pride: APOLOGY (spiritual theme) - 01/19/20 06:55 AM
Have you ever wondered why apologizing is so hard and painful to the one doing it? I am speaking of the real deal where YOU know what you did, why you did it and how it was not appropriate and some ancient and powerful dynamic driven by your conscience or (?) at work compels you to approach this subject with humility and give it the respect it deserves? If genuine it will sting but for a good cause
I WAS WRONG
Right & wrong remain subjective terms is where we will start. My right or wrong belongs to me & my beliefs as does … (12 comments)

pride: YOUR EXCUSES ARE YOUR OWN - 12/14/19 07:05 AM
Here is a subject that causes discomfort starting with the one doing it first and then with anyone else it can rope in. Question: Have you ever heard someone pitch enthusiastically their excuse as if it was the gospel truth? For a person to do this they first had to convince themselves. Then, to make it stick convince you too
OWNING UP
Admitting what went wrong or how it could have gone better doesn't occur to the one who is in denial. NO. A story is manufactured and edited using the mind, emotions and five senses which add drama, scenarios and conjectures. In other words a … (23 comments)

pride: BREAKDOWN MEANS CHANGE APPROACH - 08/08/19 01:16 PM
We have methods, procedures and established ways of doing most everything unless we go custom and we then all agree to that. In our established ways and means, when all goes well it ends well as expected. But what if there is a hiccup, a failure or worse an unexpected human nature twist that adds fuel to the fire or suffocates it? What then? When something doesn't go right WE must keep going until the reason we came together is realized
BEWARE OF THIS
Doing what doesn't work and has just been demonstrated not to and trying to revive or use the same method over again? … (3 comments)

pride: WHEN YOUR FACE DIVIDES INTO TWO FACES - 05/23/19 09:56 AM
Everyone believes themselves to be more than they are for the many reasons. Perhaps they are optimistic, compassionate or full of energy. Then there are those that consider themselves unworthy believing they are less than what they are perhaps from ignorance, low self-esteem or general error/defective thinking or beliefs
CONFLICT PRODUCES TWO FACES
Human beings are exposed to a very telling dynamic almost a demand of a sort i.e. that as they go through life and are confronted with circumstances, they have to make a choice. This constant "having" to choose is full of flaw and runs contrary to our natures as created. The result of … (8 comments)

pride: KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING (spiritual theme) - 03/12/19 07:26 AM
Pause and let the post title have its way with you. This subject is very important to every person who is visiting with it right now. It is not limited to any ONE subject but the many. Pick one and jump in to see how well you are doing and how to improve. When you have tweaked that one, proceed to the next. You will never run out of subject matter...
ALL FIRST TIME
No one has ever been here before. Starting from this truth, what do you really know? Don't confuse this with learning. There are some subjects that come along naturally … (4 comments)

pride: I STAND CORRECTED (spiritual theme) - 03/11/19 10:16 AM
What a coveted place to be i.e. to either see your error or have someone point it out to you so that you can become a better person and even be better at what you do. To have an error, oversight, mistake or blind side outed so that it may be diminished & that energy re-directed is iron sharpening iron and making the world a better place person by person...
WITHOUT CORRECTION?
Where would we be? What kind of world would exist? What kind of person would take shape? Ever-seen a spoiled brat? A child that is not guided, nurtured, coached and cared for … (3 comments)

pride: PEOPLE POWER EVERYTHING WHAT POWERS THEM? - 09/02/18 06:29 AM
This should be taught as part of the education system especially in today's culture of anything goes. Unless one plans on living alone somewhere for the rest of their lives, interacting with people in a responsible manner is mandatory for personal development and professional success. What should be emphasized is the common sense of it all i.e. the obvious and from there everyone will know for themselves what is required and what not to do
TRIAL & ERROR
This should be an ongoing course that helps to prepare us to fail as we practice and enter into the fields of experimenting. All life tends to … (9 comments)

pride: ADVISE and ADVICE TO REAL ESTATE AGENTS - 01/27/18 02:47 PM
The learning curves that come with life. Of them there are no end and this is how it should be. Life is not a still but an action to be grabbed and held onto and then to run with it in every direction. The speed and the topics of what to pursue are subjective so seek your own but learn from everyone so you can mitigate error, wrong directions, pits and losses while you carpe diem!
ADVISE
First, the above paragraph includes everyone & all subjects. As to advise it is just my suggestion because each one must make their own footprints to first … (14 comments)

pride: REALITY IS FREE REFUSING IS COSTLY - 04/13/17 07:18 AM
If everyone dealt correctly with their own reality, there would not be any denial or avoidance issues. Instead, there would be a steady evolving and improving over your own personal stock as a human being. We the person (s) control our own growth or lack of it. Imagine a world where truth is on point? None of us would be the same but instead much better for it. 
HERE'STHE CATCH
You have to want this for it to go to work. A simple yes choice triggers it and the awareness goes to work right away. No muss or fuss but there is this one thing. You have to go to work on … (8 comments)

pride: REAL ESTATE IS NOT FOR GUPPIES - 04/08/16 06:11 AM
When I first got licensed back in the 70's, the first thing I noticed out there in the sea of Real Estate was all the sharks swimming around in a frenzy feed. It intimidated me and caused me to choose carefully where I wanted to start my Real Estate career. Today, I have a second or third skin and dine on shark meat. But, I still don't like the fast paced and sometimes arrogant world of random Real Estate agents
FRENZY FEED
Just like there are many different sharks in the sea, so there are many type of Real Estate agents. All have eating teeth, but some accomplish their … (75 comments)

pride: YOU THE PROBLEM START HERE - 03/23/16 12:37 AM
What many do not know or even realize is that when taking on something new and different, the challenge of the unknown is to be respected but not feared. In time, and soon enough, what was new will become familiar and the discovery process once again will pay off to the ones who took the risk. But wait, there is something else there that throws a monkey wrench into the process
IT'S YOU
The learning curve presents itself to everyone about everything so that all have unlimited access to this discovery and growth process dynamic. For those subjects that are favorable, inviting and attract the … (6 comments)

pride: SO YOU WON THE POWERBALL (spiritual theme) - 01/13/16 11:35 PM
You will go through a fantasy ride in your mind you never thought possible or imaginable. There will be a rush of thoughts, all undisciplined, striving for your attention and wanting you to try them all first. Hundreds of them pulling & pushing to have their way. The price for this? Your inner parts have shut down completely. You cannot serve two masters is the rule
THE WIDE ROAD
You will want the obvious so lets list them. Remember, we are all the same so the list will not be unique. Be especially aware of yourself saying "I wouldn't do this or that, not me. I … (8 comments)

pride: THE ENEMY LOOKS LIKE ME? - 03/08/15 01:05 AM
Sooner or later and at some point, life will teach you a very important lesson that is like a hard pill to swallow when it is first introduced namely that you could be the problem. Until we understand that we are always on a learning curve, it is convenient to blame others when things don't go right. But why start there?
I WOULD SEE IT?
Many people start there because they have not discovered the most important part of a problem which is the part they played in it. It gets harder when we cant see it making us definitely believe that it just could not be … (16 comments)

pride: IT ALL COMES DOWN TO THIS - 11/11/14 10:37 PM
It's the person you are talking with or to... in the moment face to face, breath to breath and how you communicate will determine your outcome or result. That's why it is so important to do personal inner work to establish how to be effective and efficient in navigating through life. It is a people driven event and the more you learn about human nature, the better equipped you will be to journey well
STEP BY STEP
Every human being I meet without exception has tremendous value but in many, it is not being realized or goes untapped into. The blows of life tend to strike deep on … (6 comments)

pride: START WITH THE PART YOU PLAY - 09/19/14 12:56 AM
Accountability or the act of giving an accounting of ones self in regards to a situation has become a mere word instead of a watch word. When in the mix of life and adventure, if things don't go well or as planned, the temptation to blame and look outside of ourselves is not only strong but subtle too. Your pride doesn't need much blame opportunity. Just a small piece is food-fest for the ego. Someones wrong helps to make you right. You then see to it that they are wrong
CREATION CANNOT BE OUTDONE
Consider that you are a magnificent creation capable of incredible feats and events because you are … (2 comments)

pride: WHY BEING REASONABLE PAYS OFF - 09/06/14 06:33 AM
Simply because if there is a problem that you cannot see and should know about, being reasonable allows it to visit with you, to approach you and allow you to clean it up and re-direct it on a better course and outcome. Being UNREASONABLE is your argument to keep the whole thing, right or wrong and if it doesn't come in as planned...the first person to consult with would be the one in the mirror
PRIDE
Its hard for a person of pride to admit anything wrong or even entertain it. But that is the real problem. Being a person of pride. One of … (5 comments)

pride: TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS - 08/14/14 05:02 AM
I run into people often who still have not come into their awareness of the choice or part they play in their actions or inaction's. Instead, blame and long explanations mixed with excuses goes to work to describe a personal or professional experience that was not to their liking. I have no trouble seeing the other guys part or where we lack...I am more interested in what I could have done to make it different
VICTIMS
How were you tricked, duped, fooled and let down is very important to discovering the what happened and how YOU the person let it happen. Those they claim there is nothing … (13 comments)

pride: GIVE PEOPLE POWER OR MONEY AND STAND BACK - 08/10/14 11:57 PM
It never fails as a test to see who someone really is. Power and money for some reason gives permission for a person to unleash themselves, without restraint thus revealing who they are, what they think and how they want to proceed in whatever the matter at hand is. I have seen this from both sides too. BTW, you cant imagine it either.
MADE IT MORE FUN
I noticed when I came into some money and power, I became more liberal in procedures and rewards. I started taking what was a business environment and making it more of a social productive event … (9 comments)

pride: YOU CAN BE CONTROLLED BY YOUR INSECURITY AND VANITY - 07/28/14 03:02 AM
If you don't get a handle on your own insecurity and vanity, then someone else will and usually it is not to the persons liking either. Its your vulnerable spot, unfinished business that visited with you early on and is now at home in you interfering with your carefree life and existence. It is not supposed to have a front row seat BTW...
THE TRIGGER
Some people trigger other peoples insecurity and vanity without even knowing that they have done so. Its the truth that does it. Someone makes an innocent comment that is or is not appropriate and someone takes issue with it... wanting to … (5 comments)

pride: HI MAINTENANCE OR HIGH MAINTENANCE - 03/31/14 06:27 AM
You the person should be an ongoing piece of evolving work. Sorry, you are not able to stay the same or devolve unless you choose to do so but true and real life is not set up that way. You are to always be assessing the self, improving, critiquing, adjusting and eventually striving to be better
HOW CUTE AND ADORABLE
You don't have to tell this to a newborn baby when they first enter into the world. They are already all they can be and they remain lovable, wanted and near perfect with innocence and simplicity driven with love all taken place without effort. It is their default
(2 comments)

 
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