hurt: WHY IGNORE? (life lesson) - 01/11/20 07:08 AM
I discovered this dynamic called ignoring when I was a child but I didn't understand what it was or why it was or just what was it? It exposes itself as a feeling that pulls or pushes that is not pleasant when it is at work and the natural response as a child is to make a noise, do an action or with draw plus everything in between to counter this ugly invisible force at work in the moment
NOT INTENTIONAL?
Still exploring this as a child, ignoring someone can be on purpose or out of ignorance. If on purpose, the pain is … (28 comments)

hurt: PATIENCE PONDER THIS - 05/05/19 06:47 AM
What most people don't know is that another word for patience is love. The word "patience" substitutes nicely wherever the word "love" is used. To get an even better understanding of this reverse the thinking analogy. Impatience is the lack of love in that moment. When your cup of patience has run dry, love has all but poured out
WE DON'T CHOOSE IMPATIENCE
Stop and think about this. We don't say to ourselves I am not going to love or be impatient today. That is a foreign thought. What happens is that whatever patience we have or think we have is called upon and we find … (7 comments)

hurt: CHILDHOOD ABUSE (the way back) - 12/31/18 06:49 AM
This continues to be a very tough subject for many adults who grew up in dysfunctional family environments. Being a kid is a pleasant full time job and while a simple life in its theory, sometimes negative circumstances can make it into something else. I am talking about being abused when growing up and how it effects the course of that child as they approach adult hood
WARNING: THIS IS A MATURE POST THAT CAN CAUSE SOME UNPLEASANTNESS FOR SOME
First, my own story. My father was a disciplinarian type person who thought hitting and punishing someone was the cure-all for everything. Taking that … (2 comments)

hurt: HURT - 05/05/16 12:55 AM
Here is a sword that when cutting both ways, cuts deep. When we are the product of deliberate hurt or unintentional hurt, it hurts and that hurt is not limited to the physical realms. That's what makes it hurt and deep too. We know that deliberately inflicting a hurt on someone is one powerful blow because you had it done to you. You know it works because it hurt you
IT HURTS
Pain is pain and we all feel it differently but share the episode and symptoms in common just not to the same degrees. When something takes place and that action inflicts a pain, it … (6 comments)

hurt: THOSE THAT PASSED ON I REMEMBERED YOU - 03/10/15 08:53 AM
I like to go on 10- 20 mile bicycle rides often allowing me to reflect and ponder. My friends, there are so many things to consider and observe and they have my full attention too. I traveled well off the beaten path and saw & heard beautiful sights and sounds. I took my midway break at a CEMETERY, had my apple, and then pondered
On the right side of my face, there are tears..find out why below

Here, (below) were probably had some parents who laid their loved one not even 2 years old to rest. I felt their presence … (13 comments)

hurt: WHEN YOU PAYBACK - 05/03/14 12:39 AM
Payback is part of the human experience but it shouldn't be but it is never the less. One thinks it more than they care to acknowledge and there is something about seeing a wrong righted or a comeuppance meet up with a worthy subject
NO ONE LIKES THIS
Tit for tat? Where are we going with this? The person who has been injured or slighted didn't like it at all thus it brought out a feeling of "getting even". But there is the paradox. If you didn't like it, what makes you think it is worthy to keep practicing? Heaping it on someone else when you know … (0 comments)

hurt: SECOND ANNUAL EVERYTHING HERE IS THE OPPOSITE POST - 12/20/13 10:52 PM
Don't click on the post. It is a waste of your time. You will not be amused, entertained or loved while doing it. It has no meaning and your life is meaningless anyway. Behold the power we give words by thinking, stating and implying. The sender can do as they wish, but the receiver can too
COMMAND THE OUTCOME
I am an advocate of "if you have something to say, SAY IT" and "if you have something to do" DO IT! What the receiver does with it after that is their prerogative and privilege. With that in mind, practice your selectivity skills and … (14 comments)

hurt: THE TIME I GOT CAUGHT STEALING...WHAT? part 3 poverty of spirit - 12/16/12 10:51 PM
In Part 1... I was falsely accused and in part 2... I played Sherlock Holmes. Here part 3... If you have ever been accused of something you haven't done, then you will relate intimately to this episode of false accusation, harassment, injustice and other unprofessional and uncalled for dynamics. Yet what happened here happens quite often for all the players involved. Here, we found the perpetrator. What to do follows
HERE IS WHAT SHE SAID
She needed the money. Her husband, and two children were in debt and she wanted to buy them things and she saw the opportunity and took it. … (15 comments)

hurt: THE TIME I GOT CAUGHT STEALING...WHAT? part 2 facts can be deceiving - 12/16/12 10:50 PM
 In part 1, I share what happened out of nowhere when I reported for work on a Monday morning. I walked in on a audit based on theft of funds and the supposed culprit, the  perpatrator of choice of it all was someone I knew very intimately. IT WAS ME and I was shocked beyond words.. But they were convinced
I KNOW WHO DIDN'T DO IT FOR SURE
Hours later, they discover funds systematically stolen over several months. Now I know I didn't do anything. I KNOW I didn't take money. THAT IS THE ONLY EDGE I NEEDED to track down who … (4 comments)

hurt: GOT CAUGHT STEALING...WHAT? part 1 being falsely accused - 12/16/12 10:49 PM
About thirty five years ago, I am working at a place and come to work as usual. It is a small office of about 5-7 people and today there are two more people, lots of close door sessions, books being reviewed and audited and everyone looking at me and then down at their desks. Immediately I say whats going on and no one answers..
GETTING TO WORK...but
I put my things down, go through my getting comfortable stage, check messages etc and then start to inquire. Who is in the room with the closed door? They tell me it is a client of ours. … (4 comments)

hurt: STATE OF THE ART HANDY DANDY TOOL - 08/31/12 06:22 AM
Pictured below is a gift someone gave me. It is a common item and happens to be state of the art and at the top of its industry position in quality and precision. It was given to me as a gift because of the work I sometimes perform. This little beauty when placed in my heands gets the job done...when you you need it to get done


 



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hurt: BEING PHYSICALLY EMOTIONALLY MENTALLY ABUSED - 04/11/12 05:05 AM
This continues to be a very tough subject for many adults who grew up in dysfunctional family environments. Being a kid is a full time job and while a simple life in its theory, sometimes negative circumstances can make it into something else. I am talking about being abused when growing up and how it effects the course of that child as they approach adult hood
WARNING: THIS IS A MATURE POST THAT CAN CAUSE SOME UNPLEASANTNESS FOR SOME
First, my own story. My father was a disciplinarian type person who thought hitting and punishing someone was the cure-all for everything. Taking … (8 comments)

 
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