anger: ANGER REAL ESTATE DRIVEN LIFE
- 11/16/16 04:47 AM
I made an offer on a large piece of property that belonged to a single owner under a LLC. An in-house person was assigned to be my point of contact who happened also to be a Real Estate Broker. I always like dealing with agents and I will explain why in my next paragraph. The offer was generous with upfront, non-refundable pre-release funds known as hard money or "going hard" in the business WHY AGENTS MAKE SENSE I also made an offer on another piece of property to a private owner, a layman who was simple but communicative and who appreciated the size of the … (8 comments)
anger: POLITICS RELIGION CAN SHARPEN YOU
- 07/20/16 12:05 AM
These two can really bring out what is going on in someone and lets face it, there is a lot going on in everyone. Some of it people share and some of it stays hidden for whatever reasons. I don't do well in the shadows, with hidden agendas or just plain leaving others to try to figure me out. I prefer the risk to grow by knowing and being known and mining for the Universal truths. On the way there, peoples personal truths, beliefs or stances can and should come out. LET THEM Exploring ones inner/outer world is an adventure like no other. Who among … (8 comments)
anger: DO PEOPLE STILL DO THIS?
- 07/09/15 06:52 AM
Giving someone the finger. You know what I am talking about. You, for whatever reason (usually bad), take one hand, curl up certain fingers leaving one to stand taller than the others and then direct IT toward another person. It is usually done with all of ones passion (all wrong) and means what it says. HIGH SCHOOL It was a big thing when I was in high school and people use to draw upon it like Billy the Kid drew his six guns. Since everyone did it, it lost some of its nerve & suave to go to work on you. However, that depends … (27 comments)
anger: REAL ESTATE IS IT EMOTIONAL?
- 07/18/14 11:43 AM
From what I see, smell, hear, taste and touch, my verdict is in. YES. It is an emotional experience starting with the seller of a property. You can be sure that they take anything said in regards to their property and it selling for top dollar with some emotion driving it. Not far behind that, is the buyer who equals it if not more. GET AN AGENT...anti-emotion insurance First off, you need an agent. You must have someone that is attached to you the client or principal but not to the product or the process of selling or buying. An agent has a … (8 comments)
anger: ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING
- 06/30/14 08:56 AM
It can free you or bind you. I have seen both version of attitudes and have lived them also. You quickly learn what works and what doesn't and if you don't, you will sooner or later. Attitude is an amazing indicator of the players in any given situation. It remains a "tell" of the highest sort Look at the list below and it is just the tip of the iceberg on the subject of what is going on inside a person at any given time. It becomes a subject of interest when you interact and these things come up with another. In business or personal, they … (47 comments)
anger: DOING BUSINESS WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE
- 05/26/14 07:07 AM
I like everyone until I have a reason not too. In business, you never know what to expect. Everyone starts out the same way until the "one" issue comes up. That is where you find out who's who and how they think. What are their skills and what skills do they lack? WHY ARE YOU SO UPSET? The most often unexpected reaction to a circumstance that could use a different resolution is anger which has its roots in judgment of others. Some people just look for something to judge so they can release their anger accordingly. In business? Not a good arena if you want good results STAY … (90 comments)
anger: I BECAME A MALE RAPE COUNSELOR part four
- 09/24/13 01:31 AM
The subject is daunting but real and I recommend you visit the four part post if you haven't already. Trauma of any kind is no respecter of persons and people hurt all the same way...within and without and any help one can offer or render to another in need can go a long way toward recovery. Help is what we are all here for and none of us got to where we are without the help of another HEALING CAN TAKE TIME The calls would come in, the stories would break your heart, the victims would all handle the episodes differently: for example. … (13 comments)
anger: I BECAME A MALE RAPE COUNSELOR part three
- 09/24/13 01:29 AM
I shared in parts one and two what it is like to volunteer and lend a hand in something that certainly requires help and no amount of training can prepare you for it. It is recommended that your read parts one and two. This part will focus on some things that I ran into during my volunteer work as a rape counselor and being on call 24/7 days a week for 2 years EMERGENCY ROOM I remember getting a call and they usually came in to me between 1- 3 am to report to the large public community hospital that was well known. … (2 comments)
anger: I BECAME A MALE RAPE COUNSELOR part two
- 09/24/13 01:27 AM
In part one, I shared how I got started and why and then a little about the training and then what you run into. Very hard to put into words what takes place because this subject is something that is best explained while being lived. It is beyond words and feelings and when it is not, it is emotionally overwhelming and gut wrenching REPRESSION OF THE RAPE IS WORSE I would get calls usually in the wee hours of the morning between 1- 3 a.m. Nighttime's is when this type of activity surfaces more and that is just from what is reported. You … (0 comments)
anger: I BECAME A MALE RAPE COUNSELOR part one
- 09/24/13 01:26 AM
I thought the word "MALE" rape counselor appropriate because it was unheard of when I did this back in the eighties. I was in Real Estate and thriving at the time. Money was coming in from three solid businesses and I could not spend it fast enough. Had the cars, the home, income property and the goodies and I seriously thought...How can I give back as a way of saying thank you so much for this success HM-MM...WHAT'S THIS? Well I heard they needed rape counselors badly for one of the cities I worked in and I inquired. The rape counseling services were … (6 comments)
anger: COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS AND OPEN YOUR HEART
- 07/21/13 11:59 PM
Lately I have been walking around town a lot. I like the view one gets when walking around. Park your car and try it. You get to see things up close and personal. There is so much going on too. I decided to have lunch and walk to the SUSHI bar where I am greeted and waited on hand and foot because I help pay their rent since I eat there often. On the way, I stopped at the family court building...woe to anyone having business there FAMILY COURT Family Court involves divorces and child custody suits and they get vicious … (2 comments)
anger: CHILDHOOD ABUSE IS NO RESPECTER OF CHILDREN
- 06/10/13 11:45 PM
This continues to be a very tough subject for many adults who grew up in dysfunctional family environments. Being a kid is a full time job and while a simple life in its theory, sometimes negative circumstances can make it into something else. I am talking about being abused when growing up and how it effects the course of that child as they approach adult hood WARNING: THIS IS A MATURE POST THAT CAN CAUSE SOME UNPLEASANTNESS FOR SOME First, my own story. My father was a disciplinarian type person who thought hitting and punishing someone was the cure-all for everything. Taking … (20 comments)
anger: DONT TALK ABOUT LENN HARLEY OR BARBARA TODARO THAT WAY
- 08/17/12 12:39 AM
That's right...this post is about people who talk about people in other people's presence. If you talk about others in a negative or implied "wrong" reasons way, then others have a right to speak-up too. Now, having said that, this post has nothing to do with Barbara Todaro or Lenn Harley. I borrowed them for a quality title and thank you ladies. This has to do with what you say about other people around other people ANGER ENERGY First thing all you "talkers" should know is that whatever you are saying about someone else usually says a lot about you one way or the other. … (18 comments)
anger: THE TONE OF YOUR VOICE SPEAKS
- 08/13/12 05:16 AM
It is not just the words, or the body language that makes the statement or conveys the message. NO. Often the tone of your voice tells quite a bit. It can either be for the good or the bad, but it speaks. Kids key in to their parents tones and learn to distinguish just how to respond when the parent speaks up. I believe we all carry that awareness into our adult lives YELLING and SCREAMING? Yelling at someone doesn't cut-it unless it is to save someones life. It is an above and beyond emergency measure and to be used only in … (7 comments)
anger: KEEPING YOUR TRAP SHUT
- 04/18/12 12:26 AM
How many people have actually said they weren't going to say anything. You don't want to lose it, but lose it you will if you do not have a discipline when engaged in conversation whether it be personal or business. If and when your foot enters your mouth (foot & mouth disease), you then will get lessons in back pedaling 101 and how to skin and eat a crow JOIN THE RESERVES....PERSONAL RESERVES THAT IS I am speaking about an emotional and mental discipline. That means turning up the listening dial and turning off the response one. Easier said than done. … (2 comments)
anger: ANGER IS NOT GOOD ENERGY
- 10/16/11 06:59 AM
I watch often how people who cannot put into words what they are feeling take the short cut and quick way out and use their emotions to express themselves. Unfortunately when the weapon of choice to express your self is emotions, emotions are what the return fire will often consist of too. Consequently much is said, but nothing is understood... JUDGMENT LEADS TO ANGER Anger is a very interesting and revealing dynamic. Judgment is said to fuel it as well as keep it going. When anger is at work, it clouds the real issues. You just added a problem to your … (4 comments)
I made an offer on a large piece of property that belonged to a single owner under a LLC. An in-house person was assigned to be my point of contact who happened also to be a Real Estate Broker. I always like dealing with agents and I will explain why in my next paragraph. The offer was generous with upfront, non-refundable pre-release funds known as hard money or "going hard" in the business
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