denial: SIMPLE SPEAK SIMPLE LIFE (ponder this) - 08/14/19 06:23 AM
Communication and all related dynamics are not limited to speech but to intent, motive, common sense and obvious necessity. The five senses are automatically attuned to each other and report to the bearer input and relevance to all that is observed or called to our attention. The senses speak (without speaking) by pointing toward a source and leaving it up to the person receiving to assess, interact, solve or dismiss. This is not complex yet it is for how can all this be?
RECEIVERS & OBSERVERS
Our default nature/existence is one of receiving and observing. That is how and why we were created. Mankind … (5 comments)

denial: OUTCOME LETS THE RESULT OUT (life wandering) - 07/23/19 07:26 AM
To set the mind-set of entering into this post I remind everyone of this subtle often over-looked and rarely-discussed fact of life i.e. none of us have ever been here before. Pause here. Compare this to a place or moment you have been in more than once. You become familiar, confident and life-educated in multiple, countless subjects and experiences all without the asking. Now let us proceed to see come what may
OUTCOME
This is the end result of some dynamic that was put forward. It is a result of an action taken fueled by a belief with under-lying want or need driving for the most … (10 comments)

denial: the TROUBLE with TROUBLE - 07/13/19 12:55 PM
It plagues mankind. It intrudes. We give it life or death depending how we handle it.  For those that are quick to blame, deny or excuse and refuse to take responsibility and accountability for their part played or the part not played, I say you/we are the problem with this point in mind. There is assigned inner work to be done. Disgree? Trouble is delighted when you do...
WHAT WE ARE DOING WRONG
Wrong is subjective. It may not be  wrong to the wrong-doer by anothers eyes but what counts is our assessment first and then to consider what other dynamics are at work if … (8 comments)

denial: THE LESS FAMILY - 04/07/18 07:12 AM
Here is some living dynamics that you may not want to visit with you for any length of time as they bring less than quality and contentment with their stay brief or other wise. Yet we can take this dysfunction and use it for a contrast and help us to make choices to better ourselves if we so choose. Let's zero in on this...
AIM-LESS
Imagine not having a purpose whatsoever. No significant reference to the past, absent from the present and heading toward a future without expectation. Lack of direction is your default? This is how they punish (& is the punishment) for … (11 comments)

denial: I NEVER SAID THAT (personal interactions) - 10/09/17 08:57 AM
This happens more than we care to admit i.e. that another hears what they want to hear or what was sent and that's their experience. Often the one sending takes for granted that just because it was said their work is done. Of course if something doesn't go well, their fallback position is the famous cliche of...
I TOLD YOU SO
This is the over-used position of making yourself right when something goes wrong & having the smug attitude of innocence that you had nothing to do with it but everyone else did. It is also related to one of the oldest banes of mankind that … (10 comments)

denial: EXCUSES THE BANE OF MANKIND - 12/19/15 10:32 PM
How did this get started? Who was it that put it into play? It works so well too but it is barrenly shy on results. That is the price you pay for having just any old answer instead of doing the work required when summoned. You see all our answers are there. They are waiting for you! An excuse literally EXCUSES them from service.
TRUE & GOOD
When one enters into the world of excusing, it is almost without bottom or end. It can accommodate anyone and any situation but not for the good. An excuse is a thief, a robber of life and … (9 comments)

denial: ALWAYS "START WITH THE PART" YOU PLAY - 12/09/14 10:57 PM
You want a better life? How about a better outcome? Then learn to take responsibility for the part you play or don't play in your life. Look around you and see that the many learning opportunities to do so present themselves everywhere you go every day in varied subjects. Low awareness, denial, temptations, and indifference all interfere with this learning curve
THE PROBLEM
Blame, excessive explanations and excuses pervade and invade our life's looking for a LIFE of their own wanting to feed and grow stronger while we grow wronger if we listen and go-along with the ego-driven prideful input. You see... but you don't see... is what plagues … (8 comments)

denial: BILL COSBY CALL BILL CLINTON: HE NEVER HAD SEX WITH THAT WOMAN EITHER - 11/24/14 04:04 AM
Will someone tell BILL COSBY to call BILL CLINTON please. WHY? He never had sex with that woman either. Look, there is a pattern forming with sexual accusations of rape, drugging, oral sex, and false promises. First, deny everything which puts the burden and the accuser on the defensive. That should stop it
ITS NOT TRUE UNLESS YOU CAN PROVE IT?
They (the victims) have to convince others that it happened. Second, dig up what you can on anyone that says they were raped or harmed by someone else. If they have any life blemishes, then the accusation has no legs and should be dismissed. … (18 comments)

denial: SLAY THE PROBLEM NOT THE PERSON - 11/17/13 08:25 AM
Slay the dragon (problem) not the person....go after the problem. Stay focused and discipline yourself to finish what you have started. The results are most satisfying. Look for your problems and then put them in their place. We are the superior being here and we were not put here to be defeated. Use the fierce winds of resistance to carry you to your success not your failure   HIDE AND BUY TIME?...no no no   Head in the sand tactics only go so far. You got to come up sometime and when you do, there is the problem only worse because time allows … (6 comments)

denial: ARE YOU CALLED TO DO THAT? - 10/19/13 05:12 AM
Many people are in professions where they don't belong. We all see it and know it and not only are they miserable, but they generate misery for others. You see this in public agencies, systems and large operations where the people on point just hate being there. How? They don't want to engage, help, or spend time interacting with anyone more than they should which is decided by them.
I HATE YOU BACK?
I mean if you are interacting with the public and you hate them, where is this going? You will be the first to suffer because the endless line of people needing your services … (14 comments)

denial: YOU CANT SEE THIS BUT IT IS AT WORK YOUR BLINDSIDE - 06/17/13 05:56 AM
There are things that we do consciously and purposely throughout the day both in personal and business venues that trigger cause and effect. Hopefully, we are doing the right things and if you monitor yourself, you will know. But what if you did not know and then proceeded thinking all was well.........let's look at this for a moment
Results don't lie.........they tell the story....whatever that story is. They are proof that the belief's that are at work and being used by you....are working. It is as simple as that.   RESULTS DON'T LIE.......
Lack of Results don't lie either........but here lies the … (7 comments)

denial: THANK YOU FOR BEING RUDE UNAVAILABLE AND UNPROFESSIONAL - 06/17/13 02:41 AM
Yes your freedom of professional and personal questionable expression towards people in general, your neighbors, friends, clients, principals, peers and associates that borders on being unproductive, immature and far from inviting is paying off for me. I am reaping um-teem rewards from it and I wanted to thank you. I remain grateful for the contrast
YOU LIGHT UP MY LIFE...?
Your dysfunctional conduct makes my functional conduct stand out. The consumer, client and principal are so happy to find someone who will treat them well as they spend their money and just when they think things are getting better, they run … (11 comments)

denial: EXCESSIVE DRINKING DRUGS SEDATES THE SELF - 06/04/13 07:35 AM
There are people who have discovered a short cut, a way to command life or reduce it so that they can live it on their terms, without responsibility or accountability. It is a simple procedure of learning how to manipulate yourself to either feel good OR not feel anything. How? Enter alcohol & drugs.....the quick fix
NOTE: Before we begin, a few things.
a. When I mention alcohol anywhere, include drugs in the example as well
b.If you are enjoying life on its terms, a little wine with your dinner, maybe a beer at the old BBQ, then this post is … (4 comments)

denial: PROBLEM SOLVING SLAY THE DRAGON AND NOT THE PERSON - 11/28/12 02:26 AM
Slay the dragon not the other person....go after the problem. Stay focused and discipline yourself to finish what you have started. The results are most satisfying. Look for your problems and then put them in their place. We are the superior being here and we were not put here to be defeated. Use the fierce winds of resistance to carry you to your success not your failure   HIDE AND BUY TIME?...no no no   Head in the sand tactics only go so far. You got to come up sometime and when you do, there is the problem only worse because time allows … (5 comments)

denial: DENIAL KILLS and ROBS........POST RATED R FOR GRAPHIC DEPICTIONS - 08/11/10 06:32 AM
During the last world war, more people were killed, tortured and maimed then one can really document. All we can do is estimate between 50-60 million. Let that sink into your brain. In the memory of those that died, I will make an example of what happens when mankind is afflicted with.......DENIAL......the deadly robber of life.
THE POST CONTAINS EXAMPLES OF PEOPLE DYING AND SUFFERING.....TO RELUCTANTLY MAKE THE POINT
PLEASE STOP READING NOW IF YOU ARE EASILY OFFENDED
My point begins.......around the time when things were becoming Anti-Jew in Germany. You were despised and talked about wherever you went, but the … (2 comments)

denial: YOUR BLIND SIDE.......EVERYONE HAS ONE and....... IT'S GOT TO GO - 08/09/10 02:19 AM
There are things that we do consciously and purposely throughout the day both in personal and business venues that trigger cause and effect. Hopefully, we are doing the right things and if you monitor yourself, you will know. But what if you did not know and then proceeded thinking all was well.........let's look at this for a moment
Results don't lie.........they tell the story....whatever that story is. They are proof that the belief's that are at work and being used by you....are working. It is as simple as that.   RESULTS DON'T LIE.......
Lack of Results don't lie either........but here lies the … (7 comments)

 
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