intimacy 101: K.I.S.S. ME PLEASE (carefree) LIFE
- 01/22/26 11:55 AM
When you get a handle on your affairs both personal & professional, you are freed up to make it all work for you & your common sense, & the results of this wielding with confidence is being able to free the mind that binds & replaces it with making & emphasizing worthy points. Getting your point across is like scoring a soccer goal. Using the plus or minus systems helps us flow while on the go, without boggling down
+ & -
It's similar to rounding off of a number or making a point using as few words as possible. We are not … (0 comments)
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intimacy 101: THE LADDER of LIFE (here & beyond) SPIRITUAL
- 01/18/26 12:15 PM
From as early as the cradle of life grasped you, life was there too. For the start-up period, infant to teens, we need & received help even before the asking as consider, how would we know what to ask for? The teen years remain extra-ordinary for their awkwardness, discovery, innocence & realizing that the world, & everything in it, is here to serve us although in a selfish way, mainly because you know no better until you do know better
THE NEXT PHASE
From teens to young adult, beside fun, experimenting & pushing limits, we tend to glimpse what is to come & … (2 comments)
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intimacy 101: INVESTING IN ANOTHER? PRICELESS (life & love)
- 01/05/26 11:19 AM
When you take an interest in another, whether it is fleeting, short-term or long-term, we are talking about a change event for all parties involved. Teachers do it by the group, parents by the children, police to the public & friends with affection & endurance. When we focus in the moment to events happening all around us, we are investing in that moment, or another, ourselves & even the situation too which is a form of respecting the moment for its value & visit
I am happy for you. Now, you be happy
THE MENTOR
Someone, for some unexplained reason, starts to take an … (0 comments)
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intimacy 101: TRUTH of the MATTER (YOU) SPIRITUAL
- 01/05/26 11:15 AM
You can run but never hide from truth. I am speaking of Eternal Truth as well as personal truth, yours, mine & others. The truth exists to help us become a better person, to protect & guide us & of course allowing us to participate in life to our satisfactions. Your personal truth is destined to be food for the worms, as when you die, it dies alongside of you. The Eternal Truth lives on into forever & ever-lasting
waiting for you but for how long?
WHERE ARE YOU GONNA GO?
There is no place on earth that can offer you refuge from Eternal … (2 comments)
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intimacy 101: ANSWERS ARE THERE WHERE R U?
- 12/12/25 10:47 AM
We are born with wanting answers on everything, anywhere, whatever comes up or that which catches our interest & we cannot exist without this dynamic. When we were created, we were given this in the form of a command to evolve, strive for perfection & pursue any & all points on the compass. Why? Because we can & the core reason is it is pleasing to God to see us BE all we can be (His plan)
THINKING BOGGS IT DOWN
Here is where we misuse, abuse & sabotage the system in place. We burden it with too much unnecessary thinking, wanting & … (0 comments)
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intimacy 101: MERRY XMAS MEANS WHAT?
- 12/03/25 10:33 AM
We created a special time of year of which to do things differently. Perhaps how we feel or go about doing something or maybe examining our motives & even looking at our excessiveness & wantingness because we can & not because we need to. When is the last time you paused, assessed & examined yourself & your ways? You see our journey to have can become obsessive unless something snaps us back, slows us down, & points out that we may have overlooked many things. The different holidays do this, but Xmas makes it very special, personal, private as well as … (3 comments)
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intimacy 101: WHAT REALLY MATTERS TO YOU (life reflect)
- 11/20/25 10:48 AM
Perhaps we share or don't, but we all have multiple subjects, items, wants, needs & all the rest that we embrace for personal satisfactions. Your "life" list can be tangible, intangible, emotional, physical, intellectual, spiritual, psychological plus be real or fantasy, include others or exclude them. While we explore this subject, notice how some of this is kept secret perhaps because it is sacred or if uttered, we jinx it, or we risk disapproval & judgments, or it may not be attainable. Consider shining bright light on this subject for yourself & let others know you better called intimacy.
WORTHY NOTE: Being … (5 comments)
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intimacy 101: LIARS IMITATE NON-LIARS (what to do?) TRUST
- 11/12/25 10:59 AM
It can get confusing, even tricky when navigating in strange territories or familiar ones when coming across a person that calls for you to say: I trust you, I don't trust you, & I don't know as introduced with selective side issues like "why should I trust you" & the grand finale of them all that visits: Your own story about how you trusted someone, got burned, followed with never again. Your war story supporting your pain? Do you remain damaged goods or get wiser for it?
You will see for yourself that it is no myth
THE TRUST PROCESS DESCRIBED ABOVE
It works … (4 comments)
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intimacy 101: BECOMING RICH BUT IN WHAT? (life ponder)
- 11/09/25 01:23 PM
You can change your name to Richard (rich) for short is one way to become rich LOL. If you are speaking of wealth, that's no big deal unless you make it one. You see in America, opportunity never keeps quiet, nor does it hide, & keeps coming whether you pick up on it or not. It "knocks" around (pun) on its own agenda available at all times to anyone interested. NOTE: Opportunity can be for anything like becoming a better person, finding true love, humility or forgiveness
do you love me?
WHAT IS BEING RICH?
if you are speaking wealth, then know there are … (3 comments)
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intimacy 101: NAVIGATE & RISE ABOVE (your life journey)
- 10/30/25 12:14 PM
We come into this world not knowing what to expect but we have others to attend to that until we become of age. Then, we must figure it all out, step by step, a little at a time, experimenting with what works, what doesn't work & learning as we go. Watching others, role models, mentors, book learning, educated, & getting lucky all help us out if we allow it. How about we add & respect, two very important things that will last a lifetime & let us enjoy wielding them while we do?
e-z-p-z nice & breezy it's the journey not the … (4 comments)
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intimacy 101: YOUR GOD GIVEN GIFTS (use & give back) INTIMACY
- 10/29/25 03:00 PM
We either forget, don't know, take for granted or dismiss what I am about to share. These gifts are extra-ordinary. Pause for cause here. If you wanted to purchase these gifts, they would be unaffordable. Also, they were given without the asking & are free of charge too. What then? Show respect by acknowledging them & then by using them. When we return them via usage their results automatically go to you, who you shared with, AND the original Sender/Giver is pleased
turn on this inner light & it will guide you all the days of your life
WORTHY NOTE: … (2 comments)
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intimacy 101: LIFE MAKES SENSE, DO YOU?
- 10/26/25 01:14 PM
This is a reminder to get hold of yourself, find your center & keep it even in the midst of testing & refinement as it applies to all endeavors, efforts, planning & progress. Everything has a beginning, & it is wise to seek out that source as it will provide direction as to what is to come & what to do about it. Insight via your sense is no myth but instead the solution to everything. Without "insight" we will be subject to random forces & eventually failure!
WORTHY NOTE: Keep your head (objectivity) about you as you will continue to need … (4 comments)
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intimacy 101: TURN REGRET INTO GROWTH (glass 1/2 full)
- 10/26/25 01:00 PM
What is regret? Interesting as the definitions fit the different scenarios as there is no general regret but instead specific. A missed opportunity? That would mean a failure to act promptly or at all. A poor choice? That remains normal for the life journey. Disappointment? For whom? You or the other person? What is more important or valuable now or yesterday?
WORTHY NOTE: Regret drives you to places that are not worthy to visit except to learn from. Sitting with a drink, reminiscing, gives regret life. I say: U had your turn
I think I will stop thinking
WHY REGRET?
It has been said that … (4 comments)
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intimacy 101: FEED the SOUL (R U forgetting?) SPIRITUAL
- 10/25/25 07:03 AM
You wake-up every morning, visit with the mirror or another who is present, you see yourself & they see you, & then all go their own ways after some prep work & the day begins as usual. During the day, the same & as we approach the end of our day, where the pillow beckons, rest awaits & we answer that call, STOP! right there. Inside of you is a spirit that the body cannot live without. It is the real you not the mirror or what others see. It was with you wherever you went, never leaving you or forsaking … (1 comments)
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intimacy 101: WHAT DOES IT PROFIT YOU? (life journey)
- 10/16/25 11:20 AM
I am speaking of what doesn't prosper us in the long or deep turn of things versus the vital, meaningful & spiritual part of the self that has ever-lasting qualities & rewards. We are able to sample everything here to our liking & at the same time cautioning ourselves to not promote excess or substitute for genuine inner life. The moderation caveat is no myth. It exists for a reason. With anything we like, a habit is invited to form & this is what must not happen but instead leave & not stay. Yes, there are good habits, but let's practice … (1 comments)
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intimacy 101: LIFE WITHOUT MEANING = SLOW DEATH
- 10/14/25 11:27 AM
All that you behold, survey, know or don't, seen & unseen, faith or proof has meaning, purpose & is deliberate. There is nothing roaming around the Universe that is not supposed to be here. Pause for cause here. Humble yourself. Ponder & feast on the awe of life & when you have done so, be reminded, YOU TOO are very much (significant part of all this going on & what a magnificent part it is
doing his part are you doing yours?
LIFE HAS NO OFF SWITCH
Ah, some of you readers are thinking or saying: well death certainly qualifies as an off switch. … (1 comments)
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intimacy 101: LIFE ASKS CONTINOUSLY (you must respond)!
- 10/10/25 11:09 AM
The title of the post is YOU speaking up when you have something to say or something to do in line with your beliefs. It is your experience regarding what is unfolding in the moment you are in. While the words are easy enough to pronounce, the act behind those words may require courage something you may or may not have or have enough of. Notice how many times you did the following:
DIDN'T SPEAK UP
You kept quiet but also went within yourself. A secret life gave you a type of refuge & no one knows this except you & perhaps a … (2 comments)
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intimacy 101: INVISIBLE & VISIBLE ANSWER UP (spiritual)
- 10/04/25 01:11 PM
The world you cannot see is just as real as the one you can see. In fact, without the invisible (unseen) world, which is a type of underlying base, the top layer, or the visible could not exist. This is similar to all lifeforms living with a casing, splatch, covering, liquidity or shell. The "spirit' within the life force is the sustenance, essentially the alive core part of anything living. When the spirit (core) departs, what is left is obvious no different than an empty milk carton minus the milk
IN GENERAL
We wake up every morning, until we don't, inside a shell … (3 comments)
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intimacy 101: THE BOOK OF (your name here) part 2
- 10/02/25 03:41 PM
The post premise is similar to how the bible is presented i.e. in book form, one after the other, consisting of different subjects, points & stories all with a beginning (Genesis literally), middle & ending of circumstances that had their way & day but remain relative to us in our current journey should we allow & include it as such. The book of (your name here) follows exactly the same premise. Remember: what we read about has come & gone just like your book is destined to do. So, what will your book be about? You of course. What else? All … (1 comments)
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intimacy 101: THE BOOK OF (your name here) part 1
- 10/02/25 11:19 AM
People come & people go. That is the current system. For tens of thousands of years, a person's history is just a record of the life they lived, a gift, while here. When this book of life is closed, we cannot add or take from it. However, while it is open, you may write your story, as you live it, & even slant or bias it in your favor & it will be written as you say, live, share from your entrance into this world right up to your exit. Consider this example
WORTHY NOTE: The bible shares in book form, one … (1 comments)
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When you get a handle on your affairs both personal & professional, you are freed up to make it all work for you & your common sense, & the results of this wielding with confidence is being able to free the mind that binds & replaces it with making & emphasizing worthy points. Getting your point across is like scoring a soccer goal. Using the plus or minus systems helps us flow while on the go, without boggling down
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