centered: I TRUST YOU UNTIL ...
- 01/06/19 07:28 AM
I have experimented with this subject over the decades and I have found what works consistently over time and in every-ones favor too. It is simply this. I TRUST YOU whoever you are and BELIEVE YOU whatever the circumstance is until I have a reason not to. You see, YOU control these dynamics. I only observe you when you do. I don't doubt what I see or hear either. That's why it works! CARE-FREE Being able to enter a situation, event, relationship or scenario without bias or prejudice and relying on the experience in the moment is one of the purest ways to experience life as intended. It allows one to … (6 comments)
centered: ARE YOU IN YOUR RIGHT MIND?
- 08/31/16 06:33 AM
This is an interesting statement that if someone tells you this pay heed. If not, the next comment you may hear is that you may be out of your mind. Stop this before it gets worse and instead of taking the bait to argue or ignore, choose to come and command your own senses. This settles everything and that's what counts. Imagine if everyone did this? Self-correction would take place freeing us all up for other things OVER-DOING Over-reacting to something will cause you to be temporarily be out of your right mind. But it also is a valuable lesson to teach you that your reactions, … (7 comments)
centered: THIS MODE IN REAL ESTATE COULD COST YOU
- 10/05/14 11:56 PM
The business mode can be like the autobahn in Europe where cars regularly travel at top speeds even in excess of what is allowed and then some. That's how big business can be. Fast, furious and high risk and while the gains are certainly there, so are the crash and burns too. The mode I want to write about that has to be put under control is the following one THE EMOTIONAL MODE Operating in this mode is costly, fraught with error and doesn't let you down gently when exposing itself to you. It gets worse as you get more emotional. THINK: You land … (0 comments)
centered: RELAX WILL YOU?
- 08/07/14 03:47 AM
I wouldn't have told you to relax unless of course you needed to. The response I often get is a raised voice, a stare that would freeze water and then the ultimate...YOU RELAX! All that comes from people who may want to consider relaxing a little bit. Then, there are those that take it in, let go, become calmer and better from a simple reminder. LEMON-LEMONADE Sometimes and without realizing it, we get absorbed into what we are doing but not through focus or thought but instead emotions. Emotions tend to distort reality at times, introduce additional problems and cause many a tangent to kick in. Its … (6 comments)
I have experimented with this subject over the decades and I have found what works consistently over time and in every-ones favor too. It is simply this. I TRUST YOU whoever you are and BELIEVE YOU whatever the circumstance is until I have a reason not to. You see, YOU control these dynamics. I only observe you when you do. I don't doubt what I see or hear either. That's why it works!
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