respectful attitudes and behavior: AR Etiquette: Be Mindful of What You Dish.
- 01/28/24 07:54 AM
AR Etiquette: Be Mindful of What You Dish.
Catty and snarky are an every day practice on many online, social media platforms. Attention-mongers often grab their audience at a detrimental cost. Thankfully, ActiveRain is not that type of free-for-all forum.
Some things to avoid here:
Be careful with words. Disagree with an author? Be respectful, behaving poorly reflects badly on the verbal attacker. Besides, anyone is free to write an opposing viewpoint blog. It's unacceptable to take a post and turn it in a downward direction.
Do not spam posts. There's no need, whatsoever, to leave a reminder about a selling area, when commenting. There are … (27 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: A Honey Bee's Life Expectancy
- 10/13/23 09:28 AM
A Honey Bee's Life Expectancy When faced with threats, it's most crucial that honey bees weigh the difference between the fight or flight response. Though all in the hive expect to live out their entire life span, once a honey bee stings, death occurs. Humans often cause or create conflict between one another, resulting in going off half cocked with anger or yelling the loudest or getting physical. The consequences of reckless or careless behavior can be detrimental. If only humans lived their lives as the honey bees, for the better good of the community, selfless service toward foraging, feeding and keeping safe everyone … (8 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: You don't say. What?!
- 03/04/22 07:47 AM
You don't say. What?!
Be careful of the words you say,
Keep them short and sweet.
You never know, from day to day,
Which ones you'll have to eat.
~ Unknown
When something pops into your head, it doesn't always need to be shared. Remaining professional when negotiating a Real Estate Purchase Contract ensures your diet is free of crow, humble pie and dirt.
Happy Friday all, enjoy the weekend ahead!
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respectful attitudes and behavior: O-M-G! You'll never guess what happened...
- 07/20/21 06:33 PM
O-M-G! You'll never guess what happened...
Part of the Code of Ethics talks about by keeping client/agent conversations confidential, rather than sharing with fellow agents, the client's family members and anyone outside of the transaction.
Other COE duties include:
Loyalty Care Obedience Accounting Disclosure
Relaying client/agent information to a willing audience on social media sites without the express consent of a buyer/seller says much about the author but also opens that person up to potential litigious action.
We can all use more inspirational stories of dealings between clients, agents and affiliates. They fail to gain quite the same amount of attention as wildly flourished, … (45 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: And then she said, "You can't rely on past clients for new business."
- 07/18/21 09:50 AM
And then she said, "You can't rely on past clients for new business."
If that was true, there would be no long-standing work models, companies or industries. Repeat customers ensure continued success. Retention is also key when marketing to people from prior dealings.
Re-occurring business opportunities come from very satisfied clients who understand the process and appreciate sincere, competent representation throughout the real estate process.
Many of my colleagues fail to market or follow up at all with past clients. Not sure why. There is a veritable goldmine of steadfast relationships and future business when consumers feel you truly care.
Am blessed with Clients for … (64 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Not salty enough? Here's some more seasoning for you.
- 07/16/21 09:41 AM
Not salty enough? Here's some more seasoning for you.
Many new agents bash long-standing agents in one breath online and in the next, ask for help because they lack confidence, knowledge or are unfamiliar with situations as they arise.
Making fun of seasoned agents seems to be a growing trend by those who are deficient and would rather have business handed to them than get out to pursue buyers and sellers.
Some comments made about veteran agents:
~ They are condescending dinosaurs.
~ They have horrible habits and are extremely lazy.
~ They are clueless when it comes to technology, trends in marketing, new forms, etc.
There is … (10 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Well, You Can Just Kiss My Grits!
- 08/01/20 07:37 AM
Well, You Can Just Kiss My Grits!
The art of civil discussion is slowly being replaced with raised voices, finger pointing and divisiveness due to choices in some peoples communication styles. Gone are the days of respecting or listening to differing opinions.
Preferring sugar-coating over a straight forward approach, they cry foul when becoming the target of direct reproach after creating a dramatic atmosphere. Some common words may also trigger a spittle-flinging, yelling tirade.
Have you noticed on social media sites that a lot people only wish to be heard and refuse to allow anyone else's point of view? If someone tries further an explanation or converse, they are nasty-basted, … (10 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Didn't want to put a ring on it!
- 12/16/19 08:18 AM
Didn't want to put a ring on it!
A buyer couple was looking to purchase a second home in the southern Utah area, I was excited to help. The wife was the point of contact due to her husband's hectic schedule. After discussing wants and needs, we all agreed to view some homes that fit their criteria the following weekend.
We walked through several properties, finding one that grabbed their attention and emotions. Upon asking them to sign a Buyer Broker Agreement, he refused, saying they wanted to keep their options open. In Utah, an offer is only submitted after establishing representation.
The offer was finally sent to them outlining terms and conditions. Instead … (34 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Giving Thanks to our U.S. Military, Every Day!
- 11/12/18 07:05 AM
Giving Thanks to our U.S. Military, Every Day!
We are so very proud of these two U. S. Navy Veterans. Sebastian was awarded the Navy’s Blue Jacket of The Year during his time in service. Devyn was also awarded Junior Blue Jacket of the Year during hers. Thank you both for stepping up and making a positive difference, it is much appreciated!
Sebastian & Devyn Kubat - U.S Navy Veterans
As a proud and patriotic 2nd generation born American, giving thanks to our military people is of utmost importance to me. Every 11th of November we pay tribute to military Veterans worldwide from all military branches. In my opinion, service-people deserve … (8 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Expect NO LESS. Align with THE BEST!
- 10/01/18 03:54 PM
Expect NO LESS. Align with THE BEST!
When real estate transactions finally make it to the closing table, deadlines and terms are met, all impediments and challenges have been resolved, giving way to a smooth closing.
Most of the the time.
Some details may emerge that should have been disclosed early on, like the intention to do a 1031 Exchange. The seller let it be known that was the plan, thankfully the title company had an in-house 1031 Exchange Intermediary. With everyone's cooperation, they recorded on the following day as scheduled, with little discomfort.
That title company stepped up and did a miraculous job in less than one day. … (10 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Dad blasted!
- 08/30/18 06:38 AM
Dad blasted!
Been hit lately with a tirade by someone who simply had a differing opinion?
Sure wish people would think of how it feels to be on the receiving end before going off half-cocked. Besides, everyone online can see public post rants.
Do agents willingly put their clients, family and friends into a hot-head’s hands? Not this one.
Maintain a respectful stance in conversations, otherwise business may take a southern direction or permanent vacation with no return plans. Professionalism has its advantages, many, many more than the Other Side.
While its okay to have some FUN, it is not acceptable to demean or disparage!
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Buying or selling a home in southern Utah? Call me at 435.632.9374 … (39 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Unable to handle a difference of opinion? You have options.
- 06/08/18 11:19 AM
Unable to handle a difference of opinion? You have options.
Social media platforms are meant for conversing among like-minded members and professional groups. A difference of opinion is most common, welcomed and expected among members here in the Rain.
Thankfully, we can respectfully agree to disagree (most of us anyway) on diverse subject matter. If you are annoyed or refuse to accept the expressed answer on a post, there are options rather than snapping at the commenter unnecessarily.
You can:
Turn off commenting. Though that makes it a one-way conversation going nowhere fast. Why even take the time to write a meaningful post if just posting and running?
Delete … (12 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Anything with a mouth can bite!
- 05/15/18 06:15 AM
Anything with a mouth can bite!
There is much participation as a member of a gardening group on Facebook. People post their prized produce and flower photos. Questions are asked and seasoned dirt lubbers are more than happy to answer, based on their experiences.
A woman found a Praying Mantis pod on a tree she pulled inside for the winter and set outside again. She was curious, asking members what in the world it could be. Should she take it off...could the mother still be in the basement...would the pod damage the tree? Soon she had more answers than she could handle, adding to her gardening knowledge base and was … (16 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Successful relationships just happen!
- 12/21/17 07:17 AM
Successful relationships just happen!
Do you believe that? I sure do. Being genuine plays a large part when first meeting someone and can create a lasting impression. No prior planning required when the attraction is mutual.
From my experience, these 3 things are necessary:
TRUST is essential in any relationship, though it may not be immediate, time can build a solid foundation between parties.
RESPECT means acknowledging set boundaries while confidently appreciating the contributions put forth by each.
HONEST INTENTIONS become clear when a sincere commitment shows itself through fulfilled expectations and follow through.
Tried and true methods lead to gaining trust in both personal or professional relationships. Even Peanut and Kenslee Mae prove that mutual respect … (12 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Seek first to understand, then to be understood.
- 06/02/17 08:06 AM
Seek first to understand, then to be understood.
The quote: 'Seek first to understand, then to be understood.' by Stephen Covey comes to mind when I think of the discord between people anymore.
Too many people today are so rigid in their thought processes that they refuse bending to outside opinions. Despite that, they still wish to be heard and validated.
Sitting back and observing online behaviors on social media sites allows me to quietly make an exit if I lack anything constructive to add.
Believe me, some days, I'd like to strike out!
AR has maintained a respectful stance and most members can have conversations … (18 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Can you hear me now?
- 01/17/17 11:57 AM
Can you hear me now?
A woman looking to purchase a home site to build on in St. George, Utah needed assistance from an experienced real estate agent. The conversation went well until I asked her to sign paperwork. She suddenly became hard of hearing...
A few days ago, she approached my husband, who works in an upper priced, gated community, questioning him about property for sale and prices. She gave him her number and asked that I call.
He remembered her saying the search was on the down low. That if other people knew she was looking they'd be upset she didn't use their services. I was more than … (5 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Get it right the first time, no Do-over's allowed!
- 09/05/16 11:40 PM
Get it right the first time, no Do-over's allowed!
Daybreak and day end, nature creates an amazing first impression. In real estate, a one-time opportunity awaits when meeting new clients. The connection made will determine the direction and longevity of the relationship.
Prove yourself as a capable real estate agent by:
Being prepared - Respect for clients shows in the work ethic. Ever on-the-ready to help them realize their home dreams matters.
Showing up on time - Punctuality shows respect for all involved. Set the alarm if necessary, just be there! Notify if you will be late also.
Meeting deadlines - Ensure clients wants and needs are satisfied and get paperwork signed by all parties in a … (8 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Mutual Admiration Society of southern Utah
- 01/14/15 12:47 AM
Mutual Admiration Society of southern Utah
Have you ever met someone and became instant friends, right on the spot without any prior introductions or initial contact? You both felt a strong connection and every time you see each other or speak on the phone, you reconnect easily?
I have. My Mutual Admiration Society friend works for another brokerage in the St. George area and lives in the same community a client is contemplating on building a home. In order to gain some useful information, we met at her sales office. Upon our arrival, we hugged and she told him it was the Mutual Admiration Society at work.
It truly was! … (10 comments)
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respectful attitudes and behavior: Have a HEART people!
- 10/18/14 01:27 AM
Have a HEART people!
Social media brings friends and families together from great distances. It is also a great way to create business opportunities through online relationships.
Too often people take out their frustrations and anger on people who are not in the least deserving of that kind of treatment just because their opinions differ.
Many choose to hide behind a keyboard, name-call and throw out hateful and vitriolic responses because there is almost no accountability for such behavior.
It's a shame that people use the internet as a means to hurt others just because they can. I have a choice … (13 comments)
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