active rain: You're Eventually Going To Run Out Of Suckers - 10/18/22 06:06 PM
You're Eventually Going To Run Out Of Suckers:
"Inspired by Phone with Rome!"
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 and I were chatting on the phone, not long ago, about a referral I gave her to a NorCal Agent, when we wandered into a broader conversation sharing a couple "war stories" about our industry (pros and cons). We got on the topic agent behavior in the market and this phrase popped out of my mouth:
"Agents that work transactionally, especially with their own agenda prioritized, are eventually going to run out of suckers."
Always the positive encourager, Margaret immediately announced "That sounds like a blog title" … (48 comments)

active rain: Just A Few Initial Thoughts About Marketing - 07/26/22 02:16 PM
Barbara Todaro it is so wonderful to see you back posting on ActiveRain Real Estate Network!!! We miss your presence and you're always in our thoughts. I had to post a re-blog of your return to the fold! 
 
                         
I thought I'd write a few lines about my exit from the real estate business. I planned my exit many years ago. I've been licensed since 1978 and my last commission check was received 2 years ago. For the past 2 years, the well has dried!!! I'll not be renewing … (6 comments)

active rain: Points Store #1 Purchase Ooh LA LA - 07/09/22 05:08 PM
Dining at ADMO Les Ombres
We of course chose this from the points store because we wanted to fine dine with the best cuisine, in a romantic city that provides the most amazing Eifel Tower view.
We're planning a trip to Paris this year for our 20th Wedding Anniversary, so this Points Package Offering will help supplement the trip.
Paris is on my bucket list for the obvious reasons and the no-so-obvious reason that I am in fact part French. My family lineage there is is through both the Denue's and the Leonhardt's. We grew up speaking French only at the dinner table, no … (20 comments)

active rain: 'Ole Glory Coast to Coast' - Week 2 (a June AR Challenge) - 06/09/22 07:14 AM
This week I came by the photo I'm using for my second entry by accident, I was looking for a photo for my marketing and serendipitously came across this one:
 
This reminds me of two things:
 
The property was for sale, but our freedom is not. In fact, our military pays many prices including the ultimate sacrifice to ensure our freedom isn't...
sold on the cheap. I have intense respect for our Veterans and Active Duty Military: my Great Grandfather (WWI Army), both Grandfathers (WWII Navy & Airforce), my Step-Father (Korean War Airforce) and Uncle (Vietnam War Navy) are all Veterans.
I serve … (9 comments)

active rain: Stolen From The Journal of TJ Nelson: A May Challenge - 05/01/22 06:38 AM
 
1. What was your first job and what did you learn from it?
The first paid job I ever had was working with my Grandfather on all his rental properties. My step-Dad had died in September 1979 and I was in 6th grade. My Pa Pa decided I needed to stay busy, to keep learning and growing. So, I learned to function before 7:00AM, I learned you had to be able to put your name to the work you did that day, or it was a do over and I learned to repair & paint houses and fences and I learned how … (12 comments)

active rain: Active Rain On Me... (An April Challenge) - 04/02/22 08:59 AM
What Does Active Rain Mean to me?
April 2022 Challenge
 
My First Active Rain Meetup
 
I joined Active Rain October 8, 2008, and I had no idea what blogging was, why people did it and even more baffling to me; why would I care what you wrote unless you were a famous author?!
I was introduced to Active Rain almost 14 years ago by Russel Ray, who is Jim Frimmer's husband (#37 in CA) and used to be my property inspector. Russel at that time was the #1 blogger on Active Rain in CA and I believe in the top 10 of the US … (66 comments)

active rain: Perfectly Flawed: An Open Secret (February Challenge PT1) - 02/26/22 12:02 PM
Perfectly Flawed: An Open Secret
Post 1 will be about how your experiences have affected your personal life and what your book would be about. I can share my book would be about the personal lessons below, and how they guide me through a good life.
In Winter 1985/1986 I was homeless, living in my car for 3 months at 16yrs. In April 1989 both my hands 80% amputated at 20 yrs. Physical recovery would take 3 years and the PTSD is still with me to this day. In late 1989, bought my first house through both rent-to own and seller financing methods. … (10 comments)

active rain: Ripples of Inspiration In The Rain - 10/16/21 07:53 AM
Welcome! This post was inspired by two of our AR members (and their posts) in Active Rain; Kathy Streib recently inspired Wayne Martin to revisit some of his old posts and he came across one of his going back to 2011 where he advises his readers to:
"Sell yourself...You are the only thing your competition cannot copy!" ~ Wayne Martin
 
That really inspired me to reflect back on my training and I agree with what Wayne wrote, I believe it's 100% accurate and is the basis for how I run my
100% Working By Referral Business
as coached by Buffini & Company … (18 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Ignorance Avoidance - 01/24/21 09:51 AM
"Anyone who stops learning is old,
whether at twenty or eighty.
Anyone who keeps learning stays young.
The greatest thing in life
is to keep your mind young."
~ Henry Ford
 
Your action for today
is to make a list of three things
you have learned in the past week.
If you can't come up with three,
focus on learning something new today.
 
“I am an explorer of facts, maps, songs and books.
I remain a student of life…for life.”
~ TJ Nelson
 
Design an Extraordinary Day!
 
 
💡 OOPS! If you missed a previous “Take Action” post👇
👉 Take Action Archieves👈
 
 
 
We work 100% By Referral!
Our experienced team is coached by the … (7 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Open Your Package - 11/09/20 06:14 PM
 
"Everyone is gifted
- but some people never open their package."
~ An Anonymous Author
 
 
Your action for today
is to reflect on what are a few of your gifts
and be mindful of using one of them.
 
Design an Extraordinary Day!
 
 
💡 OOPS! You missed Yesterday's “Take Action” post 
👉 Take Action: Unlock Your Wisdom 👈
 
 
 
 
We work 100% By Referral!
Our experienced team is coached by the #1 business
coaching company in North America: 
Buffini & Company for over 20 years!
 
All our properties come with
3D Virtual Tours
and Professional Photography,
Marketing and Negotiating Skills...
most agents do not posses!
Contact us for a pressure-FREE consultation.
 
 
💡 More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here: 👇
Postcards From Success Facebook Page
 
 
   Image courtesy of [9nong.] at FreeDigitalPhotos.net
Image 2 Courtesy of Buffini & … (5 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Keep Laughing - 11/02/20 07:03 AM
"You don't stop laughing because you grow old;
you grow old because you stop laughing."
~ Keynote Speaker, Michael Pritchard 
 
 
Your action for today
is to see if you can find
three different opportunities to laugh.
 
😁😂🤣😅😁
 
My first heroes were comedians.
Groucho Mark, Abbot & Costello & George Carlin, etc.
I always sought the laughter to heal my pain and as a way of
connecting my introverted self with others.
 
"I intend to live forever, or die trying." ~ Groucho Marx
 
 
Design an Extraordinary Day!
 
 
💡 OOPS! You missed Yesterday's “Take Action” post 
👉Take Action: Be An Extraordinary Influence👈
 
 
 
 
We work 100% By Referral!
Our experienced team is coached by the #1 business
coaching company in North America: 
Buffini & Company for over 20 years!
 
All … (9 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Risk Improvement - 10/15/20 06:25 PM
"Our lives improve only when we take chances -
and the first and most difficult risk we can take
is to be honest with ourselves."
~ Editor, Walter Anderson
Your action for today
is to think about one positive thing
you can do about something
that is not working in your life.
 
Design an Extraordinary Day!
 
 
💡 OOPS! You missed Yesterday's “Take Action” post 
👉Take Action: Get To Work👈
 
 
 
 
We work 100% By Referral!
Our experienced team is coached by the #1 business
coaching company in North America: 
Buffini & Company for over 20 years!
 
All our properties come with
3D Virtual Tours
and Professional Photography,
Marketing and Negotiating Skills...
most agents do not posses!
Contact us for a pressure-FREE consultation.
 
 
💡 More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here: … (8 comments)

active rain: Take Action: To Get Results - 09/29/20 07:13 AM
"You may never know what results come from your action.
But if you do nothing, there will be no result."
~ Mahatma Gandhi
 
 
Your action for today
is to look at your "to do" list,
and take action on something
you've been putting off.
 
Design an Extraordinary Day!
 
 
💡 OOPS! You missed Yesterday's “Take Action” post 👇
Take Action: Have Heart Will Travel 
 
 
💡 More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here: 👇
Postcards From Success Facebook Page
 
 
 
 
We work 100% By Referral!
Our experienced team is coached by the #1 business
coaching company in North America: 
Buffini & Company for over 20 years!
 
All our properties come with
3D Virtual Tours
and Professional Photography,
Marketing and Negotiating Skills...
most agents do not posses!
Contact us for a pressure-FREE consultation.
 
👉FREE HOME … (11 comments)

active rain: Take Action: 2 Ears / 1 Mouth - Do the Math - 09/15/20 07:15 AM
"Most of the successful people I've known
are the ones who do more listening than talking."
Financier, Bernard M. Baruch
Your action for today
is to participate in a meeting
or engage someone in a conversation
where you do most of the listening.
 
This one is sooooo extremely hard for me, I admit it.
How about you?
 
Design an Extraordinary Day!
 
 
💡 OOPS! You missed Yesterday's “Take Action” post 👇
Take Action: IMPROVE
 
 
💡 More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here: 👇
Postcards From Success Facebook Page
 
 
 
 
We work 100% By Referral!
Our experienced team is coached by the #1 business
coaching company in North America: 
Buffini & Company for over 20 years!
 
All our properties come with
3D Virtual Tours
and Professional Photography,
Marketing and Negotiating Skills...most … (9 comments)

active rain: Take Action: And Remember - 09/11/20 08:59 PM
"Always remember that
striving and struggling precede success,
even in the dictionary."
Writer, Sarah Ban Breathnach
Your action for today
is to see if there is something
that you are currently struggling with
and remind yourself that this may be
an ingredient for your success.
 
Design an Extraordinary Day!
 
 
💡 OOPS! You missed Yesterday's “Take Action” post 👇
Take Action: Train Your Brain
 
 
💡 More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here: 👇
Postcards From Success Facebook Page
 
 
 
 
We work 100% By Referral!
Our experienced team is coached by the #1 business
coaching company in North America: 
Buffini & Company for over 20 years!
 
All our properties come with
3D Virtual Tours
and Professional Photography,
Marketing and Negotiating Skills...most agents do not posses!
Contact us for a pressure-FREE consultation.
 
👉FREE … (16 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Seek To Create WOW! - 09/09/20 07:36 AM
"Look for every opportunity to go the extra mile.
That's how you become extra special and extra successful."
~ Writer, Steve Ventura
 
Your action for today
is to do something that is
over and above the call of duty.
Virgin America became the #1 Airline
8 years in a row because they looked
for opportunities to create WOW!
For their employees first, customers second.
Happy employees create happy customers.
Design an Extraordinary Day!
 
 
💡 OOPS! You missed Yesterday's “Take Action” post 👇
Take Action: Make Lemonade
 
 
💡 More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here: 👇
Postcards From Success Facebook Page
 
 
 
 
We work 100% By Referral!
Our experienced team is coached by the #1 business
coaching company in North America: 
Buffini & Company for over 20 … (17 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Choose Wisely - 09/08/20 07:11 AM
"Be careful of the environment you choose,
for it will shape you;
be careful the friends you choose,
for you will become like them."
Author, W. Clement Stone
Your action for today
is to think of three of your close friends
and identify what qualities you like
the most and the least about them.
 
Design an Extraordinary Day!
 
 
💡 OOPS! You missed Yesterday's “Take Action” post 👇
Take Action: Make Lemonade
 
 
💡 More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here: 👇
Postcards From Success Facebook Page
 
 

 
 
We work 100% By Referral!
Our experienced team is coached by the #1 business
coaching company … (11 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Fear of The Dark No More - 09/05/20 05:36 AM

"Everyone has talent;
what is rare is the courage
to follow the talent
to the dark places where it leads."
~Author, Erica Jong
 
Your action for today
is to ask yourself whether
you are making full use
of the talents you've got.
Or have you stopped short
from fear of the unknown,
or fear of the success they lead to?
 
Design an Extraordinary Day!
Happy 3-Day Weekend! 
 
💡 If you missed Yesterday's “Take Action” post 👇
Take Action: Decide What You Want
 
 
 
💡 More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here: 👇
Postcards From Success Facebook Page
 
 
 
 
We work 100% By Referral!
Our experienced team is coached by the #1 business
coaching company in North America: 
Buffini & Company for over 20 years!
 
All our properties come … (4 comments)

active rain: Take Action: Decide What You Want - 09/04/20 07:23 AM
 
"The indispensable first step to getting
the things you want out of life is this:
decide what you want."
~ Presidential Speech Writer, Actor and Author, Ben Stein
 
 
Your action for today
is to make a decision on
something you want
that you don't yet have
and communicate to someone else.
 
Once you "put it out there", 
people and the universe will
go to work on helping achieve your goals.
You must create the energy of 
moving towards it and you
cannot keep it a secret.
 
Design an Extraordinary Day!
 
 
💡 If you missed Yesterday's “Take Action” post 👇
Take Action: Slam Dunk!
 
 
 
💡 More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration found here: 👇
Postcards From Success Facebook Page
 
 
 
 
We work 100% By Referral!
Our experienced … (15 comments)

active rain: Take Action: TODAY! - 08/31/20 06:42 AM
 
 
"A year from now you will wish you had started today."
~ Community Activist, Karen Lamb
 
Your action for today is
to pick one of the things on your wish list
and take the first step towards achieving it.
For me, it must be continuing the book I'm working on as Mimi Foster 
so kindly nudged me about this weekend-publically on Active Rain, 🙄😂🤣.
Procrastination is caused by the fear of the chnage that comes from success.
The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, or today. I will start today.
 
Design an Extraordinary Day!
 
 
💡 If you missed Yesterday's “Take Action” post 👇
Take Action: Silver Lining Playbook
 
 
 
💡 More joyful stories, photos, antidotes,
quotes and inspiration … (8 comments)

 
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets, CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego (Big Block Realty 858.232.8722)

Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets

CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

La Jolla, CA

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Big Block Realty 858.232.8722

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