care free: YOUR EXCUSES ARE YOUR OWN
- 12/14/19 07:05 AM
Here is a subject that causes discomfort starting with the one doing it first and then with anyone else it can rope in. Question: Have you ever heard someone pitch enthusiastically their excuse as if it was the gospel truth? For a person to do this they first had to convince themselves. Then, to make it stick convince you too
OWNING UP
Admitting what went wrong or how it could have gone better doesn't occur to the one who is in denial. NO. A story is manufactured and edited using the mind, emotions and five senses which add drama, scenarios and conjectures. In other words a … (23 comments)
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care free: WHY NOT KEEP IT SIMPLE ?
- 09/28/19 06:11 AM
Kids have no trouble with this concept of telling or saying it just like it is. Even if they fail etiquette, mainstream or higher level learning standards they still using simplicity make themselves and their wants known and we like children for it. We smile, laugh, encourage and instruct but lets not forget the innocence behind and driving it all
WHAT PREVENTS SIMPLICITY?
1. The ego for one. It has to make itself a part of everything and since it cannot add to what is so apparently working it tends to complicate as/for its contribution.
2. Self-expression which is the persons uniqueness regarding the … (15 comments)
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care free: SIMPLE SPEAK SIMPLE LIFE (ponder this)
- 08/14/19 06:23 AM
Communication and all related dynamics are not limited to speech but to intent, motive, common sense and obvious necessity. The five senses are automatically attuned to each other and report to the bearer input and relevance to all that is observed or called to our attention. The senses speak (without speaking) by pointing toward a source and leaving it up to the person receiving to assess, interact, solve or dismiss. This is not complex yet it is for how can all this be?
RECEIVERS & OBSERVERS
Our default nature/existence is one of receiving and observing. That is how and why we were created. Mankind … (5 comments)
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care free: PROBLEMS summon SOLUTIONS
- 06/09/19 07:21 AM
Change your thinking here. We have an existing mindset regarding problems i.e. that they interfere with our lives and take-away from the enjoyment of our activity, gain or planning. Yes they do all that and more but why be surprised, put-off or stopped from having and pursuing your want, need or end result? Problems in and of themselves have no such power on their own but only the power that we give them
WHOSE IN CHARGE?
That's what we will find out when a problem arises i.e. who is in charge, what is needed to course correct or fix and how to keep whatever took … (15 comments)
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care free: IN THE END....(ponder now)
- 10/17/17 06:39 AM
Who pays too much attention to years or decades from now? We are and should be busy living our lives in the "now" taking come what may or seeking out our desires and being content while discovering the newness of every single moment presented. That's right! No moment has ever been lived-in before nor will it be again making it one of the most valuable dynamics or experiences available
TIME-ON
What we don't realize is that the "life" clock is ticking away as we go about our little here & there. Time is so subtle a force. We don't realize it is our traveling partner unless … (4 comments)
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care free: BE DEBT FREE (mindset)
- 08/13/17 06:56 AM
Everyone everywhere is an opportunist meaning that people are always looking for prosperity, breaks, good situations to invest or grow in and they should. America's economic base is built on making money, acquiring goods and services toward having a more quality of life as each one believes. That's the beauty of it. There are no restraints, formulas or barriers that can really stop us
LESS EXPENSES
Many people tend to forget, overlook or just are not aware that another way to make money or obtain a want or a pleasure is to cut back on their own spending or reduce expenses. Needs and wants govern … (14 comments)
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care free: TAKING THE FUN OUT OF IT?
- 07/16/17 06:40 AM
The subject of "fun" stands on its own. It doesn't need anyone by its very nature but we need "fun" to be sure. Its free, available and pays off consistently. It is fluent in all languages, can operate under all conditions and has a reputation that cannot be tarnished. Fun remains one of the most rewarding dynamics on this planet
FOR FUN'S SAKE
Imagine it goes missing. In the short term, we don't give it a second thought as we live without it. In the long term, we start to show signs and symptoms of it being missed or gone missing. Why? The answer could be … (6 comments)
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care free: POWER TO CHOOSE (life ponder theme)
- 10/31/16 11:50 PM
We make hundreds of choices per day without keeping count which end up defining our lives as we have instructed. Stop and consider this. The day, event, situation or task goes as we have commanded either by acts of omission or commission. For a short time we call "life", we can command outcomes. The good results as well as the not so good. Each person creates their own personal reality
LESS IS MORE
Because trial and error get to have its way with us relentlessly, we all have been given something to make the journey have more of a reward to it instead of remaining a learning … (8 comments)
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care free: WE ALL DO THE SAME THING (life ponder)
- 09/17/16 02:27 AM
Some do more of it and some do less. Leave wealth, power and fame out of this and you have a playing field where everyone is the same as far as wanting and having goes. Who doesn't like a good meal, some pleasant company, a travel or vacation, clothes, a home, car or friend? These are all yours for the asking, doing & getting whenever you want as much as you want.
MORE & MORE
Quantity distorts all this. Within us, when we are enjoying ourselves, there is something that says we want to do it again or want more of it and the dynamics shift in … (6 comments)
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care free: REACTION & RESPONSE DYNAMICS
- 09/12/16 12:14 AM
We are surrounded daily with various stimulus either directed, intended or at random that input or feedback to us with or without our awareness and sometimes even permission too. We have the ability to adapt and accept circumstances that allow us to survive from a bad smell to a life threatening episode. Way before we have assessed the situation, the body has responded and takes us along with it
PURE ADRENALINE
This self-created chemical is in everyone placed there to preserve the body & its contents and allow it to rise to almost all occasions to either defend or escape potential harm depending on the … (2 comments)
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care free: BE DO HAVE (life recipe)
- 08/30/16 12:47 AM
There is no formula for living life. However, there are lots of recipes for it and I am going to introduce one to you that helps the traveler (you) to have a quality about you based on intimacy and honesty starting with the self. You see we are only satisfied by what we find satisfying and we would be wise to respect the dynamics of reward and closure as we travel from moment to moment
STATE OF BEING
What we think is not the same as who you are or think you are. You are who you are called BE for this lesson. Whatever your … (4 comments)
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care free: CREDIBILITY
- 05/16/16 12:12 AM
I respect math. It sums most everything up quite nicely and in universal terms that anyone can relate to. Let's talk about your personal math, not the numbers but instead, what you add up to while going about your day. Are you credible? In order to answer this accurately, lets define credibility: A process of being trusted or believed in, with a quality of being convincing or believable
COME TO ORDER
This is no joke! Everywhere we go, wherever we are, we are assessing the situation via an awareness. There is random & specific input where we can focus on a particular event or situation. Is … (2 comments)
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care free: LEARNING TO LIVE REQUIRES NO PRACTICE
- 11/17/14 11:22 PM
The power of the now is that it is untainted, fresh, new and never before seen or experienced bringing with it an adventure loaded with mystery and each precious moment is given out freely no two alike to billions of people all over the world in different situations and scenarios. The invitation? You woke up!
WHERE TO BEGIN?
Now, what to do. I am not speaking about business or social engagements or events that fill the day with a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. NO. You will always have that. What I am referring to is the ability to awaken and let the day unfold for and … (4 comments)
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care free: DO THIS UNTIL YOUR DADDY TAKES THE T-BIRD AWAY
- 06/30/14 04:39 AM
FUN FUN FUN by the Beach Boys makes the point of having FUN until you cannot have it anymore. I fondly remember the answer that the 104 year old woman gave when she was asked the following: If you had it to do all over again, what would you do different...Without hesitating or pausing, this woman said
YOUR KIDDING!
I would have eaten more ice cream! It was and is as simple as that. Everything that needs to get done will get done. We will go about our daily business, keeping our commitments, honoring our word and living out our responsibilities. Yes … (5 comments)
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care free: BUILDING A BETTER MOUSETRAP THAT BE YOU part 2
- 02/04/14 11:14 PM
In part 1, we explore the concept of needing to empty out our inner closet spaces of stored good or bad memory/episodes and realize that this very moment you are in and its essence is the reward and anything keeping you from the marrow of the moment has got to go. We want to learn to apply and focus all our energy into the present
FALSE MOMENTS GIVE FALSE RESULTS AND READINGS
You know what is or is not pulling or pushing on you. Start there. Secrets thoughts, over reacting, forming judgments and opinions based on prior episodes only reinforce the trauma within that has already … (2 comments)
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care free: BUILDING A BETTER MOUSETRAP THAT BE YOU part 1
- 01/28/14 05:21 AM
The world is full of people. There are many professions at work showcasing the people who practice them. People and careers are nothing new. However, building a better YOU is always going to improve your position and your personal and professional prospects too
NOT RUNNING ON 100%
I have seen and run into a lot of people who carry around unresolved and unfinished personal business. Old wounds, memories and traumas that have had their way and their day. But that baggage or past events are interfering with the present right down to the moment they are in
CLEAN OUT THE INNER CLOSET
It is wise to spend some quality time exploring those … (0 comments)
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care free: INNOCENSE AT WORK AND A PLEASURE TO BEHOLD TOO
- 09/19/11 07:48 AM
Here it is (BELOW PICTURE) just for your enjoyment a gentle reminder of the simplicity of life, the care free attitude of it all and how living it can be very rewarding. Watching others live it can remind us to check in with ourselves and see how we are doing. How ARE you doing...?
Are we too not watched over, provided for, and under the best surveillance known?
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Here is a subject that causes discomfort starting with the one doing it first and then with anyone else it can rope in. Question: Have you ever heard someone pitch enthusiastically their excuse as if it was the gospel truth? For a person to do this they first had to convince themselves. Then, to make it stick convince you too
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