intimacy: HOPE-PEACE-LOVE MAKING ROUNDS (get some XMAS)
- 12/23/25 07:54 AM
This time of year, there is something in the air presenting itself & we are to seize this moment, now more than ever. Christmas makes it easier to smile, laugh, let go, see differently, notice the other person, examine want & need, & most importantly, a chance for another way to come, & have its way with you if you let it. Do not miss this opportunity to know, grow, change & start afresh only because you can! Love is in the air. Breathe deeply & again & again to your fill!
WORTHY NOTE: Christmas can cure "poverty of spirit" where riches … (3 comments)
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intimacy: CURE FOR HARD HEART XMAS
- 12/21/25 06:25 AM
Who doesn't want a heart-check? Not the medical type but the love-driven one. Are we still sensitive to what is going around us or have we developed a type of tunnel vision driven by indifference, immunity & callousness? How about people? Are they a blur in your daily journey? Perhaps your brain has taking over & you only want to function with no distractions?
are you hearty?
YOUR SILENCE is for when you are gone
Do you do things out of obligation? Rote? Script? Programming? Consider the boisterous bellowing referred to by the poet Walt Whitman; "I too, am not a bit tamed, I too … (2 comments)
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intimacy: POWER OF Q & A SYSTEM (A.I. wants in)
- 12/06/25 10:42 AM
Every time you or another person asks a question, an answer is born. By that token, there is no math that can total or even guess the birthing rate of all the Q & A's past, present or future! Also consider that many questions are repetitive but still count as the system never goes out of fashion, cannot be replaced or even die out & most important of all, mankind would perish & eventually be extinct if this system did not exist. Pause & savor this reality. It is deep, satisfying & mysterious
WORTHY NOTE: Plants, animals & insects ask no questions … (5 comments)
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intimacy: LOVE BEYOND WORDS (inner) SPIRIT & TRUTH
- 12/03/25 10:34 AM
We have the ability to appreciate ourselves (self-love) & to do so with others too. It appears that loving one another as well as loving anything is a mandatory part of who we are & how we journey. Can we exist without love? Sure, if we were animals. Plants, animals & insects, nature, weather & planet earth, solar systems, galaxies & more do not love but instead follow specific instructions. You are not programmed to do this but instead, created with special purpose & meaning
LOVE WITH STRINGS (conditional)
It would not work very well as love is liberty with legs to go … (1 comments)
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intimacy: ARGUING THE CHOICE? TRY OWNING IT
- 11/04/25 01:49 PM
We focus incessantly on what we should have done, could have done & would have done summoning a hindsight thinking process, disrespecting the moment to visit with the past as a form of escape, regret, blame, manipulation & even summoning dark forces (without knowing) via anger & resentment all because we won't accept the reality of what happened. We should grow, not repeat what doesn't work & learn from it, without obsessing about the choice made. Make your choice & move on!
choose, don't look back & NO pouting allowed!
DO YOUR HOMEWORK
Whether personal or professional, choices are part of the living experience … (1 comments)
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intimacy: THE POWER of HUMILITY (awesome)
- 10/30/25 12:14 PM
In the animal kingdom, when two aggressive (s) meet, one thing they worked out & do well plus adhere to is when one of them shows their vulnerable spot, lays done or submits, & then the other immediately does a quick gloat, roar & threat, agrees to the surrender event & then moves on. When I first came across this behavior, I thought the one surrendering was committing suicide. Why not run away? Fight it out? Bluff a bit? NO! It is actually deeper than that
THE TWO MEET & CONFER
Within a timespan of seconds or less, the posture of the two … (3 comments)
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intimacy: START YOUR DAY THIS WAY (from inside out)
- 10/26/25 12:32 PM
The well-named rut has seized you & the grip is so subtle, you don't notice you are bound. Helping this along is a comfort zone that made a home in you, with your permission & has captured your awareness & growth dynamics basically locking them up for no further use. The why & the how of life is reduced to hypnotic trances, suggestions & complacency. Is this the Twilight Zone? The invasion of the Body Snatchers? The Matrix? All of the above unless you act!
everything is yours to do with as you wish
BEGIN HERE
Just appreciate the obvious that you are UP … (3 comments)
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intimacy: WHO IS INSIDE THAT SHELL CALLED BODY?
- 10/14/25 12:51 PM
God, mankind, your family, neighbors, friends & employers plus random people at large, at some point, want to know who you are. With God, it remains interesting as His system involves allowing mankind to evolve, to become more & to who much is given, much is required as He monitors you progress (or lack) thereof. With all the rest, it remains to be seen (literally) & can be interesting, informative, pleasurable, surprising or a nightmare. No one knows until it is revealed. Then, life really begins to make sense & kick in
who is in there?
DON'T ACT SURPRISED
Since the beginning of mankind … (2 comments)
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intimacy: GOD HELP ME (been answered) HAVE AT IT!
- 10/02/25 06:59 AM
How many times have you said, God help me or God help them or us & even heard others say it? The cry is real! Those words mean something & they should. They represent a work performed for the benefit of mankind so that all can be delivered from what is trying to rob, kill & destroy them. We see it in the form of hopelessness, evil, dysfunction, woe, not normal, & general wicked behavior
THE ANNOINTED ONE
He Has helped us. The plan of salvation for one's soul through repentance which is the asking & granting of a change of heart & … (2 comments)
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intimacy: WORKING THE "MIX" (you are in the mix now)
- 09/22/25 06:39 AM
Coming & going all day long, whether personal or professional can become hypnotic if one allows themselves to enter into a state of automatic where we act out memory or hypnotic self-suggestion. You have done this while driving, watching TV/movies, attending public functions, pleasures & the like. You suddenly come to the moment realizing you were not there but somewhere else using the mind to travel. The fact is: We cannot drift or leave our senses too long at our own peril & memory lapse plus discomfort with no closure visit us
WORTHY NOTE: MATRIX is a close cousin of the "MIX" … (2 comments)
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intimacy: INTIMACY (must have) TAKES QUALITY TIME
- 09/14/25 08:34 AM
Your inner parts where your emotions, feelings, privacy, secrecy as well protected areas exist & are different for everyone. A person's inner most thoughts & feelings is their own private domain almost sacred to them & not to be trampled on by anyone thus they are kept inside, well-hidden until it is safe to come out. Why be vulnerable, exposed & susceptible to random harm making the rounds? Thus, we have barriers, precautions & protective measures in place
PRISON OF OUR OWN MAKING
Caveat here: often, when we get burned (inner personal harm & pain), we erect a barrier instinctively making sure we … (3 comments)
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intimacy: CARROT of HAVING IT ALL (what is all)?
- 09/07/25 10:03 AM
If you haven't learned the fine art, the deep satisfaction & the ability to make everyone happy when it comes to give & take, then you are not living a full & meaningful, fruitful life. I am speaking about compromise where everyone gets something as opposed to only the one (selfishness). Mutual satisfaction is a must. This is also referred to as Win-Win-Win depending on who all is involved
HAVING WITHOUT EFFORT
I have worked with individuals who have the gold & thus have the iron one-way rule (my-way or high-way) that goes with it. It is interesting at first to see that … (2 comments)
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intimacy: YOUR EXCUSES ARE YOUR OWN part 1
- 08/28/25 02:13 PM
How did excuse, denials, blame & avoidance get started? Who was it that put it into play? It works so well too but it is barrenly shy on results. It is a form of a dark time-out. Use these take-a-ways & they own you. That is the price you pay for having just any old stall answer instead of doing the work required when summoned. You see all our answers are there. They are waiting for you! An excuse literally EXCUSES them from service. A pitiful you is left holding the bag
what's going on?
TRUE & GOOD
When one enters into the world … (5 comments)
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intimacy: WONDER DEFINED (spiritual posting)
- 08/26/25 01:39 PM
I am going to define WONDER so that you can better appreciate this entrance window into something deep and everlasting and not just stop at the word itself. Pause and consider this definition: Surprise with admiration, stirred with beauty, the unexpected, the unfamiliar driven by desire to explore and gravitate toward. Sounds like a recipe for abundant life. Combine, stir, let set and eat as desired?
WONDERMENT (meant)
When one is engaged, consumed or surrounded by wonder, they are said to be in a state of awe. When you take fear (of the unknown) and mix with reverence plus respect, driven by humility, you get awe. Awe is … (3 comments)
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intimacy: PARENTS: LET GO. IT'S YOUR CHILD'S TURN NOW
- 08/20/25 11:52 AM
I have never been here before, had little role-modeling experience, no training, briefing or prep class regarding marriage, raising children all that goes with it. Stop & consider that marriage is presented as a lifetime commitment so jumping into that is a no-no. That is why courting exists so you can work out a lot of the nonsense before you tie the knot. Children are a 20-year obligation with lots of lingering feelings, pushes & pulls, heart string tugs & a dose of pain & suffering too
life, love, intimacy & purpose (best u can)
BEING A PARENT
A subject that cannot be taught … (4 comments)
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intimacy: WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT? (spiritual post)
- 08/10/25 06:14 AM
The mind is quick to answer the post title, but we are not interested in thinking compliance but instead fulfillment for our heart's desires. We know to come and go, finish what we start & to nourish ourselves. The body, your thoughts & the necessaries make themselves known. What I am asking is: what do YOU want. That unique one of a kind called YOU really want. Ask, & it will be given
WORTHY NOTE: Not settle for, go along with, put up with, substitute or imitate NO
HAVING YOUR WAY
When one has their way, it is no different than another having their way when … (3 comments)
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intimacy: ETERNAL TRUTH (self-evident) SPIRITUAL POST
- 07/29/25 02:24 PM
We travel in this life with two companions so to speak one of which is vital & beckons to us to answer for our sake as well as the sake of the one who sent us. This is the Eternal Truth, the one spoken by Christ in specific detail which is the primary reason when He visited with us. This Truth comes from our origin/creation & guides us both now & in the times to come if you accept this. The other truth we all travel with is personal truth, belonging to each one of us as we live out our … (4 comments)
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intimacy: ONCE UPON A TIME... (what's your story)?
- 07/20/25 01:40 PM
From the dawn & origin of mankind, no two human beings are alike & no two journeys alike & all, without exception are unique just like we know we are one of a kind. Are there other people's stories (besides your own) that capture, motivate, inspire & encourage us, you bet. Our public & personal history is full of them although perhaps some stories are of interest to a specific person & not people at large. Then again, if you like people watching, what is inside those people continues to fascinate & surprise too
IT'S YOUR TURN NOW
Everyone gets a turn is … (1 comments)
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intimacy: REMEMBER ME? I'M YOUR CONSCIENCE
- 05/25/25 03:06 PM
What is it with you of late? I have had to prompt up more than usual, & I am wondering if you are paying attention to all this attention, I AM GIVING YOU. You summoned me, I didn't summon you. If you want to argue this point, you make my case. If you accept this visit from me to you, perhaps you can learn why we are talking & take it down a notch or two. Eventually, I would like to stop having these constant get-togethers unless you keep needing me too. Get control of yourself. Where is your common sense?
WORTHY … (3 comments)
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intimacy: PASSION POWER (strong & unyielding)
- 05/12/25 11:10 AM
It is well to find yourself with passion. What does that mean? The benefits? The purpose & outcome of it remain to be seen & understood. Mankind has access to it, but why? Let's approach this dynamic that every one of us possesses & assess it for use, purpose & reward. Do not be "passion poor" this day
passion on the move
PASSION DEFINED: Strong feeling or mental urging towards something that we want but don't know why. It does not operate on the surface but instead has deep roots driving us to pursue & develop this visit despite any obstacles otherwise
PASSION-LESS DEFINED: … (3 comments)
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This time of year, there is something in the air presenting itself & we are to seize this moment, now more than ever. Christmas makes it easier to smile, laugh, let go, see differently, notice the other person, examine want & need, & most importantly, a chance for another way to come, & have its way with you if you let it. Do not miss this opportunity to know, grow, change & start afresh only because you can! Love is in the air. Breathe deeply & again & again to your fill!
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