance committee for unethical practice during a real estate transaction. It is our responsibility to get rid of the bad seeds out there and better our public perception. I feel that if you remain silent, you are no better than the person you are grumbling about under your breath. Thanks for the great post!
3:28pm • #6
Great stuff. I am going to print this and have it handy to hand out. I liked the information about specifically who to complain to when you have a mortgage problem.  Thanks.
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Jeff, I would call that a predatory lender. 

When I have run into this problem I make a point to notify my fellow Realtors.  I will send out a company wide email, stating only the facts, to warn others about this particular lender.  I have also found 3-4 loan officers that I know I can trust and give that list out to potential buyers.  When I have a buyer who is already with loan officer, I will also use my fellow agents to find out if they have had any experience with the company, good and bad.  It's an unfortunate situation that makes us all look bad.
Thanks for the post.
Sherri

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HI Jeff:

I've been a Realtor for 12 years in the Pikes Peak region and one thing that I do with my newbie lenders is let them know UP FRONT that if they do gain any of my business, I don't want to hear, "looks like we aren't going to be able to close on time."  Of course, unforseeable circumstances happen, but not as often as people try to use them for excuses.

Lenders come by my brokerage all the time asking for me to "give them a shot" and I tell them, quite frankly, that if they really want a shot, they have to know that not only am I expecting great service, but I'm expecting excellent service, if not miracles. I let them know that I am fussy and that I watch over every aspect of my buyer's transactions. I let them know what order I like things done in and one of my common practices is to close a transaction in 10 days or less. This is how I help my flip house buyers to compete with cash buyers in this market. Colorado is a broker closing state, so we really don't have that whole escrow period thing going on here.

I just let them know I'm a picky stickler and that I want what I want and I want it now, but that if they do a great job, I will give them MUCH business and many referrals. My longest servicing lender is Everett Nordby or Countrywide in Colorado Springs. He's actually the branch manager now and he's an awesome lender. He knows me and loves me just the way I am. (Even though he will tell you that I'm a royal pain in his behind). He tells me "I keep him grounded."

So, I try to head a lot of the complaint process off by laying out expectations from the get go. It works for me and eliminates lenders who want money, but don't want to work for it, from even trying to solicit my business.

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WOW! SOUNDS LIKE A CASE OF BAD COMUNICATION. THE LOAN PROCESS LIVES AND DIES BY COMUNICATION. FOR INSTANCE, I HAVE A CLIENT WHO IS SIGNING TODAY ON A NEW PURCHASE. HIS CLOSING COSTS ARE SIGNIFICANTLY MORE THAN WE ORIGINALY TALKED ABOUT.......NO NOT BECAUSE IM MAKING MORE MONEY AS A LOAN OFFICER.......NOT BECAUSE THE BANK IS MAKING MORE MONEY.....NO NOT BECAUSE HE IS BEING HAD....HE WANTED HIS CLOSING DATE TO BE MOVED UP. BECAUSE WE ARE NOW CLOSING IN THE MIDDLE OF THE MONTH INSTEAD OF THE END, WE HAVE PRORATIONS AND PREPAID ITEMS THAT OTHER WISE WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN OWED. SOME TIMES BORROWERS DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY CLOSING COSTS ARE DIFFERENT THAN THE ORIGINAL ESTIMATE. IT IS UP TO THE LOAN OFFICER TO COMMUNICATE SO THAT THE BORROWER UNDERSTANDS AND IS AWARE OF CHANGES THAT ARE MADE EFFECTING CLOSING COSTS. HAVE YOU HEARD OF THE GOOD FAITH ESTIMATE? THE ESTIMATED HUD1? DO YOU KNOW WHAT THE DEFINITION OF THE WORD ESTIMATE IS? ESTIMATE: A STATEMENT OF THE APROXIMATE COST OF WORK TO BE DONE BASED ON INFORMATION AVAILABLE. WHEN THE AVAILABLE INFORMATION CHANGES SO DOES THE ESTIMATE, HENCE THE REASON WE DO NOT HAVE A FINAL HUD1 UNTIL THE TRANSACTION IS CLOSED. I FOR ONE WORK VERY HARD AS A LOAN OFFICER AND USUALLY MAKE SOMWHERE BETWEEN .75 AND 1 POINT PER FILE. Neither I NOR ANY LOAN OFFICER OR MORTGAGE BROKER I KNOW ARE IN IT FOR ONE LOAN. WE THRIVE ON REPEAT BUSINESS JUST LIKE AGENTS. I IN NO WAY HOPE TO EVER UPSET A CLIENT OR AGENT IN SUCH A WAY THAT WOULD PREVENT ME FROM REFERALS OR WORSE. I BELIEVE THE KEY IS IN COMMUNICATION!!

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Jennifer.....  WELL SAID>>.. your very last sentence...  "I feel that if you remain silent, you are no better than the person you are grumbling about under your breath."   And Thanks for the polite compliment.

Ken.... my pleasure... I am glad that I could help. That is one reason why I reposted this again. It was kind of missed before.

Sherri.... hate to disagree, but I wouldn't call the lender a predatory lender if it was one loan officer that acted this way and treated all their clients like this. Sure, I have seen companies operate like this. But we can't always judge a company based on just one individual. Just my opinion. And thanks for the kind words.

Lania...... yes, unforseeable circumstances can happen. I am glad that you realize this. Some people don't. What gets me ticked our those that hide from the problems and you her realtors and clients complain because they leave message after message after message,,,, and the L.O. doesn't call back.... until you threaten a manager. 

In regards to your last few comments... that's good that you are strict, which heads off or eliminates these problems. But problems occur and some people do just run away from them. Thanks for your input and feedback. 

Mark.....  you make some great points.... but I have one thing for you.....   how do you fill out your interest per diem section?  I have always, from almost day one, put at least 15 days in this section. If you had done that, they would not have been short because of this. Curious.... how much were they off?   Thanks for your feedback...

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Jeff,

FYI our deal dies Friday night and when i called the loan officer to get a letter and I inquired if they were denied or approved and he said they were denied the first one but the second would have been closed had the buyer not walked away from the deal..when I questioned the LO as to why we never received anything in writing he got nasty and started to curse at me and hung up..maybe i should just file a compliant with DBPR to make him pay for the loss of money my client incurred.

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Jeff - you are so right - no one wants to give the bad news - it is better to have bad news early than have it blow up on the closing table - this is business and they act like none of us can accept the truth.  Welcome back where ya been?

8:34pm • #13

I USED TO ESTIMATE MY PER DIAM INTEREST BASED ON FIFTEEN DAYS AS WELL. WITH PURCHASES, FINDING THAT OFTEN MY ESTIMATE WAS OFF, I HAVE SWITCHED TO ESTIMATING BASED ON ACUTUAL CLOSING DATE. WE WERE SET TO CLOSE THIS ONE THE END OF THE MONTH, EVERYONE AGREED TO MOVE THE DATE TO THE 18TH. I EXPLAINED TO THE BORROWER HE WOULD BE PAYING PER DIAM INTEREST THROUGH THE END OF THIS MONTH, THUS CHANGING THE AMOUNT HE WOULD BRING TO ESCROW AT CLOSING. EVERYTHING WORKED OUT JUST FINE, AND AFTER EXPLAINING THE PROCESS MY BORROWER HAD NO PROBLEM WITH BRINGING HIS MORTGAGE INTEREST PAYMENT FOR MAY INTO ESCROW. COMUNICATION COMUNICATION COMUNICATION. I CAN'T STRESS THIS ENOUGH ANY REALTOR OR CLIENT WILL TELL YOU THEY WOULD RATHER HEAR THE BAD NEWS, AND POSSIBLE SOLUTION EARLIER RATHER THAN LATER!!!

Jeff
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Neal.....  I would file something or call his manager. Just because he didn't get the job done and for the fact he seems to think that you are questioning him, doesn't mean he should get all bent out of shape. From talking to you and reading your one post, he was lacking in the communication department.  I say, wake him up. Have him have to answer to a BBB complaint. Again, from your post and comments and the storyline, I would say he was at fault for this mess. And that he wasn't honest at all....  thanks for stopping by.

Thesa....   I totally agree, the biggest issue on hand are those that hate giving bad news and just wait to the end.  I learned from my own personally life and growing, to give the news as soon as possible. People will respect you for it... especially when you can find a solution.

Read this when you get a chance : A conversation I just had with an underwriter

Mark?  aka Jeff   Not sure if this is Mark or Jeff... or someone else.  I can only assume that it's you, because your comment is a continuation of my feedback from the previous comment.

In any case.... if you have been in this business long enough, you should know for the most part, that many people don't listen and or remember the true details, especially that of the interest per diem. So, you are going to be off anywhere from $500 to $1,200 depending on the loan amount?  If one would get creative, there are ways around this. ....

Take the good faith estimate and circle the interest per diem section in yellow or better yet, RED.  And tell them or even write it down next to what number is already in there. If you were estimating exactly from the date of closing, then to the side of it, put 15 days of interest. Or vise versa.... I would do it the 2nd way. I ALWAYS put 15 days and just tell them and write it in red... if you close sooner, less money. Too me... in Mark's case, there had to be something off than just the interest per diem. That's my opinion.

But as you stated, communication.  And yes, telling the client the bad news earlier than later is a step in the right direction. But with so many, especially those out of state and not near the transaction, many don't care about this and just let it ride.  thanks for your input.

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I LIKE YOUR IDEA JEFF, AND YOU'RE RIGHT IT WAS MORE THAN THE MORTGAGE INTEREST PER DIAM, IT WAS ALSO PRO RATED HOA DUES, AND AN EXTRA TWELVE DAYS WORTH OF COUNTY TAXES OWED. THESE ITEMS MADE A SIGNIFICANT DIFFERENCE TO CLOSING COSTS BECAUSE THIS WAS A SUB PRIME CALIFORNIA JUMBO PURCHASE TO 90%. YOU CAN PROBABLY IMAGINE NOW WHY TWELVE EXTRA DAYS WOULD BE SIGNIFICANT.

Mark
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I am fortunate to have several loan officers that I work with whenever possible! It's the dot.com's I have a problem with..getting anyone to even answer their phone is an accomplishment!
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Mark...  thanks for sharing that and for stopping by. Sure, it's tough because even when they say they listed or understand, they can pull the "I didn't know attitude"....   so if I make copies and have them initial and or sign stuff, at least I can say this initialed it.  That saved me once because the clients swore that I didn't tell them that it was a 45 year sub prime deal and that they wanted a 30 yr. I had it in my notes that we talked about it. I told them that they wouldn't keep this mortgage for 45 years and even 30 yrs, that their goal should be the cheapest payment. Besides, they didn't qualify for a 30 yr and I even told them that. Well, I had them initial each page of the 1003 and it had the term on there. In this business you just have to cross your "t's" and dot you "i's"....  thanks again...

Joan.....yes you are fortunate. But even if you came across this because your client picked their own mortgage company. And you got the run around for a week. Better yet, you leave the loan officer messages for 2 to 3 days and a few e-mails, but you hear nothing. Unless there was a family emergency, there is not excuse for this. 

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Jeff, we've all been there.  If it's anything I could have helped I own up to it.  I just hate when I am collateral damage for someone elses neglegence.
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Jeff-this post deserved more attention than it received. EXCELLENT!  I give you a five. It is vital consumers and professionals know where to go and you did an excellent job providing the links!  Bravo!
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Chris.....  I am sure we all have been there. But the question would be, how many of us have ever done something about it?  And yes, I hate cleaning up someone else's messes.....   I have had to do that for a few title companies before.

Allison....  thanks for those kind words. Yes, I would figure that this is a very important topic and should have received more attention. I believe this was sometimes more of a problem than just the loan programs themselves. Because then people were forced into certain loans.  Thanks again for stopping by and for your comments. 

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Great post Jeff.  I totally agree.  As a mortgage broker who does no wrong (seriously!), I wish clients would complain about my competition even more than they already do.  Why should the bait-and-switchers and the newbies-in-the-business take loans from me, when I can do better by the client?  Complain, I say!

 

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I am an LO with a large lender. I find these problems inexcusable. Communication would resolve most of the issues. Under promise and over deliver and you will get all the leads you can handle. People remember when they are treated right.
Keith Smolik
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Karen.....  Yes, I think more people need to complain and not to us or others that don't really matter, but to those that can do something about.  And thanks for that polite compliment.

Keith.....  you are correct, communication would resolve many of these problems. But there might not have been a problem if that loan officer was truthful in regards to the program that they promised. As you said, under promise and over deliver....    thanks for sharing this...

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Not always do I have to stay on top of it...but believe me ....I've had times I've had to go the whole nine yards. 

Where you been?

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Jeff, I think this is a marvelous topic.  Too many times I have heard people complain about someone while standing around the proverbial water cooler.  It does no good, unless the person you are complaining about is the person you are talking to.

Generally, I have a few personal rules I like to adhere to regarding complaints:

  1. Never complain about a circumstance to someone who can not change the circumstance.
  2. Never complain about something that your own actions brought about.
  3. Never complain abour dinner being cold when you are late for dinner.
  4. When asked for feedback, don't be affraid to be honest.

I recently had a maintenance issue come up with my car.  I took it to the dealer where I bought it, only to be told they couldn't service a chrysler at a mercury dealership.  Defore I drove down the street to the Chrysler dealer, I sat down with the general manager, and spoke to him about it.  I wanted him to know that if they are going to sell used cars that they cannot service, their sales people should disclose that fact to the consumer at some point during the sale process.  I explained to him that I wasn't upset, but that another buyer might have been, and that they ought to consider instituting a practice that would avoid those types of potential upsets.  He thanked me for the comments, and we proceeded to have a chat about the similarities in our businesses.  At the end of the conversation, I felt like he was about to offer me a job...we hit it off so well.  If this real estate career ever gets boring (not likely) at least I knwo I could be a used car salesman!  (I actually used to sell cars, way back when...nevermind, thinking about gas prices hurts...)

11:09pm • #26
MAY
17
2007

good post

 

now sometimes things do arise

 

personally i am never the one to back away from calls.....i dont duck people

 

sometimes the AE or UW is giving me bad info and i unfort pass along to borrower and RE agent

 

Generally i always overquote things..............try not to cut things to very second of the day

 

i would say we can close on the 12th.......actually thinking the 5th..........give myuself that extra time god forbid

 

as for $'s when i quote it im usually dead on so im never worried about that

 

that being said we are still going to run into people who no matter what we do are just jerks.........................they complain and yell no matter what

 

DOMINICK GACCINO

First Suffolk Mortgage Corp

9:08am • #27
MAY
18
2007
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Sally..... I think a realtor should only have to do so much. But then again, that's only if the loan officer was good at first....  very good with communication and follow up.  thanks

Rich.....  I liked some of your personal rules. ANd you use a great example of how to pursue a concern that you had as a consumer. Thanks for sharing this. Again, more people need to do this for anything that comes across their lives as we have presented.  And thanks for your very polite compliment.

Dominick.....  that's great that you don't duck people, avoiding them. And you make some very good points and using some good examples when it comes to overquoting.... not over promising.

But I have a concern, when you mention an AE or UW passes you along bad information. This is not pointed at you... but we need to know these programs inside and out then.  And deal with a very good AE and lender if you aren't underwriting these loans yourself.  Thanks for your input and feedback. And also thank you for your compliment.

7:39am • #28
JUN
12
2007
479,779 Points 151 Featured Posts Outside Blog

This is what Lisa said in this same post.....

Jeff, You recently commented on my blog Watch what you say, which is a case such as this. I totally agree that if the situation calls for it, people should make a formal complaint. I think it doesn't really matter what profession your in. We all have a code of ethics and there are always a few who don't practice very ethically. The only way to change that is to speak up. Thanks for linking your blog. You are absolutely right.

06/12/2007 by Lisa Stevenson   Delete Report as Spam


1:25pm • #29
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Lisa....   I just think more situations have called for it with less people taking charge and doing this. I agree, it doesn't matter what profession that you are in, people should stand up and bring it to someone's attention. I don't call this complaining.

Thanks for your feedback and for you input. 

1:27pm • #30
JAN
16
2008
296,613 Points Localism Sponsor Outside Blog
There has to be more accountability in the mortgage profession. I thank you for the post. It is a pleasure to read you posts. I wish I had a mortgage professional such as you in Florida, Jeff!
2:15pm • #31

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