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Cherishing the Time with Family on Thanksgiving
 
I just got off the phone with my daughter. She and her grandmother don’t get along in the kitchen. (no one gets along with my mom in the kitchen lol) Obviously, both want to take part in the Thanksgiving Dinner preparations and both don’t agree on how they can accomplish this feat....TOGETHER.
Rewind many years back.
We learn from our parents.I learned a long time ago that I cannot fight my mother on anything,  She is ‘old school’ and she is NOT going to learn any new way of doing anything. She is oblivious to change because change doesn’t happen unless she is the one wanting to change something. (and boy does she want to change everyone around her lol)
I made a 180 degree life turn around(I found that a 360 degree turn around kept me doing the same things over and over lol) over 16 years ago. I STOPPED worrying about what my mother thought of me. I changed for ME…not her. The codependent (dis- ease with self) era in my family was a strong one and I decided I needed to dig deep and find out who I was and could be.  
I began to teach my ... more

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