counseling: LEAD FROM EXAMPLE and LEARN FROM EXAMPLE
- 09/11/17 07:43 AM
The best training in the world as well as teaching and learning is still done by demonstration. For the one wanting to get experience and guidance, watching, listening, and then doing remains a solid starting point for anyone. Sure, it is awkward, full of trial and error and failure but not for long. Why? Because doing teaches using the person as the lesson
EVEN ANIMALS LEARN THIS WAY
Repetition serves as a catalyst to transmit what is required without fail. Animals pick up on this quickly and when we add reward or correction dynamics, it solidifies and locks in the positive behavior we are seeking … (9 comments)
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counseling: DUE DILIGENCE DO DILIGENCE
- 08/17/16 09:26 AM
This is a very important subject matter to those who are are personally or professionally risking or investing or just plain out purchasing a service or product, large or small and when activated, serves the one who activated it quite well. You see if done correctly, it eliminates error, failings, surprises and our favorite bane; EXCUSE making. The results are that we become informed as to what we are doing and why
DUE DILIGENCE DO DILIGENCE
In the pursuit of a result, whether it be personal or professional in nature, everyone wants what they bargained for, paid for, hoped for and discussed. No one likes to get … (44 comments)
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counseling: WHEN WILL MEN COME BACK AGAIN book
- 10/09/15 01:32 AM
Its a great question to ask and have answered and this new book from the PEARLS FOR THE SOUL series of books does just that. The journey from being a child, to teenage years and then into the world of a young male has been compromised and interfered with. Males make it... but men don't
THIS IS A MAN-CENTERED BOOK
Have some unfinished business left over from your childhood? How about needing to further along your current journey. What about past harm, mistakes and the so many things one just doesn't know or expect? The rite of passage when correctly implemented works. Today, with that missing, it is … (5 comments)
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counseling: SEEKING INTIMACY CUPID WANTS A WORD WITH YOU!
- 08/16/15 03:52 AM
High divorce rates, sex in place of love, and abuses that injure one deeply even entering into a persons psyche, are making the rounds now more than ever. WHY SO? Yes to wanting the pleasure and the presence of another while going through life and all its advantages. However, how much abuse can you take or better yet, how long can you last? There is another way. Start here first!
PEARLS FOR GIRLS DATING WAITING & SEX...IN SEEKING CUPID...DON'T BE STUPID book
Consider this an instruction manual, guide, common sense food, personal tip hot-line, heads-up, smarter move and all around personal feedback and input source … (2 comments)
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counseling: GOT SAVVY ?
- 07/24/15 11:55 PM
This is what it is all about. If you can find this, interact with it, share it or sell it, it guarantees a result every time. They don't teach it in College, at home or at work either. It can be learned however and many go about it the wrong way. In order for it to be savvy, it must have its own way not yours. It teaches, you while you listen up. It is greater than you!
SAVVY DEFINED
Shrewd and knowledgeable in the realities of life. A keen knowing with understanding. Practical knowledge that comes from common sense that has been tried, tested and found true in … (7 comments)
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counseling: HERE ME OUT THEN PROCEED
- 05/13/15 06:12 AM
This was the most recent communication with my client. I no longer have to tell my emotional client to listen-up, ask questions or have to fight to have his way. He NOW hears me out knowing that we wont argue but instead, consider and then choose the best ways to go. How? Here me out and then proceed!
CALM IS REQUIRED
Be clear on this ladies & gentleman, Real Estate is an emotional business driven by feelings and decisions that have to (we hope) lead to a good result. What makes it all reach the level of stress at times that it does? Well, it … (8 comments)
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counseling: SUICIDE YOU JUST NEVER KNOW (mature posting)
- 02/25/15 07:16 AM
Someone came to me today and said remember so and so and I said yes of course. Then, I said, I remember the time that person came over and we all spent time together. Well, she died! Now death is not shocking to me because we all die and that is another posting. What was shocking? She committed suicide..
BAGGAGE CAN KILL
I remember when I first met this person, I saw how heavy laden they were and I was moved by the burden of them carrying that type of weight around. We were not designed to do that. Whatever takes place should come and … (12 comments)
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counseling: IN SEEKING CUPID DON'T BE STUPID PEARLS SERIES book
- 11/18/14 03:42 AM
Married or divorced, starting out or starting over now selling from the PEARLS SERIES of books the second best seller in the series PEARLS FOR GIRLS DATING WAITING & SEX...IN SEEKING CUPID...DON'T BE STUPID is joining the holiday season as the best personal gift to give or receive four years in a row
IT'S ABOUT YOU...THE FEMININE MYSTIQUE...AND THE HEART
What is locked up for safekeeping must come out if one is to have fulfillment along with answers and deep satisfaction in regards to the sensitive subject of LOVE specifically trust, vulnerability and realness. Accept no substitutes when it comes to your own needs and … (3 comments)
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counseling: Ferguson Is My Problem Too
- 08/24/14 07:45 AM
My pal Rob wanted to make some points about a few things and this topic allowed the freedom to do it. In regards to how society and authority get along, it doesn't take deadly force to keep order but force is necessary to establish and enforce boundaries. It should be respected
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
On those that are enraged at the ending...look to the beginning where parents, friends, neighbors and others all had a say so in the character development of this young man. Passing on the responsibility of correcting, prompting, guiding and nurturing a young adult to police forces is not wise. They are … (5 comments)
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counseling: HOW THE REAL ESTATE AGENT CAME TO BE
- 02/19/14 10:41 PM
If you look at history and start-up for countries, states or cities, the foundation of their being came from corner stone activities that were added on to and developed into what you see today. Take the Wild West of the Americas for instance. A blacksmith was in demand everywhere he went. He fixed wagons, shoo-ed horses and made things to order
WHERES THE NEAREST BLACKSMITH?
He had to but set up a place and the word gets out and people come to him. Of course where there are people gathering causes some fellow to put in a General store so they can shop while they … (4 comments)
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counseling: PEARLS FOR GIRLS BOOK PERFECT VALENTINES GIFT FOR SELF OR LOVED ONE
- 02/06/14 09:57 AM
A book for women in all circumstances covering all subjects. Starting out and you need questions answered? Starting over again? How about married and wanting a more satisfying connection? Divorcing or thinking about it? Pause so you can learn without the burn and join the many who travel safely as they learn to release their hearts desires using the...
PEARLS SERIES
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You would look good in PEARLS...PEARLS FOR GIRLS that is...Its your book
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counseling: I BECAME A MALE RAPE COUNSELOR part four
- 09/24/13 01:31 AM
The subject is daunting but real and I recommend you visit the four part post if you haven't already. Trauma of any kind is no respecter of persons and people hurt all the same way...within and without and any help one can offer or render to another in need can go a long way toward recovery. Help is what we are all here for and none of us got to where we are without the help of another
HEALING CAN TAKE TIME
The calls would come in, the stories would break your heart, the victims would all handle the episodes differently: for example. … (13 comments)
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counseling: I BECAME A MALE RAPE COUNSELOR part three
- 09/24/13 01:29 AM
I shared in parts one and two what it is like to volunteer and lend a hand in something that certainly requires help and no amount of training can prepare you for it. It is recommended that your read parts one and two. This part will focus on some things that I ran into during my volunteer work as a rape counselor and being on call 24/7 days a week for 2 years
EMERGENCY ROOM
I remember getting a call and they usually came in to me between 1- 3 am to report to the large public community hospital that was well known. … (2 comments)
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counseling: I BECAME A MALE RAPE COUNSELOR part two
- 09/24/13 01:27 AM
In part one, I shared how I got started and why and then a little about the training and then what you run into. Very hard to put into words what takes place because this subject is something that is best explained while being lived. It is beyond words and feelings and when it is not, it is emotionally overwhelming and gut wrenching
REPRESSION OF THE RAPE IS WORSE
I would get calls usually in the wee hours of the morning between 1- 3 a.m. Nighttime's is when this type of activity surfaces more and that is just from what is reported. You … (0 comments)
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counseling: I BECAME A MALE RAPE COUNSELOR part one
- 09/24/13 01:26 AM
I thought the word "MALE" rape counselor appropriate because it was unheard of when I did this back in the eighties. I was in Real Estate and thriving at the time. Money was coming in from three solid businesses and I could not spend it fast enough. Had the cars, the home, income property and the goodies and I seriously thought...How can I give back as a way of saying thank you so much for this success
HM-MM...WHAT'S THIS?
Well I heard they needed rape counselors badly for one of the cities I worked in and I inquired. The rape counseling services were … (6 comments)
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counseling: POWER OF WORD OF MOUTH
- 07/15/13 12:48 AM
We as agents are always trying to get the message out about our services and expertise when it comes to our profession...Real Estate. What we do not stop to consider enough is that any contact we have with anyone is our selling point. But not to pitch but to BE yourself and become a person of interest
ATTRACTION
When you are courteous, thoughtful, considerate, well mannered and available, people take notice. More often than I can count......... people will ask me what do I do for a living. That is precisely my entry point into introducing my profession. Common acceptable professional … (8 comments)
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counseling: IF YOU SMELLED AND HAD AN ATTITUDE WOULD YOU WANT TO KNOW?
- 05/02/13 12:38 AM
As we go through life, it is very important to remain open and receptive. That is one of the ways we grow and learn. Using feedback and input allows one to make course and behavioral adjustments that refine our journey that directly affect our results. In this story, the harm done..... is caused by the one doing it.
I managed a large restaurant with about 80 people. One day, I got a call from one of the owners asking me to do them a favor. Please understand that the owners left you to make final decisions for your unit and never … (4 comments)
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counseling: "PEARLS SERIES" PEARLS FOR GIRLS OF BOOKS MAKING MERRY
- 12/20/12 10:10 PM
The PEARLS SERIES of books are at it again. PEARLS FOR THE SOUL which is a selection collection of over 800 positive and uplifting sayings is selling out for the 3rd straight year in a row. It happens to be the perfect gift for any occasion and it just keeps giving after being given making it more valuable than a HALLMARK card. Second best seller for 2nd year in a row is the PEARLS FOR GIRLS DATING WAITING & SEX...IN SEEKING CUPID...DON'T BE STUPID book
PEARLS FOR THE SOUL
PEARLS FOR GIRLS DATING WAITING & SEX...IN SEEKING CUPID...DON'T BE … (4 comments)
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counseling: PEARLS SERIES BOOKS MAKE GOOD AND PERFECT GIFTS
- 12/16/12 12:37 AM
Don't take my word for this. Just visit with the PEARLS SERIES and see the value for your self. Thousands of people have and continue to realize that the best gifts are the ones that keep giving. I have nothing against chocolate, stuffed animals, flowers or HALLMARK cards...But they come and they go. The PEARLS SERIES linger and their favorite spot to hang out? YOUR HEART and THE HEART OF YOUR LOVED ONES
PEOPLE LOOK GOOD IN PEARLS...PEARLS SERIES that is
Below: One of our customers getting their free gift with the purchase of PEARLS FOR GIRLS DATING WAITING & SEX...IN SEEKING CUPID...DON'T … (2 comments)
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counseling: I NEVER SAID THAT YES YOU DID NO I DID NOT
- 11/19/12 12:15 AM
Many years ago when I was a newlywed and had not a clue about anything, when my young bride and I reached an impasse, well it was fashionable to seek out marriage counseling and we did. It is a sign that you want to protect and insure your original investment which is the marriage. Going into it, I felt sure my wife would get the help SHE NEEDED...LOL
NOW YOU WILL SEE THE PROBLEM
So we are sitting in front of a licensed professional and we picked an issue and it turns out that my wife was the one to go … (6 comments)
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The best training in the world as well as teaching and learning is still done by demonstration. For the one wanting to get experience and guidance, watching, listening, and then doing remains a solid starting point for anyone. Sure, it is awkward, full of trial and error and failure but not for long. Why? Because doing teaches using the person as the lesson
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