needing: OPTIMUM vs MAXIMUM (be & suit yourself)
- 04/26/25 11:12 AM
Here is a treat for you. I will define the two words in the title posting & their truth will set you free if you allow it. It gets even better if you practice & uphold this truth too. The definition will help you from trying too hard, looking for answers outside of yourself, doubting & to appreciate the inner treasure waiting for you without the asking. You will now have a new way to self-assess, measure or gauge yourself & it is personal plus beyond dispute
OPTIMUM: Your best or most favorable efficient state of being under any given circumstances. All … (1 comments)
|
needing: RIGHT UNDER YOUR NOSE (all things needed)
- 03/09/25 12:52 PM
The inception of any want or need starts in your mind & self & from there, legs are added for the fetch items while others remain close at hand. The point is that we can have & do just about anything & nothing can stop this system except a little-known dynamic called YOU. That's right. If you complicate anything, then it becomes harder to do or have. Remove the seriousness of it & it becomes E-Z-P-Z nice & breezy
LET'S NOT OVER or UNDER STATE
In everyday parlance: make a big deal out of it or make a federal case out of it … (0 comments)
|
needing: SUFFICIENT THIS DAY (no more no less)
- 02/18/25 12:35 PM
We go to bed only to arise & awaken to another day without giving it a second thought expecting a tomorrow & so we should, with faith, gratitude & appreciation. Like excited little children looking forward to something pleasant, adults do the same although we tend to get serious, ambitious, lackadaisical, & lose the fun/journey aspect. For if we don't pause in between, a problem/burden can run & run with us & finally consume us!
A BREAK in BETWEEN
We all know how much we can stand of anything. Think about this. Overeating, sexing, indulging, working, arguing, defeat, gain, loss, pain/sorrow plus pleasures … (0 comments)
|
needing: WORST "POOR" of ALL (poverty of spirit)
- 01/24/25 06:55 AM
We come into this world with nothing but bare skin reliant on others for everything. Years pass & then we are introduced to wanting, having, needing & the go-getting of things wanted, needed & more. As we acquire, there is a subtle dynamic that implants itself into us. It continues the gathering of whatever with little effort from us. What we may find, & pay caution to, is there is no OFF switch
WHY TURN IT OFF?
Drive, ambition, getting ahead, living in comfort & enjoying the pleasures of life all support the "ON" switch & they should. However, how you go about … (1 comments)
|
needing: WHAT'S BEHIND IT ALL? (look before you leap)
- 01/01/25 12:56 PM
The eye candy goes to work on everyone. Its cousin "first impression" assists & supports. It does what it is supposed to do which is capture your attention. In the insect world, nature & criminal kingdoms, this can be a ploy to do you harm in disguise! Once it has hooked into you, you either accept or reject by coming back to your center (objectivity) or outright refusal. However, the majority get snared
AS REPRESENTED
One of the tests of genuineness is that the product or service is as represented. NO small print, warnings or double-talk. When we get transparency on anything, our … (1 comments)
|
needing: WHY MOST DATING FAILS (U know not what U do)
- 12/29/24 10:38 AM
The root of successful dating, relationships, marriages & friendships as well as job conduct, social acceptances & family intimacy even strangers, FAIL is mainly from a lack of NOT KNOWING about the subject AND even more importantly a NOT KNOWING of themself. What happens? The repeating of what doesn't work but hoping it does, also known as insanity dynamics. Lonely, in pain & insane? NO to this AND stop it already!
GETTING TO KNOW YOU
How can YOU know what you want from others when you don't even know yourself? Why is this vital key to success not talked about. Imagine you doing … (2 comments)
|
needing: KING of the HILL GAME (you rule) NOW WHAT?
- 12/19/24 01:23 PM
Think: winning or having without meaning. Consider the King of the Hill game where a person, (usually a child?), gains an upper ground & others try to throw that person from it thus becoming the new "king" of the hill. This goes on & on until every calls it quits. The one who could not be dethroned or brought down wins/won but what?
AS A CHILD'S GAME
This is packed with fun, daring, adventure & challenge. It also promotes physical activity naturally & those who play can quit anytime & watch others continue or they may rest up & get back in the … (9 comments)
|
needing: IT'S NOT WHAT YOU TELL YOURSELF (inner journey)
- 11/05/24 12:02 PM
There is a Universal Law that states: It's not what you tell yourself, but what yourself tells you. Ponder this for its simplicity. We can tell ourselves anything we want & we do, but that doesn't make it true, real or valid. It's our self-hypnosis at work. Laws of the Universe are NOT negotiable & we would do well, in this short time, to learn & respect this
IN NEED & WANT
When someone wants or needs something so bad & invokes their emotions & vanity to help them get it is where the problem of telling yourself begins. You actually talk yourself … (2 comments)
|
needing: WHAT DO YOU WANT? (spiritual mystery)
- 10/12/24 11:17 AM
The mind is quick to answer the post title, but we are not interested in thinking compliance but instead fulfillment for our heart's desires. We know to come and go, finish what we start and to nourish ourselves. The body, your thoughts and the necessaries make themselves known. What I am asking is: what do YOU want. That unique one of a kind called YOU really want. Ask, & it will be given
HAVING YOUR WAY
When one has their way, it is no different than another having their way when it comes to food, shelter, clothing & the common necessities or privileges … (1 comments)
|
needing: ASKING & ANSWERING QUESTIONS (must do)
- 06/25/24 10:44 AM
Ever since you could reach for something, as an infant, in your crib, you became aware of this subject matter (wanting/needing to know) about what is presented to yourself. The very essence or core of a human being (inquisitive) is to ask & answer questions. Either to ourselves or others, the question (s) remains
NOTE: this is an ancient, necessary system during the earthly journey
ASKING & ANSWER
These two dynamics open the inner and outer doors to allow growth to come & go while helping us to mature. The animal, plant & insect kingdoms are spared this. Their existence is much simpler. For … (3 comments)
|
needing: PERSPECTIVE IS POWERFUL (life ponder)
- 08/20/19 05:42 PM
To simply put it I am speaking about point of view (perspective). Stop and consider this. Do you know there are subjects that have endless points of view and other topics that have limited points of view but all tell whats going on from vantage points. Yes, there are many vantage (good view of something) points to everything known or unknown. Life is so complex on this level that we were created specifically not to know so we could enjoy what we do know more
THE WHOLE POINT OF THE POST IN PICTURE FORM
VOYAGER ONE TAKES ABOVE PICTURE AS IT LEAVES OUR … (9 comments)
|
needing: REALITY OF LIFE
- 08/29/15 05:03 AM
It is easier to create an identity than to find the true one. The REAL YOU is where all the inner treasure is hidden while the temporary, false, convenient and cool identities only provide a minimum of return and satisfaction and all that goes toward your ego not your soul.
HAVE THIS?
In order to have character, you must go deep with the self and mine the gold. Each one has a mother lode waiting to be claimed. Most go unclaimed. Why? People over-indulge and get lost in the "wanting" of all they see. They tend to forget the bigger picture while doing so. Their lack … (7 comments)
|
needing: THIS ISN'T GOING AWAY ANYTIME SOON
- 06/02/14 07:28 AM
People want what they want when they want it...and that is not going away anytime soon. The instant or now era is fully upon us. Email put snail mail to shame and has it on the run. Texting dominates phone calls at this point. People are slowly becoming addicted to all this
THERE'S A WAIT?
That's going to make waiting in line or waiting for anything more painful. If you dine on instance gratification all day and all week long and then you encounter having to slow down and wait, its a torment of some kind. People will even resent it and it could … (8 comments)
|
needing: 104 YEAR OLD LADY SAID IT BEST
- 06/28/12 03:17 AM
I was watching TV years ago and they were showing different clips. Up comes this little video on a 104 year old woman having a birthday. She was smiling, but quiet. Every else around her was boisterous and having a good time. Various catch phrases were exchanged. One question came up that she ANSWERED that I never forgot
QUESTION
She was imply asked if she was given to live life over again, what would she do differently? She smiled with a smile that answered her first and then she shared what was behind that smile....
She said..." I would have eaten More … (6 comments)
|
|
|
|
Here is a treat for you. I will define the two words in the title posting & their truth will set you free if you allow it. It gets even better if you practice & uphold this truth too. The definition will help you from trying too hard, looking for answers outside of yourself, doubting & to appreciate the inner treasure waiting for you without the asking. You will now have a new way to self-assess, measure or gauge yourself & it is personal plus beyond dispute
;)
;)
;)
